Stand by your man?Follow

Your publically-renown high-society, wealthy spouse is caught cheating. The story breaks - it becomes front page news.



Will Ms. Spitzer stand by her man?

Yeah, all set with that ****, he'd be out on his ***.

Nexa

Yeah, I hesitated to make this a poll, but I find polls get greater responses than non-polls.

That's an excellent question though; Does the public status of the whole event change what you might do?

I think I'd be MORE likely to leave a husband who had not only cheated on me, but had also made a public spectacle out our private lives.

I also agree with this statement.

But to play Devils Advocate: You have to question the depth of the problems in a relationship if a guy feels the need to go elsewhere for his sexual needs.

There is always two sides to a story.

I know a guy who used a lady of the night regularly with the approval of his spouce as she became disinterested in sex, a wierd set up i agree but it seemed to work for them. (You would not believe how wierd that conversation was)

I've also known guy who care so little about thier spouces that they did it with little regard for the others feelings.

In this case he's a douchebag and deserves a kick in the nuts and an expencive and very public divorce.

Option 1: Husband cheats on me and is not famous.

Probably try to work it out for the kids, but failing that, I'm not afraid to be a single momma.


Option 2: Husband cheats on me and is famous.

Probably try to work it out for the kids and would likely keep my trap shut for the duration of the gong show but there is little doubt that the public humiliation would be a considerable driving force in wanting to bin the relationship.

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That's an excellent question though; Does the public status of the whole event change what you might do?


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No it doesen't. This is a line once you cross there is no going back on. I divorced my first wife after catching her in the act. I would not think twice about doing the same again.

Oh, no. Whatever else happened, I doubt I'd be able to stand there with a straight, much less adoring, face while he fumbled his way through an apology to his constituents.

I don't have a poker face, at all. There's just no way.

www.ashleymadison.com

They push it os Sirrus as well.

other,


it takes time to find where all the money is hidden...........

and i for one would like to see what a 5k hooker looks like.

Well, I would most likely leave a spouse that had cheated on me, but if the result was a public spectacle I think I would be even more likely to leave him for causing such an embarrassment. However, I've never been cheated on personally, so I cannot say this with conviction.

Edited, Mar 12th 2008 7:50pm by Alixana

However, I've never been cheated on personally,

Highly, highly, unlikely unless you started dating very ugly people at 45.

Did you mean to add "that I'm aware of", because I could buy that.

I've been in two serious, long-term relationships, which would be lulz if if I was 40, but I'm 23. I know for a fact that I was never cheated on in any of these relationships, nor did I cheat. I'm not really the type that dates a whole lot, and certainly not the type that tend to date people who would cheat rather than just break up with me. I do not count people I have very casually dated, because if they were seeing other people, it was not "cheating" as we were not exclusive.

I'm not saying I never will be cheated on, there's plenty of time left for that, unfortunately. But no, I have not been cheated on yet, and if I were, that would very likely be the end of the relationship.

Edited, Mar 13th 2008 10:05am by Alixana

How "serious" and "long-term" can a relationship get at 23? Or is it just me that's trying to have fun before he gets old?