My children grew up in a city known for it's poor schools with very low expectations that anything can improve them. Instead of looking at moving into a area I couldn't afford or home school my girls, I sent them to public school and then spent as much time as I could at their schools helping out in any way I could.
Biggest reason I didn't consider home schooling or a private school over the local school system was that I knew I couldn't provide the services they would need with language skills. Few private school have the level of reading and speech specialists, I knew they would need. Those that do around here expect the state had agree that the local system is unable to provide the level of service a child needs, so will cover their costs and charged $30.000 a year back 15 years ago.
On top of spending time in the schools, I also made sure my children had access to as many books, music, the public library, museums and any other cultural experience I could expose them too. Nothing was censored or made pretty just because they were young. Instead we talked about what we saw and how it made us feel. This was how my parents raised me with an expectation that I learn to think for myself. If I was worry about what they were reading, or the music they listen to, I took the time to read and listen also. Since I watch news and science shows and dislike most sitcoms they know more about the world around them then most people in the USA. Note that I didn't say America since I didn't want to lump the rest of the countries with our lack of education.
Today my girls each will tell you, that they learn far more at home then in school. Sure it would have been nice to have a lot of the material things their friends had, if I had instead put my time into having a career and rarely had time for them. Instead they have something that money couldn't buy them, love and care from a mother who taught them the love of learning and thinking for themselves. Plus how many moms can say their kids actually enjoy taking them to a club or concert with their friends. I can also say many of their stranger friends are folks, that I had met years before, they ever introduce them to me.
edit due to fact I expect to make language and spelling errors and proud of fact that Dyslexic people are know to be smarter then kids that do well in normal classroom.
Edited, Mar 12th 2008 8:15pm by ElneClare
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