Tylendell's a long-time poster (circa 2004 at least) from the Caitsith forums, but I'm not sure if he plays FF anymore. I never really crossed paths with him, but he was known for being one of the most flamboyant dudes on the server and was one of the first people I knew of to have a zillion level 75 jobs. I think he was friends with Darkenbuddy and Eonsdizzle back in the day. Brill, Kelvy, and Omegavegeta probably know him too. Always seemed like a nice enough guy, but it takes awhile to get used to reading his posts.
If that really happened to your nephew, I'm very sorry to hear that, Tyl. You might have been better off posting this in the Caitsith forums, though.