Celcio wrote:
Totem wrote:
abandonment as a little boy must surely have a momentous impact on him as a grown man.
Or, possibly more likely, he's come to terms with it and it's a non-issue.
Seriously a lot of kids refer to themselves by different names or different spellings "No, that's Jenni with an I. With a heart over it." or hate their names as children and then grow up to embrace them.
I think there's probably very little talk about it because, in comparison to all of the other issues on the table this is a non-issue entirely. I think you're reading way more into this than there is. Almost like you hope there is... hey waitaminute!
It's so funny you mentioned that example, Celcio! For years I dated a girl who was "Molli with an i." No great stress there; there was just another Molly a year older than her (exact same first and last name, no family connection), so this Molly became a Molli instead. More than ten years later she's still "Molli with an i" on everything unless she needs to use her "legal" Molly name.
And I agree a lot of kids refer to themselves differently. On a hunt through a memory box from my childhood last year, I dug out some old stuff I had done back in first grade. I was really shocked to find myself named as "Allan." It was my middle name, and apparently there was a period in my life where I wanted to be a rebel. Glad I got over that by the time I was 7!
For all the talk of how people in single-parent households are screwed up, I think a remarkable amount of them have adjusted just fine to it. We just hear about the people who freak out and have mental issues because, hey, normalcy is boring and breakdowns get higher ratings and keep psychiatrists in business. Names mean more to some than others, and Obama is probably ok with his.
Edit: Molli also wrote with a heart over the "i" for all of high school, another reason why I loled at Celcio's example.
Edited, Aug 29th 2008 3:24pm by LockeColeMA