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#27 Feb 21 2008 at 2:26 PM Rating: Decent
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But the original discussion statement that women get paid less as an entire group because they are less productive as an entire group without any evidence and with dismissing gender discrimination as any factor in the pay differential. Not hiring women as a class or promoting them or paying them equal because you believe they will ask for accommodations that men won't despite having no evidence to the contrary is sexism. It isn't about the market.
I understand that women, as a group, are still not paid as much as men. Though they are catching up. So are minorities.

Regardless, making statments that try and victimize women because they HAVE greater responsibility for taking care of the kids is not helping the cause.

If a women decides to work in a high-priced, high demand job, AND expect to rise to the same levels as others, and expect equal pay as others, then she should be willing to put in the same level of work.

As for the whole topic about gender or race being an issue in the election...well the debate the OP referred to raises some good questions.

Is Clinton getting more heat for being a woman than Obama is for being black?

I dunno, but I too, have seen and hard far more cautic comments about Clinton. But maybe she's deserving as she does have more history, and is really disliked by Republicans.

Hilary has spent 8 years IN the white house. Is that 'experience' that we should lend credence to? If we don't are we sexist?

There's really nothing comparable as we haven't had a former 'first man' or 'first lady' running for the office before.

The whole concept if the nomination coming down to a woman and a black man, when there were, seemingly, other capable white males in the running is pretty interesting and, to me, speaks a lot about how far we've come as a country.

I guess I'd rather focus on that.
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Hilary has spent 8 years IN the white house. Is that 'experience' that we should lend credence to? If we don't are we sexist?


It can't help but annoy me that her experience is riding on the coattails of her powerful husband. I wish it was a woman who worked her way up on her own merits, not someone who was the president only about a decade or so ago. I'm not denying Hilary her due but I'd be happier with at least a dozen or so other women running other than her.

But I don't think that dismissing Hilary is necessarily sexist, though some of the criticism is.

I think regardless, I hope the new administration brings about an essential paradigm shift--which I don't feel will have a chance in hell of happening with either McCain or Clinton. It could would Huckabee, but in a really scary way. So, I'm pinning my hopes on Obama. It reminds me of my youthful optimism in 1992-- it was my last year in college when Clinton came into office. Ah, I was so optimistic. It was so fleeting.



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Hilary has spent 8 years IN the white house. Is that 'experience' that we should lend credence to? If we don't are we sexist?


It can't help but annoy me that her experience is riding on the coattails of her powerful husband. I wish it was a woman who worked her way up on her own merits, not someone who was the president only about a decade or so ago. I'm not denying Hilary her due but I'd be happier with at least a dozen or so other women running other than her.

But I don't think that dismissing Hilary is necessarily sexist, though some of the criticism is.

I think regardless, I hope the new administration brings about an essential paradigm shift--which I don't feel will have a chance in hell of happening with either McCain or Clinton. It could would Huckabee, but in a really scary way. So, I'm pinning my hopes on Obama. It reminds me of my youthful optimism in 1992-- it was my last year in college when Clinton came into office. Ah, I was so optimistic. It was so fleeing.
Clinton lost me when she refused to take responsibility for her vote on the Iraq war.

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If a women decides to work in a high-priced, high demand job, AND expect to rise to the same levels as others, and expect equal pay as others, then she should be willing to put in the same level of work.


Yes, but the issue here is not that women who aren't putting in the same amount of work are getting paid less, it's that women are getting paid less because it's assumed they might not put in the same amount of work, simply because they are women (hence, the accusation of sexism) and therefore they MIGHT have kids. They are being penalized for what they might possibly do that might possibly cause them to under-perform, whether or not the possibility of under-performance ever actualizes.

Let's say I got a full-time job tomorrow. If I were extraordinarily unlucky, I might have to take one sick-day a month off to care for my baby (9 months and nary a sniffle, by the way, but that would likely change were he exposed to other kids at daycare.) Let's further say I were hired for the same job performed by my husband's childless co-worker who takes AT LEAST two days off a month to go play golf. The fact is, it's a veritable certainty that I would be paid less than my husband's co-worker, even performing the same exact job, because it would be automatically assumed that, as a woman with a child, I will under-perform, even if I likely won't. So even though my husband's childless co-worker does IN ACTUALITY under-perform, he still makes more.

People who fail to recognize that fact have their head in the sand. The glass ceiling DOES exist and "maternal profiling" is RAMPANT.
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Clinton lost me when she refused to take responsibility for her vote on the Iraq war.


She lost me long ago when she refused to stand behind her own words at one point, apologizing for her opinion instead.

Drives me crazy when politicians do that.
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Elinda, Star Breaker wrote:

If a women decides to work in a high-priced, high demand job, AND expect to rise to the same levels as others, and expect equal pay as others, then she should be willing to put in the same level of work.


Yes, but the issue here is not that women who aren't putting in the same amount of work are getting paid less, it's that women are getting paid less because it's assumed they might not put in the same amount of work, simply because they are women (hence, the accusation of sexism) and therefore they MIGHT have kids. They are being penalized for what they might possibly do that might possibly cause them to under-perform, whether or not the possibility of under-performance ever actualizes.
I understand this, however the persuing remarks that I commented on were not about this.

As someone mentioned, employers like to hire 'known' quantites. Women are getting 'known'.

...but this is what really kinda irks me about the whole work vs family debate. It forces US, as women, to trivialize the worth of our families. We don't put a dollar amount on raising our families, but it's worth FAR more than some monies that can be made working in an office. Do we want to make the American woman species, as a whole, to be known as awesome corporate workers, at the expense of being awesome mommies?

(Hopefully we can get to a point where we can simply be awesome workers and awesome parents - no gender bias)

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The Honorable Annabella wrote:
But the original discussion statement that women get paid less as an entire group because they are less productive as an entire group without any evidence and with dismissing gender discrimination as any factor in the pay differential. Not hiring women as a class or promoting them or paying them equal because you believe they will ask for accommodations that men won't despite having no evidence to the contrary is sexism.


Sure. But it's equally sexist to assume that inequalities in pay are purely the result of men not wanting to pay women the same wages for the same quality/quantity of work.

I'll also point out that the statistics that we often here about this are equally "rigged". When you read about womens pay not equaling mens in the same fields, what's often completely missing is the "years in" component of pay. I'll see if I can dig up the study, but IIRC it came up the last time we had this discussion (which was awhile ago and was triggered by some article detailing the gap between wages for men and women). The counterstudy basically showed that the gap could be almost entirely explained purely by calculating the average years on the job differential. As mentioned earlier, men tend to hire into a field and work continuously for their entire careers. So the "average" male working in a given field will always have more total years experience in that field. Working on the assumption that everything else being equal, workers are going to expect (and tend to receive) pay increases each year they work in a given field, this is a significant factor, and one that's completely ignored by the womens rights activists when they argue about pay equality.


That's what I was addressing (and what I assume the earlier posters were touching on as well). While it's certainly reasonable to expect that a woman should be able to take time off to have/raise children, or work shorter hours, or whatever, it's absolutely unreasonable to expect that she be paid exactly the same as someone who's worked continuously in the field the whole time. It's fallacious to simply count up all the men in a given field and all the women in a given field, average their salaries and pounce on the difference in those averages as some sort of "proof" of sexism in the workplace.


We can talk about sexism in our culture as a whole in terms of why women overwhelmingly are the ones impacted by this, but we should *not* blame the employers for their actions, nor push draconian requirements on them in order to correct for it.


Obviously, I agree that a woman with equal skills and equal experience in a field should be paid the same as a man. And from my personal experiences, this is the case (at least in the corporate world). I have never yet seen a woman who wasn't given the same pay and promotion opportunities as the men she worked with. There are plenty of women engineers and managers at the company I work for. However, I can tell you that I've personally known at least 3 women who've taken significant amounts of time off, and/or changed their whole work priorities as a result of having children. I know one woman who was a director about 5 years ago. She'd likely be a VP today, but she choose to take her stock and investment and retire to be a mother. That was her choice. I just ran into another woman in the elevator not 20 minutes ago who took a couple years off to have children and now chooses to only work part time (for the same reason). She's got the same title and position, but you can bet that she's less likely to get promoted as someone who's here full time. She knows this and accepted it as a consequence of her decision.


While I fully agree that sexism in the workplace is a bad thing, I also feel that it's unfair to require businesses to pay one sex more then they'd naturally receive as a result of their own efforts and experience. Your choice to have/raise children should be your choice and your responsibility. The burden of that choice should be born by you and your spouse/SO, not the company that hired you. They expect to receive X amount of labor for Y amount of price. That's the "deal". Insisting that they pay more for one sex then another is also inherently sexist IMO...


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It isn't about the market. I'll be damned if I will accept being paid according to what an employer imagines about my gender rather than my own merit.


And you're right. If an employer pays you less because you "might" get pregnant, then he's in the wrong and I'll support any women fighting that sort of thing 100%. My problem is that for every one clear case of that sort of gender bias in the workplace, there seems to be a hundred claims of bias across all workplaces based on what I see as some creative statistical interpretations. The "cause" seems to quite often take on a life of it's own that has less to do with ensuring gender equality and more to do with pushing a single groups agenda.


And I'm sorry, but I don't agree with that. Regulate against gender bias? Yes. Punish those guilty of doing that? Absolutely. But manipulating statistics in order to gain power for your cause? Not cool...
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Yes, but the issue here is not that women who aren't putting in the same amount of work are getting paid less, it's that women are getting paid less because it's assumed they might not put in the same amount of work, simply because they are women (hence, the accusation of sexism) and therefore they MIGHT have kids. They are being penalized for what they might possibly do that might possibly cause them to under-perform, whether or not the possibility of under-performance ever actualizes.


You're absolutely correct. But it's equally sexist to assume that a business will do this simply because they are a business and *might* do this.

One is a hypothetical case you're inventing. The other has been portrayed at least a few times right in this thread. Look at the world from more then just your own angle...
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Because, of course, the women who manage a full-time job AND taking care of children don't "work as long or as hard." The slackers.
Oh please Ambrya do not be so f*cking stupid.

We are talking about high flyers, people who work 14 hour days, 6 days a week for years, you cannot do that and ollk after a family.

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Woman; highly skilled and professional married with two children.

Is it right that because she is not willing to put her family aside is held over for promoting in favour of a man who is far less capable but willing to put in the time required for the job

I go back to the holy trinity of job fulfilment for employers:

Can do the job

Will do the job

Fits into the environment.

Both fullfil two out of the three totally but one less well than the other but since 1 is the least important of the three then man gets the job.

roll forward 10 years, both are still working for the same company, the man is still in the same job as he is not capable of going higher due to his lack of Can do the job.

the woman is now 2 jobs higher than him as her children have left school
I know this is a true case because it's my sister and she presently holds the position of financial director.

She would 100% back the processes you find so unfair because she is interested in making her company money not appeasing so ill conseaved feminist notion.

#36 Feb 21 2008 at 3:49 PM Rating: Excellent
You know, I don't care if a trans-gendered purple octopus was running for President- policies and general personality/accountability should be all that matters. Anyone who votes or does not vote for a candidate based on race, gender, or some other demographic is doing a very large disservice to the system. Quite frankly, I am damn sick of hearing about it.
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So I was working today and I was presented with a up close shot of tooth decay on a gentleman in his mid 40's. The polaroid (RIP) showed the edges of his beard, his lips and then a snaggled tooth mouth almost horrid enough to be too intense even for the Big Book of British Smiles.

As I tried desperately to pull my eyes away from the abomination I could only help but think of Hilary Clinton and rumours of ****** dentata. Why do I bring this up? Because as salient as the points made in both articles may be I am just a man scared of powerful women stealing my manhood. Therefore I am pleased at the fact that feminista's are falling onto each others over whether to vote dune or ****.

(which is a pretty way of saying I have nothing at all to say on the issue, vote Obama)
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Sure. But it's equally sexist to assume that inequalities in pay are purely the result of men not wanting to pay women the same wages for the same quality/quantity of work.


Any yet, completely accurate. Funny how that works sometimes.

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You know, I don't care if a trans-gendered purple octopus was running for President- policies and general personality/accountability should be all that matters. Anyone who votes or does not vote for a candidate based on race, gender, or some other demographic is doing a very large disservice to the system. Quite frankly, I am damn sick of hearing about it.


Well, one is running, and I believe Mindel is endorsing him.

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Has been about as relevant politically in the last 30 years as Camile Paglia.

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#41 Feb 21 2008 at 5:08 PM Rating: Good
Oh...well, ***** Obama then; I'm voting for Cthulhu. After all, I'm a hypocrite and tend to be biased towards trans-gendered purple octopus candidates- it helps me feel better about my own identity, and it's about time that we had one in the White House.
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I hear that Purple Tentacle might just run this year... Just a thought.
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Oh...well, ***** Obama then; I'm voting for Cthulhu. After all, I'm a hypocrite and tend to be biased towards trans-gendered purple octopus candidates- it helps me feel better about my own identity, and it's about time that we had one in the White House.
I'd prefer one that wasn't predisposed to eat the White House.
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I actually have a t-shirt, a shirt and 2 book bags, with picture of Cthulhu tearing off the dome of the Capital, from the 2003 World Fantasy Convention.

I went looking for a copy of the artwork online and only could find a link to the flyer in pdf format. Smiley: mad

Over the last 8 years, there have been many a day that I had wish the drawing wasn't just a fantasy.
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#45 Feb 22 2008 at 4:16 PM Rating: Decent
The similarity of the two lead Democratic candidates on policy has focused the debate more on style. US media coverage of elections is always abysmal but this time doubly so. Contrast the Democrats to the Republican debates in which there were rather stark differences. Thank god they chose the only candidate available who ardently refutes the use of torture.

No matter who wins, the new president will mark a huge positive change for everyone in the US - including women.

After being lied to on such critical matters for so long, I think the US public is looking first and foremost for honesty. If Hillary was, say, Jimmy Carter's or Gerald Ford's wife instead of Clinton's she would automatically score higher in this area - although probably not so high on the accomplishment scale.

I actually think she would have been an ideal candidate 4 years ago when apparently the public wanted to live in a fantasy land.
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Thank god they chose the only candidate available who ardently refutes the use of torture.


So much so that he decided to miss the vote about it so he could raise more money from those in favor of it. Oh that old McCain integrity.

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Thank god they chose the only candidate available who ardently refutes the use of torture.


Eh, well, not so much:

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McCain voted against the bill, which would restrict the CIA to using only the 19 interrogation techniques listed in the Army field manual.

His vote was controversial because the manual prohibits waterboarding - a simulated drowning technique that McCain also opposes - yet McCain doesn't want the CIA bound by the manual and its prohibitions.

McCain, who was tortured as a prisoner of war in Vietnam, is well-known for his opposition to waterboarding, which puts him at odds with the Bush administration.

``I knew I would be criticized for it,'' McCain told reporters Wednesday in Ohio. ``I think I can show my record is clear. I said there should be additional techniques allowed to other agencies of government as long as they were not'' torture.


If someone could explain how McCain's current stance makes sense, I'd love to hear it.



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If someone could explain how McCain's current stance makes sense, I'd love to hear it.
It doesn't. McCain can't be bothered with details, and would be angry and indignant that you took the time to notice this inconsistency while Americans are dying.
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That vote by McCain dissapoints me greatly. However, he is still miles ahead of the other Republican candidates who openly advocated it.

Very early in this war, I saw generals on CNN saying they would withold food, water and sleep from inmates to engender cooperation. Although I simply don't think it is very effective, it was consistent with what I from an army interrogator about the field manual. His exact words on the matter were that an inmate could be interrogated all night (one night) and that was "the sharpest arrow in our quiver". So my feeling was that the field manual was (probably) just fine, although I sincerely doubt the use of any such technique would have any positive impact and thus it would be far, far better to simply take the high road and not question any of them - treat them all as proper POWs.
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. Although I simply don't think it is very effective


Sleep deprivation/time shifting is hands down the most effective interrogation method in nearly all cases.

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The Honorable Annabella wrote:
If someone could explain how McCain's current stance makes sense, I'd love to hear it.


It make absolute sense if you don't view every political issue as "for" or "against". McCains position was (and is) two fold:

1. That any action legally defined as "torture" by the UN will not be used, no matter what.

2. That the military be restricted even more in what techniques they may use to interrogate prisoners who are not POWs.


It's not about being 'against waterboarding'. He's against torture. Guess what? The UN has not defined waterboarding as torture. However, it's a very questionable interrogation technique. The military is held to a higher standing then just what is "legal", and he feels strongly (for a number of reasons) that military personnel should not engage in interrogations that even come close to that legal line.

However, he recognizes that organizations like the CIA, may need to operate somewhat closer to that line. That's what he's done with this bill.
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