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#77 Nov 13 2008 at 5:04 PM Rating: Good
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The Declaration of Independence wrote:
(...) We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. (...)


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second-hand 19th-century political theory as grossly misunderstood by selfish, narcissistic ideologues with delusions of grandeur and parroted by legions of pathetic plebeians who imagine themselves to be übermenschen despite their failure to advance beyond their lowly-to-middling station in society


to which you are referring. If so, you got the century very wrong. I for one see nothing wrong with Gbaji's interpretation of it. The problem I see is in how he applies it to this particular question.


You have no idea how far off you are.

Gbaji's political philosophy, his own protests to the contrary notwithstanding, owes vastly more to Proudhon than to Locke or Jefferson.
#78 Nov 13 2008 at 5:06 PM Rating: Good
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I'm new to this forum and couldn't help but notice this thread.

So here's my two cents, which is probably worth just that.

Most seem to believe homosexuality is, and should be, readily accepted by the US. If the people of this country truly believed there to be no moral qualms about homosexuality then how could the most liberal state in the union accept this proposition?


Could it be that homosexuality is not as an acceptable practice as we've been led to believe?

Commence the christian bashing.


The fact that you think California is the "most liberal state in the union" proves that you do not live in the real world.
#79 Nov 13 2008 at 5:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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dupeeconqr wrote:
I'm new to this forum and couldn't help but notice this thread.

So here's my two cents, which is probably worth just that.

Most seem to believe homosexuality is, and should be, readily accepted by the US. If the people of this country truly believed there to be no moral qualms about homosexuality then how could the most liberal state in the union accept this proposition?


Could it be that homosexuality is not as an acceptable practice as we've been led to believe?

Commence the christian bashing.

Popularity and acceptability are irrelevant.


#80 Nov 13 2008 at 6:17 PM Rating: Good
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Hell, I'll throw my unpopular opinions into this wretched stew. The thought of two guys kissing makes me very uncomfortable, but I don't see that as a reason to say they can't get married. who the fack am I to tell someone else what they can and can not do? Eventually gays will be allowed to marry. No matter how gross I may find it, to deny them because I don't approve isn't merely discrimination, it's down right being a clueless *******. I'm no scientist, but last I heard the World revolves around the Sun, not any single person.


Speaking of imposing personal views on others. I would never tell a woman what she can and can not do with her own body. Where I do draw the line though is when they remove a FIVE MONTH OLD fetus from the Mother, except the head, jab scissors in it's brains and scramble them. That's NOT her body. That's murder in my book.


Anyway, I mainly just lurk and read here. Not even sure why I posted ( all that Guinness may have something to do with it). Please feel free to carry on.
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#81 Nov 13 2008 at 7:16 PM Rating: Good
dupeeconqr wrote:
I'm new to this forum and couldn't help but notice this thread.

So here's my two cents, which is probably worth just that.

Most seem to believe homosexuality is, and should be, readily accepted by the US. If the people of this country truly believed there to be no moral qualms about homosexuality then how could the most liberal state in the union accept this proposition?


Could it be that homosexuality is not as an acceptable practice as we've been led to believe?

Commence the christian bashing.

Edited, Nov 13th 2008 8:01pm by dupeeconqr

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at one time, slavery was acceptable and legal.
at one time, blacks couldnt eat or drink or go to school where whites did.
at one time, marying off yor daughter who was 13 to a male relative who was mid twenties or older was both acceptable and legal.

i am trying to understand what point you were trying to make? what is acceptable now, like what was acceptable then has ZERO bering on weather it is right or wrong.

people actually voted FOR slavery in some states.

weather it is acceptable has no berring on weather its right, wrong, or moral.

find a better argument. the cristian right has been shoving DOGMA down our throats for over 200 years with **** poor arguments like yours.

it is a bad law. it is destined for appeal. just like slavery and every other type of discrimination. it is just a matter of time before people take another look at it and scratch their heads wondering how their ancestors could have been so bigoted and discriminatory.

hopefully, when it finnally goes, so will the DOGMA the christian right has been trying to force us to live by along with it.

dont get me wrong, i believe in God. but i believe homosexuality is an issue between that individual and God and in no way is it my place to either discriminate against or.....JUDGE.

they want to marry? have at it. i will even send you a card for your wedding ful of blessings. its not for me,and i know how to say no if another man asks me to marry him. im not afraid of bob and tim getting married. wont change my life or my beliefs one bit.
#82 Nov 13 2008 at 7:56 PM Rating: Excellent
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Again, this has denigrated into a snoozefest. Thanks , Gbaji, at the very least for being consistent. If not for you this forum would be a giant circle jerk and we would all be covered in each other's emissions. That said, the 'reason' argument is in the other thread. We're arguing emotion here. Justify how it's okay to break someone's heart, how it's better for the common good, and how it's helping the world be rosier. Discuss how proud you'll be to tell your grandchildren that you took the stand you did on this.

I think the OP was a valid point, but it's one that will be only seen through the lens of history. John Stewart used a term that I liked a few days back when he asked one of his guests if he didn't fear "being on the wrong side of history" on a particular topic. I think that people that pushed this measure through will someday be dramatized in a feature-length film, and a some twinky boygirl will win his Oscar for portraying Ellen Degeneres and we'll all heave a big sigh at the theater and teach our children that people were ignorant then, but thank Goodness Someone Came Along and Stood Up for Us All. Then we'll either a) sit down with our spouse and reminisce about that time and the difficult times we got through or b)bemoan the downfall of western civilization.

I've got odds on which side you'll be on, buddy.

#83 Nov 14 2008 at 3:10 AM Rating: Default
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When you can definitively say with any modicum of proof when a fetus becomes a so-called human, then you could have a leg to stand on. As it is, because you cannot, you must afford them the same rights as anybody else, if for no other reason than you err on the side of caution.

This is the same argument that gay marriage proponents are using to call for so-called equal rights for homosexuals. Homos are asking for special rights because they claim they are the way they are due to their genetics. They claim to have no control over this, no more than heterosexuals do. And to back this up they offer sketchy scientific evidence.

If sketchy scientific evidence is all that is necessary to procure extra rights, then unborn humans easily pass that smell test since no one can demonstrably prove when a fetus becomes "human."

If it weren't but for that, homos wouldn't have any reasonable claim for additional rights already afforded them by law.

Look at it this way: Grady loves to guzzle man-gurt. Ok, we all accept that because he's such a lovable happy ***. But he claims to be a *** swilling **** tickler because he was born that way, though he offers nothing but questionable scientific evidence. So once again, we grudgingly give him the benefit of the doubt that he was born a man chowder swallowing a$$ bandit from birth. Ostensibly he has no choice but to gargle baby batter because it's in his genes. But he can't prove that. For all we know, he just developed the taste for men's **** when his father molested him. Who knows? But gay rights advocates are willing to overlook such a glaring legal deficiency and give them the extra-special right to do something that has no legal, environmental, or genetic basis-- at least one that they can prove.

Given this wonderful sentiment, it isn't a stretch at all to give other people a basic right: The right to live. To say that unborn children aren't human is the equivilent of what you claim is bullsh1t, in that homos are deviants. Yours is just a more politically correct point of view, but no more valid than a pro-life advocate since they are both just opinions based on scientific evidence that doesn't have enough proof to draw a conclusion-- other than that Grady has been empirically proven to love sucking d1ck.

/shrugs

Hey, it's in his nature.

Totem

Edited, Nov 14th 2008 6:12am by Totem
#84 Nov 14 2008 at 6:35 AM Rating: Excellent
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Totem wrote:

This is the same argument that gay marriage proponents are using to call for so-called equal rights for homosexuals. Homos are asking for special rights because they claim they are the way they are due to their genetics. They claim to have no control over this, no more than heterosexuals do. And to back this up they offer sketchy scientific evidence.



Wait, I'm sorry, but I'm a little slow on the uptake, not the sharpest tool in the shed and all that jazz. I really need this explained.

You're saying that at some point you chose to be sexually aroused by females? If Jessica Alba came up to you nude and started fondling you, you wouldn't be aroused due to any primitive urge to procreate, but rather because at some point you made a conscious decision to be turned on by hot young babes?

I ask because I am exceedingly heterosexual and have been for about 40 years. I don't ever remember wrestling with that decision. I have always been attracted to females. I also have always been repulsed by the thought of intimacy with another male. I thought I was born that way. I had no idea that I must have made a choice in the matter at some point.

I guess I'm just a dumb ***. I thought that if I put a pot of water on the stove and turned up the heat that the water boiled because of a simple chemical reaction. I had no idea the water actually chooses to boil.
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#85 Nov 14 2008 at 7:02 AM Rating: Excellent
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dupeeconqr wrote:
I'm new to this forum and couldn't help but notice this thread.

So here's my two cents, which is probably worth just that.

Most seem to believe homosexuality is, and should be, readily accepted by the US. If the people of this country truly believed there to be no moral qualms about homosexuality then how could the most liberal state in the union accept this proposition?


Could it be that homosexuality is not as an acceptable practice as we've been led to believe?

Commence the christian bashing.

Edited, Nov 13th 2008 8:01pm by dupeeconqr
If it is an unacceptable practice, why are we not punishing those who partake in consenting same-sex sex?

There's only one thing keeping same-sex marriage illegal - ignorance.
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#86 Nov 14 2008 at 7:21 AM Rating: Excellent
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dupeeconqr wrote:
Could it be that homosexuality is not as an acceptable practice as we've been led to believe?


Why are you and others so concerned with what goes on in someone elses household or bedroom? Is your life so sad/meaningless that you need to interfere in someone elses life to help you forget your own failings?

I'm not really pro-same sex marriage, but I am definitely not against it. The way I see it is does it affect me or hurt anyone else? Nope, let them have it. That's kind of the point of freedom and liberties. It's not infringing on you or your freedoms, so why keep others from doing it?
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#87 Nov 14 2008 at 7:34 AM Rating: Decent
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Totem wrote:
When you can definitively say with any modicum of proof when a fetus becomes a so-called human, then you could have a leg to stand on. As it is, because you cannot, you must afford them the same rights as anybody else, if for no other reason than you err on the side of caution.

This is the same argument that gay marriage proponents are using to call for so-called equal rights for homosexuals. Homos are asking for special rights because they claim they are the way they are due to their genetics. They claim to have no control over this, no more than heterosexuals do. And to back this up they offer sketchy scientific evidence.

If sketchy scientific evidence is all that is necessary to procure extra rights, then unborn humans easily pass that smell test since no one can demonstrably prove when a fetus becomes "human."

If it weren't but for that, homos wouldn't have any reasonable claim for additional rights already afforded them by law.

Look at it this way: Grady loves to guzzle man-gurt. Ok, we all accept that because he's such a lovable happy ***. But he claims to be a *** swilling **** tickler because he was born that way, though he offers nothing but questionable scientific evidence. So once again, we grudgingly give him the benefit of the doubt that he was born a man chowder swallowing a$$ bandit from birth. Ostensibly he has no choice but to gargle baby batter because it's in his genes. But he can't prove that. For all we know, he just developed the taste for men's **** when his father molested him. Who knows? But gay rights advocates are willing to overlook such a glaring legal deficiency and give them the extra-special right to do something that has no legal, environmental, or genetic basis-- at least one that they can prove.

Given this wonderful sentiment, it isn't a stretch at all to give other people a basic right: The right to live. To say that unborn children aren't human is the equivilent of what you claim is bullsh1t, in that homos are deviants. Yours is just a more politically correct point of view, but no more valid than a pro-life advocate since they are both just opinions based on scientific evidence that doesn't have enough proof to draw a conclusion-- other than that Grady has been empirically proven to love sucking d1ck.

/shrugs

Hey, it's in his nature.

Totem
When or whether a fetus is a person is one debate Totem. Whether or not a US Citizen (undeniably a person) is due equal rights under the law, or denied those rights based on gender is another.

While the question of whether or not a women can decide what to do with a growth in her body and whether or not two people are allowed to marry are both privacy issues, the two arguments you pose don't relate to each other.






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#88 Nov 14 2008 at 7:42 AM Rating: Excellent
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When or whether a fetus is a person is one debate Totem. Whether or not a US Citizen (undeniably a person) is due equal rights under the law, or denied those rights based on gender is another.

While the question of whether or not a women can decide what to do with a growth in her body and whether or not two people are allowed to marry are both privacy issues, the two arguments you pose don't relate to each other.


Well of course they're not related. But he doesn't really have a leg to stand on in the same-sex marriage debate, and he can play the sympathy card on the abortion debate, so he figures it'd just be easier for him to change the subject.

Edited, Nov 14th 2008 9:42am by Belkira
#89REDACTED, Posted: Nov 14 2008 at 8:27 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Finally, somebody got to the heart of the issue. Elinda, whether or not homosexuals have a choice in the matter of sexual orientation is precisely what is driving the gay marriage debate. If it is genetic, then it stands to reason they deserve marriage rights since they have no choice in determining sexual preference. But if sexual orientation is by choice, then giving a small demographic special rights to marry outside the accepted norm would be to radically chnge the nature of what determines what we define "human rights."
#90 Nov 14 2008 at 8:30 AM Rating: Excellent
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Finally, somebody got to the heart of the issue. Elinda, whether or not homosexuals have a choice in the matter of sexual orientation is precisely what is driving the gay marriage debate. If it is genetic, then it stands to reason they deserve marriage rights since they have no choice in determining sexual preference. But if sexual orientation is by choice, then giving a small demographic special rights to marry outside the accepted norm would be to radically chnge the nature of what determines what we define "human rights."

Totem


Oh, this is *********

Is anyone out there seriously arguing that some homosexuals are homosexuals by choice? Totem, did you make a conscious decision to become heterosexual? Were you like "Hmm, well, I like Bodhi's tight *** as much as I like Halle Berry's sweet round breast, but what the hell, today is Tuesday so I'll go heterosexual."
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#91 Nov 14 2008 at 8:39 AM Rating: Excellent
Perhaps we should no longer allow atheists to marry, since being an atheist is a choice and it is outside the "norm" for our society...

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Finally, somebody got to the heart of the issue. Elinda, whether or not homosexuals have a choice in the matter of sexual orientation is precisely what is driving the gay marriage debate. If it is genetic, then it stands to reason they deserve marriage rights since they have no choice in determining sexual preference. But if sexual orientation is by choice, then giving a small demographic special rights to marry outside the accepted norm would be to radically chnge the nature of what determines what we define "human rights."


You're setting up a trap here. If we say they're homosexual by preference, then you say they have no right to ask for "privileges." If we say they can't help being homosexual because it's...genetic, then you've effectively turned homosexuality into a disease. If gay people take option B they get no marriage rights. If they take option A they're admitting that there is something abnormal about them on a genetic level.

The way around this, of course, is to point out that genetics has nothing to do with it. Homosexuality isn't inherited, and it isn't voluntary. I like apples. My father likes bananas, and my mother prefers pears. I can't tolerate bananas and can stomach the occasional pear. My liking apples isn't a choice, because if it was, I'd probably make the conscious decision to like all three types of fruit, since they're all good for you. It's also not genetic, because members of my family display widely variant tastes. I just prefer apples over pears and really hate bananas. My brother, he's a meat man. Yet we're closely related and our genetic code is almost identical.

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My only point is that since this is utterly and factually true, then it stands to reason that the same application of spurious scientific must be applied to every debatable issue-- including unborn children, who, incidentally but logically, are human. After all, people are giving birth to dogs or cats, they are giving birth to people, who are subsequently deserving of the basic human right of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Calling a fetus not a human, but a bunch of cells is political definition, not a rational, scientific definition. Whether that bunch of cells is a viable human is another matter, but under the law viable or not, as a human they deserve every human right that you and I are afforded.


Regardless of the fact that I'm personally opposed to abortion, you're diverting the issue here. Drawing a metaphor to abortion would be relevant if we were discussing the death penalty or humane treatment of prisoners. What we're discussing here is whether or not to give some mature, consenting adults who like pears the same optional legal protection as other mature, consenting adults who like bananas. A fetus is not a mature, consenting adult, and to my knowledge, it has no opinions whatsoever regarding fruit, or its own sexual preference.

You're going "right to life <-> gay people <=> right to life <-> unborn children". We're not discussing someone's right to life, we're discussing their right to obtain legal protection through the system of marriage. If we were discussing whether or not fetuses should be allowed to get married, your diversion would at least be relevant, but still totally inane.
#93REDACTED, Posted: Nov 14 2008 at 9:14 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) No, homosexuality wouldn't be a disease if it were genetic, just another facet in the human condition. But to state that homosexuality is the same as heteroseuality without any basis of proof places you in the position to acknowledge all sexual behavior is acceptable. If choice is the determiner for human rights, then sexual offenders have magically been replaced with people who just have different ideas of what is acceptable behavior.
#94REDACTED, Posted: Nov 14 2008 at 9:20 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) It's very simple. If homosexuality is a choice, then they can choose to become heterosexual and thus no special marriage rights are needed. The definition of marriage covers them and their needs.
#95REDACTED, Posted: Nov 14 2008 at 9:24 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) /channeling Smash
#96 Nov 14 2008 at 10:22 AM Rating: Good
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Totem wrote:
Finally, somebody got to the heart of the issue. Elinda, whether or not homosexuals have a choice in the matter of sexual orientation is precisely what is driving the gay marriage debate. If it is genetic, then it stands to reason they deserve marriage rights since they have no choice in determining sexual preference. But if sexual orientation is by choice, then giving a small demographic special rights to marry outside the accepted norm would be to radically chnge the nature of what determines what we define "human rights."

Totem
No, whether or not homosexuality is a choice or not is irrelevant to the question of equal rights in marriage. I have just as much right to marry a man for money as I do to marry him for love...or lust.
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#97 Nov 14 2008 at 10:25 AM Rating: Default
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Sure you do, just not another woman. Major difference there.

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#98 Nov 14 2008 at 10:26 AM Rating: Good
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Sure you do, just not another woman. Major difference there.

Totem


Honestly, it's not that much of a difference, though. Just sayin'.

And if atheism isn't outside of the norm for this society, I hardly think that homosexuality is. I mean, hell, they even have their own television channel.
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Totem wrote:
Sure you do, just not another woman. Major difference there.

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Yeah. Big difference. How come?
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#100 Nov 14 2008 at 10:31 AM Rating: Decent
Totem wrote:
Sure you do, just not another woman. Major difference there.

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Like?
#101 Nov 14 2008 at 10:41 AM Rating: Decent
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Hey, if a man has had a sex-change operation, completely switching over to a woman. Can she legally become a woman and marry another man?

Just wondering.
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