knoxsouthy wrote:
Aipya,
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I'm happy for someone to use swear words as adjectives about stuff
So you don't mind hearing certain expletives uttered by young children, not out of anger, but convienence?
I understand cursing to make a point now and again, but to make a habit of expressing yourself in so crude a manner is something society would be better off without.
I happen to disagree with you on this point. I just see it as part of a very rich cultural tapestry. Almost an aesthetic different in tastes. There's a lot of colours, shapes, and architectural styles I personally find ugly, but I'd be the first to admit that our culture would be infinitely poorer for only having the styles of buildings and things around that I like.
Using a swear-word is kind of like the verbal equivalent of a modern piece of abstract sculpture in neon pink, or the equivalent of fast food. Not everyone likes it. Some people think it's bad for you, or bad for your city environment. Some people find it so aesthetically awful it's offensive. (There's quite a number of people I know who harbour a repressed murderous hatred for the large yellow McDonald's arches which throng around every Australian suburb.) But what would life be like without burgers, and pizza? And there's such a fervent little artistic crowd who get all gooey over abstract art.
If I was a parent, the one thing I'd be concerned about is the vocabulary of my young child. One of the useful, and yet possibly slightly ruinous things about swearing is that swearwords are SO multi-purpose and eloquent of emotional punctuation. I noticed that when I was a teenager, and spent the years between the age of 14 and 22 not swearing at all on purpose, just so I developed my vocabluary while I was still doing English/Lit classes. So if I had a young child, probably up to the age of about 12 or 13, whenever they swore, I might repeat their sentence, substituting a different word for the swear word, so that they developed a wider vocabluary of adjectives and description words for things and emotions. Well, I might have that intention. I'm pretty sure a lot of intentions go out the window when you are hit with the actual reality of a live child.