I think a lot of the issue is the fact that quite a few people that started off with EQ have gotten older, had families and kids, gotten more demanding jobs, etc. Essentially, we've "grown up". We don't have the time that we used to have to play games. So the casual play style and being able to solo works better for us.
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for me, its more of not being willing to ever, EVER again waste so much of my time for a game. EQ was as ground breaking as DOOM was. facinating. totally new.
not so much any more. i dont think its a matter of growing up as much as it is the car is 10 years old and doesnt really do anything other cars dont do, so, not going to spend as much time washing or waxing it anymore. i think if something totally new and excieting hit the market, you would get people spending hordes of time playing again just like we did with EQ. but the games that have launched are pretty much all the same. whack-a-mole for levels and loot. the end. the quests are the same, the stories, while differant, all pretty much sound alike, the grind is the same.
so people are just not interested in allocating so much of theri precious time for...the same ole same ole. and we have had time to sit back and say "omg, i camped that ancient cyclops for 24 hours streight..." and think to ourselves, if hat wasnt the stupidest waste of time it has to come a close second to anything i have every wasted my time on in my life.
we still want to play, we just dont want to spend our life in it any more.
along comes WoW. no pressure. no greif. no fustraition. just play time with out the increadable time commitment.
they are up to 12 million subscribers. they added ANOTHER MILLION subscribers in the last 6 months. Vanguards circleing the drain with 20k. last check placed EQ1 and 100k and shrinking. EQ2 never made it past 300k, and shrinking. LOTR never made it big time.
and during expansion after expansion, free game play after free game play just to try and keep it going.........WoW added ANOTHER million subscribers in the last 6 months.
forced grouping IS a death sentence for a mmo. so is a PvP based game, something Warhammer is going to find out soon enough. Wii want to play, not hold down a second job. Wii want to explore something new, not spend most of our playtime popping up on a rez platform from being endlessly ganked by other players.
most of us anyway.
BTW, 35 now in AoC. have hit a wall. very few quests left from here to aleast 40 it seems. time to grind or bolt. also, mounts are 100 gold and up. after 35 levels of looting, i have 12 silver. need 100 silver to get 1 gold. dont expect ill ever get a mount. infact, if i cant find another questing area for this level, i may not even see another level.
the graphics really are worth the price of the box though. and they are talking about adding another fighting are from 30 to 50 this summer. so who knows, mabe ill park it for a month and come back to see.
but im not grinding, camping, or even medding in any game ever again.