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#1 Aug 26 2008 at 7:56 AM Rating: Good
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Booty call for stuff.

I knew someone in college that did this a lot. Tickets for a concert, help with a class, a trip to Mexico.

Know of anyone else that had unspoken arrangements like this?
#2 Aug 26 2008 at 7:58 AM Rating: Excellent
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No, when I was in college that would have been called hooking.

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#3 Aug 26 2008 at 8:07 AM Rating: Excellent
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Sure, though not quite so "overt" and usually a service more than a product. In college, I regularly had sex with a guy because I got freaked out being in my apartment alone and wanted him to spend the night. I think that most of the time, you just don't really think of it is a currency.

Services within a relationship are not all that uncommonly "paid for" with sex...as they mention in the article. For example, I have no qualms with wake-up sex if it means it'll get his *** in gear and in a good mood in the morning when I want a day of getting things done...and I'm not crazy about wake up sex. There's also sex that can "feel" like it's a currency when really it's just a product of the service being exchanged (for example, guy fixes something around the house and woman has sex with him...may seem like a reward/exchange, but really, fixing something might just be a turn-on anyway). Neat article.

Did you read the one about "mid-wife" crisis Thumb? It was pretty great, if depressing.

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"Once," he says, "I was painting the hallway right outside a client's bedroom, and she was lying on her bed like a girl at a slumber party with her legs up and her arms crossed and her head resting on them, asking me if I had a girlfriend.


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#6 Aug 26 2008 at 8:40 AM Rating: Good
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Did you read the one about "mid-wife" crisis Thumb? It was pretty great, if depressing.

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I have no qualms with wake-up sex if it means it'll get his *** in gear and in a good mood in the morning when I want a day of getting things done


What the hell is a qualm?

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#8 Aug 26 2008 at 9:23 AM Rating: Excellent
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I have no qualms with wake-up sex if it means it'll get his *** in gear and in a good mood in the morning when I want a day of getting things done


What the hell is a qualm?



pardon?

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#9 Aug 26 2008 at 9:26 AM Rating: Good
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a misgiving, or a disturbing feeling. basically she said she has no issues with an am booty call if it means you'll get your *** in gear and happily putter around the house Smiley: grin




Edited, Aug 26th 2008 1:23pm by DSD
#10 Aug 26 2008 at 9:30 AM Rating: Excellent
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a misgiving, or a disturbing feeling. basically she means she has no issues with an am booty call if it means you'll get your *** in gear and happily putter around the house Smiley: grin


Oh...you think he was sincerely just asking for a definition? I thought I must be missing a joke or something, seeing as how he knows how to work the interwebs last time I checked.

Maybe his brain stopped working at the idea of morning sex.

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Edited, Aug 26th 2008 1:27pm by Nexa
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#11 Aug 26 2008 at 9:30 AM Rating: Decent
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a misgiving, or a disturbing feeling. basically she said she has no issues with an am booty call if it means you'll get your *** in gear and happily putter around the house Smiley: grin


Fair trade really.

And Thumb, I think it's fair to say that every drunk girl in college had at least one of these situations. Need anything fixed?

'Dollar you call it's' are the best thing in a pub since darts.

Edited, Aug 26th 2008 12:27pm by Kaelesh
#12 Aug 26 2008 at 9:31 AM Rating: Excellent
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Qualm should be the last name of a fictional televangelist.

Elijah Qualm.

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#13 Aug 26 2008 at 9:32 AM Rating: Decent
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Oh...you think he was sincerely just asking for a definition? I thought I must be missing a joke or something, seeing as how he knows how to work the interwebs last time I checked.


It made sense as a joke at the time.

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#14 Aug 26 2008 at 9:33 AM Rating: Excellent
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Smasharoo wrote:

Oh...you think he was sincerely just asking for a definition? I thought I must be missing a joke or something, seeing as how he knows how to work the interwebs last time I checked.


It made sense as a joke at the time.



Oh, sorry, a qualm is a delicious breakfast dish. Better?

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#15 Aug 26 2008 at 9:34 AM Rating: Good
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Nexa wrote:
Mistress DSD wrote:
a misgiving, or a disturbing feeling. basically she means she has no issues with an am booty call if it means you'll get your *** in gear and happily putter around the house Smiley: grin


Oh...you think he was sincerely just asking for a definition? I thought I must be missing a joke or something, seeing as how he knows how to work the interwebs last time I checked.

Maybe his brain stopped working at the idea of morning sex.

Nexa

Edited, Aug 26th 2008 1:27pm by Nexa


Smiley: laugh

Edited, Aug 26th 2008 1:31pm by DSD
#16 Aug 26 2008 at 10:20 AM Rating: Excellent
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Nexa wrote:
Smasharoo wrote:

Oh...you think he was sincerely just asking for a definition? I thought I must be missing a joke or something, seeing as how he knows how to work the interwebs last time I checked.


It made sense as a joke at the time.



Oh, sorry, a qualm is a delicious breakfast dish. Better?

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#17 Aug 27 2008 at 12:45 AM Rating: Decent
Does staying in a relationship with a boyfriend who has become a sugardaddy count? I was a in a relationship a couple of years ago, and it was still pretty early on. I really started to see that it was not a match, and started laying down some early hints that we were coming up on the end. He started throwing nice gifts, expensive trips out to nice restaurants, etc. I didn't feel that bad because he was well off (it would have been much harder if he was taking out loans for the stuff).

Soo...I didn't break it off for a while. Near the end, he knew the deal, too. Take me out shopping, take me out to a nice dinner, get home and take me. In the end, it was actually a clean break with both of us on the same page, so I guess he got tired of me and I devalued to him Smiley: rolleyes

Edited, Aug 27th 2008 4:42am by dacypher
#18 Aug 27 2008 at 1:31 AM Rating: Excellent
There's a world of difference between having sex with a random guy in exchange for some concert tickets, and having sex with your boyfriend so that he's in a good mood for the rest of the day. Exchanging sex for a specific good or service against a "merchant" is not quite the same as using sex within an existing relationship in order to gain some intangible reward.

Not that I'm judging, people do what they want with their bodies. I'd happily have sex with a hot girl if it could get me some cool concert tickets.
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#19 Aug 27 2008 at 5:16 AM Rating: Decent
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Never done anything like this. Never had any kind of casual sex. Sex has always been an end, not a means.
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#20 Aug 27 2008 at 5:33 AM Rating: Excellent
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There's a world of difference between having sex with a random guy in exchange for some concert tickets, and having sex with your boyfriend so that he's in a good mood for the rest of the day. Exchanging sex for a specific good or service against a "merchant" is not quite the same as using sex within an existing relationship in order to gain some intangible reward.

Not that I'm judging, people do what they want with their bodies. I'd happily have sex with a hot girl if it could get me some cool concert tickets.


You're such a hero!

And yeah, that's kinda my take on it too. I don't have a problem with sex work as such; I just think it is what it is.

Some of the feminist writing from the 70s or so still cracks me up. "Marriage is slavery! No, wait. Marriage is prostitution!"

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Hmm. Alright ladies, who wants guru? Line forms to the right!
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#22 Aug 27 2008 at 5:58 AM Rating: Decent
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I've had sex with women I wasn't particularly attracted to for a variety of reasons. Red Sox tickets back when I was a poor lad, etc. Then again I was 19, so it's pretty unlikely I would have refused in any event, but the tickets certainly helped.

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#23 Aug 27 2008 at 6:12 AM Rating: Excellent
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Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Hmm. Alright ladies, who wants guru? Line forms to the right!


You're calling yourself guru now? Like the Mike Myers type?

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Nexa wrote:
Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Hmm. Alright ladies, who wants guru? Line forms to the right!


You're calling yourself guru now? Like the Mike Myers type?

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Throw in Mini-Me and I'm there.
#25 Aug 27 2008 at 6:21 AM Rating: Excellent
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Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Hmm. Alright ladies, who wants guru? Line forms to the right!


Smiley: laugh



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#26 Aug 27 2008 at 12:06 PM Rating: Good
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Nexa wrote:
Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Hmm. Alright ladies, who wants guru? Line forms to the right!


You're calling yourself guru now? Like the Mike Myers type?

Nexa


Throw in Mini-Me and I'm there.


Sex tape of you and Verne Troyer would be HOT.
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