Its just that the 'wink and the admittedly-not-bad-looking-for-a-mum-of-12-and-a-religious-nut-job' will forever be associated with what I think you actually do look like in RL, even if you don't.
Disclaimer : I mean't that nicely just in case of confusion.....
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"If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you're gonna get selfish, ignorant leaders". Carlin.