Oh yeah, no cheating is such a gimme I didn't even think to mention it.
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Ok, so you get that person who is ideally perfect. Seems great right? But where is the room to grow. Where is the room to make improvements in your lives together? And if they are perfect now, whats to say they will be perfect in 5 years? If you get someone with some slight blemishes, it makes it easier for them to overlook your own. It also makes it easier to grow together and outgrow those blemishes.
You know, really I would be open to anyone who would be open to me, but I find it difficult to imagine that things would work out if they didn't meet my minimums.
I'll tell you what I hate. Anger, fear, sorrow, and all the things that lead to them. Hatred, ignorance, and selfishness, for example. If a person can't at least try to wage an honorable stand against those things, I don't care how great they are otherwise. I just can't have it.
Most relationships are work, and I already have a job. I'm holding out for one that more or less works on its own.