No one is right or wrong in their perspective of what sex equals.
Wrong. Something being complex doesn't make all viewpoints valid.
Everyone looks at it in different angles. As I stated previously there are also different kinds of sex.
Sex does not have to have emotional intimacy involved. That's what one night stands, a quickie, or even just a good **** are all about. It has little to do with the emotional ties it sometimes has, and more to do with the physical attraction, lust and relase one gets with sex.
However, if sex didnt involve intimacy on some level for both people in a relationship, then seeking sex outside the marriage bed or relationship bed, would not cause the other person to bat an eye. Since it does, I can only surmise that each person has put emotional ties into the act of sex itself.
No, you can only surmise that society has placed value on it as such. As they have with, say, money. Someone would be bothered if their spouse gave a stranger a large sum of money. Oh, gee, I guess money is tied to intimacy!
THINK.
So stop being idiots and trying to look at sex as black and white. It isnt, and nothing in life ever is. It's all dependant on the persons involved and the circumstances in which it takes place.
Blah blabh balh. "I don't understand it so no one ever can! Horay! Let's all hold hands nad respect each other's arbitrary views. Oh wait, does hand holding tied to intimacy? Because if so, then we can't or someone will be upset. It's not because it's an arbitrary social constcut, though, it's because hand holding is just so important and magical.
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