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#1 Feb 21 2008 at 10:03 AM Rating: Decent
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I thought this was pretty interesting debate. If you missed it, I first read about all of this on the Angry Black Woman Site.

Gloria Steinem writes an editorial about "How women are never Front-Runners" and frames Hilary's loss in terms of misogyny.

On Democracy Now, Melissa Harris-Lacewell debates with her about the issues of the campaign and her opinion article.

I think she brings up a salient issue--basically, how the old guard feminist movement are recreating the same tired politics that they've had for years--basically fighting only for the rights of privileged white women while ignoring issues of race. It's hard as a feminist to see many mainstream feminist groups discount racism in this country and act as if not voting for Hilary is a vote reinforcing the patriarchy. On the other hand, it's equally depressing seeing some white women pat themselves on the back for supporting Obama and saying how they've decided that it's the time to address race, since it's more important than gender, when it reinforces the status quo to establish hierarchies of oppression and divide and conquer. On the other hand, you can't ignore the feminist movement's history of marginalizing all women of color and poor and working class white women.

I've supported Obama, largely because of his message and he's less tied to the establishment than Hilary.




Edited, Feb 21st 2008 1:37pm by Annabella
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#2 Feb 21 2008 at 10:10 AM Rating: Excellent
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I think she brings up a salient issue--basically, how the old guard feminist movement are recreating the same tired politics that they've had for years--basically fighting only for the rights of privileged white women while ignoring issues of race. It's hard as a feminist to see many mainstream feminist groups discount racism in this country and act as if not voting for Hilary is a vote reinforcing the patriarchy. On the other hand, it's equally depressing seeing some white women pat themselves on the back for supporting Obama and saying how they've decided that it's the time to address race, since it's more important than gender, when it reinforces the status quo to establish hierarchies of oppression and divide and conquer. On the other hand, you can't ignore the feminist movement's history of marginalizing all women of color and poor and working class white women.
The fact that these issues of class, race, and sex seem to take precedence over the policies and governing ability of the candidates is, frankly, pretty disgusting.
#3 Feb 21 2008 at 10:16 AM Rating: Decent
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I think she brings up a salient issue--basically, how the old guard feminist movement are recreating the same tired politics that they've had for years--basically fighting only for the rights of privileged white women while ignoring issues of race. It's hard as a feminist to see many mainstream feminist groups discount racism in this country and act as if not voting for Hilary is a vote reinforcing the patriarchy. On the other hand, it's equally depressing seeing some white women pat themselves on the back for supporting Obama and saying how they've decided that it's the time to address race, since it's more important than gender, when it reinforces the status quo to establish hierarchies of oppression and divide and conquer. On the other hand, you can't ignore the feminist movement's history of marginalizing all women of color and poor and working class white women.
The fact that these issues of class, race, and sex seem to take precedence over the policies and governing ability of the candidates is, frankly, pretty disgusting.


ITA, it demeans that candidates themselves to not vote for them based on their abilities.

However, conversely,I will say that in Massachusetts, Deval Patrick became the first black governor-- what I think gets lost at times wasn't that people voted for him because he was black and race was a more important issue than gender (his opponent was a white woman) but that if he hadn't won the election, the voters racism would completely overwhelm their ability to make a value judgment since she sucked. I think to some extent that the issue for many people more than feeling the need to vote for someone b/c of their identity.
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#4 Feb 21 2008 at 10:27 AM Rating: Excellent
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Racism is the most overplayed card in the western world, if you don't get a job with a company with a company because of the colour of your skin WTF would you want to work for them ANYWAY???

75% of jobs are given on the basis of nepotism anyway, so the chances of "A random dude" getting a job is slim anyway, so unless you are getting a job on the basis of who you know, then it boiles down too three factors.

Can you do the Job?

Will you do the Job ?

And most importantly, how will you fit in with people already doing the Job?

If you have a massive chip on yourr shoulder about the coloUr of your skin guess what? no matter how well you fill items 1 & 2 you will never fill 3 and thats the key factor that decides between equally qualified candidates.

With regards to women, you need to look from a business's point of view. If you are hiring someone for a job that requires very long working hours and conditions that are likely to be detrimental to family life (Which Front-Runners jobs ALWAYS are) then unless a female can give absolute assurances that the business will come before her 7 year old she will not get the job.

Men are EXPECTED to put the business first and if they don't they will not be a front runner for long. the problem is women often think that they should have the possition but not have to put in the hours.

There are obviously expections but they will typically be single or childless women, as high end business is not a place where you can stop at 3.30 to pick up the kids everyday.

In a relationship with children there can only really be one parent who can fight to the top of a business structure unless you are willing to have it adversly effect your kids, it's up to each couple to decide which one of them does and which becomes the primary carer.

You can hardly blame Companies for being reluctant to promote a woman they know wants a family but expects to be able to juggle both parenthood and the responcibilities at work because they know that kids will come first.

it costs alot of money in terms of training and time investment to get people good enough for higher levels of business and often they cannot afford for that person so just turn around and say " I can't work all those hours that other guy does because i have to pick up the kids."

Ask yourself who out of the two SHOULD get promoted.

I know many companies in Britian avoid hiring women under 40 for that exact reason.
#5 Feb 21 2008 at 10:31 AM Rating: Excellent
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In that debate I actually think Steinem came off a little better.

I support Obama because I think he'll be a good, potentially great, President. On the other hand it pisses me off that it's okay to have Hilary nutcrackers out there, and it's all very hur-hur-hur nudge-nudge.

People who hate Hilary Clinton tend to hate her for the wrong reasons. I have yet to see anyone besides one (female) conservative columnist attack her voting record or her platform. I mostly see the semi-hysterical ad hominem "hell *****" kinds of attacks. Obama has not sunk to that level; I'm not saying that.

Eh, whatever. Someday there'll be a viable female candidate without as much baggage and we'll see what happens.

In the mean time, although I agree race vs. sex shouldn't be part of the discourse, it is and we may as well face that and work through it.

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#6 Feb 21 2008 at 10:32 AM Rating: Good
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Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?

**headdesk**


That's what you get out of the whole debate?

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People who hate Hilary Clinton tend to hate her for the wrong reasons.


ITA. Hilary has always been vilified for the wrong reasons.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 1:36pm by Annabella
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The Honorable Annabella wrote:
Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?

**headdesk**


That's what you get out of the whole debate?

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 1:33pm by Annabella
No, white men know more white men currently in power and will always have the upper hand in getting hired as a result. As well, there are more deadbeat dads than moms, so again, they'll get ahead because of it.
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#8 Feb 21 2008 at 10:40 AM Rating: Decent
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Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?
Did you even read what i wrote? Smiley: oyvey

here let me spell it out for you.

PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO PUT THE MOST HOURS AND TIME INTO A BUSINESS WILL GET TOP THE TOP, THIS IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A MAN BECAUSE WOMEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO PUT CHILDREN FIRST.
#9 Feb 21 2008 at 10:43 AM Rating: Default
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Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?
Did you even read what i wrote? Smiley: oyvey

here let me spell it out for you.

PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO PUT THE MOST HOURS AND TIME INTO A BUSINESS WILL GET TOP THE TOP, THIS IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A MAN BECAUSE WOMEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO PUT CHILDREN FIRST.


K, so it comes down to the fact that white men make more money and are promoted more often because they work harder and deserve it?
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#10 Feb 21 2008 at 10:44 AM Rating: Excellent
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Baron von tarv wrote:
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Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?
Did you even read what i wrote? Smiley: oyvey

here let me spell it out for you.

PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO PUT THE MOST HOURS AND TIME INTO A BUSINESS WILL GET TOP THE TOP, THIS IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A MAN BECAUSE WOMEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO PUT CHILDREN FIRST.


Yeah, okay, unless they're women of marriageable age because the potential employer might assume they'll want kids someday, whether they do or not.

What does that have to do with the debate? Hilary Clinton isn't going to take maternity leave at this stage of her life. Explain the relevance of your first post, please, cause I'm not seeing it.

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#11 Feb 21 2008 at 10:50 AM Rating: Excellent
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Tarv? So, you are saying that white men have more power and make more money because they are more deserving?

**headdesk**


That's what you get out of the whole debate?
Well, duh, Anna. See, I might possibly squirt out a crotchberry at some point, so I'm a poor risk as a potential employee. God forbid I might have a child and need to attend to it from time to time. At least until I am 40 and all parties can safely assumed that my unused ovaries have withered up like cat droppings in a litter pan. Thankfully the world is filled with men who gleefully neglect their offspring because that's what it really takes to get ahead.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 1:51pm by Mindel
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People who hate Hilary Clinton tend to hate her for the wrong reasons. I have yet to see anyone besides one (female) conservative columnist attack her voting record or her platform. I mostly see the semi-hysterical ad hominem "hell *****" kinds of attacks.
Do you mean pundit/columnist opinions or man on the street opinions?

I'm not asking for myself since I don't hate Clinton. I just don't want her to be the nominee. I'm sure she'll make a fine senator for years to come if she so chooses.
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What does that have to do with the debate? Hilary Clinton isn't going to take maternity leave at this stage of her life. Explain the relevance of your first post, please, cause I'm not seeing it.
Hilary's failure has everything to do with a horrifically run campain and nothing to do with whats between her leg.

If sex had anything to do with it she would never have made senator.
#14 Feb 21 2008 at 10:56 AM Rating: Excellent
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People who hate Hilary Clinton tend to hate her for the wrong reasons. I have yet to see anyone besides one (female) conservative columnist attack her voting record or her platform. I mostly see the semi-hysterical ad hominem "hell *****" kinds of attacks.
Do you mean pundit/columnist opinions or man on the street opinions?

I'm not asking for myself since I don't hate Clinton. I just don't want her to be the nominee. I'm sure she'll make a fine senator for years to come if she so chooses.


Pundits, columnists and message-board armchair politicians in the conservative spectrum.

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Samira wrote:
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People who hate Hilary Clinton tend to hate her for the wrong reasons. I have yet to see anyone besides one (female) conservative columnist attack her voting record or her platform. I mostly see the semi-hysterical ad hominem "hell *****" kinds of attacks.
Do you mean pundit/columnist opinions or man on the street opinions?

I'm not asking for myself since I don't hate Clinton. I just don't want her to be the nominee. I'm sure she'll make a fine senator for years to come if she so chooses.


Pundits, columnists and message-board armchair politicians in the conservative spectrum.



Which ones do you listen to? While there's certainly a share of ad-hominem, for the most part discussions of Hillary Clinton that I've heard tend to focus almost exclusively on positions she's taken in the past, statements she's made about her agenda, and specific actions she's taken herself. Oddly, I've *never* heard her called "hell-beast/*****/whatever" (for example) except by Liberals who mostly dislike her because she's either not liberal enough for them, or give their liberal cause a bad name with her bad public perception.

I've heard many conservative pundits talk about the disastrous actions she'd take if she took office, including her well known and documented vindictiveness. Is that "rhetoric" though? I guess I don't spend enough time on random conservative blogs or something, but I've just never seen attacks on Clinton by conservatives that didn't at least include some form of a discussion of facts.
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Oddly, I've *never* heard her called "hell-beast/*****/whatever" (for example) except by Liberals


So you don't read Totem's posts.
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Oddly, I've *never* heard her called "hell-beast/*****/whatever" (for example) except by Liberals


So you don't read Totem's posts.


Lol... Yes. Cause Tote's posts aren't playing off liberal stereotypes of what conservatives believe. Nosireebob!

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 12:39pm by gbaji
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Lol... Yes. Cause Tote's posts aren't playing off liberal stereotypes of what conservatives believe. Nosireebob!


So, is Ann Coulter a democratic operative set up to dismantle the republican party by posting content-free, weekly op-ed columns?
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God forbid I might have a child and need to attend to it from time to time. At least until I am 40 and all parties can safely assumed that my unused ovaries have withered up like cat droppings in a litter pan. Thankfully the world is filled with men who gleefully neglect their offspring because that's what it really takes to get ahead.
A person who doesnt work as long or as hard as another doesn't deserve equal compansation. Whether someone is attending to or neglecting family members really isn't relevant - is it?

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God forbid I might have a child and need to attend to it from time to time. At least until I am 40 and all parties can safely assumed that my unused ovaries have withered up like cat droppings in a litter pan. Thankfully the world is filled with men who gleefully neglect their offspring because that's what it really takes to get ahead.
A person who doesnt work as long or as hard as another doesn't deserve equal compansation. Whether someone is attending to or neglecting family members really isn't relevant - is it?



So ignore the post justifying not hiring women as a entire group at equal wages when they are in childbearing years and criticize someone who might find it inherently unjust? Nice job, Elinda.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 3:44pm by Annabella
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The Honorable Annabella wrote:
Elinda, Star Breaker wrote:
Mindel wrote:
God forbid I might have a child and need to attend to it from time to time. At least until I am 40 and all parties can safely assumed that my unused ovaries have withered up like cat droppings in a litter pan. Thankfully the world is filled with men who gleefully neglect their offspring because that's what it really takes to get ahead.
A person who doesnt work as long or as hard as another doesn't deserve equal compansation. Whether someone is attending to or neglecting family members really isn't relevant - is it?



So ignore the post justifying not hiring women as a entire group at equal wages when they are in childbearing years and criticize someone who might find it inherently unjust? Nice job, Elinda.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 3:44pm by Annabella
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The comment I quoted above is stand-alone stupid.

I don't have time, right now, to read about the debate, but will later. It looks interesting. I may not have any further comments though.
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Lol... Yes. Cause Tote's posts aren't playing off liberal stereotypes of what conservatives believe. Nosireebob!
Hi, excuse me... yes. Ok.

Ummm.... you're, like, not a liberal, you know? So please stop saying you can define us and what we think.

Because you're wrong and your opinion has no merit.

Because you're not a liberal.
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A person who doesnt work as long or as hard as another doesn't deserve equal compansation. Whether someone is attending to or neglecting family members really isn't relevant - is it?



Because, of course, the women who manage a full-time job AND taking care of children don't "work as long or as hard." The slackers.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 1:19pm by Ambrya
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Because, of course, the women who manage a full-time job AND taking care of children don't "work as long or as hard." The slackers.


That's not really the point though, is it? An employer is not required to pay you based on how hard you work on and off the job. His motivation is to pay you based on how much benefit you are providing to him and his business. If you are a productive employee you'll be paid more. If you are less productive, you'll be paid less. Seems pretty obvious to me.


Turn the argument around. Remember, that an employer is a consumer of labor. He purchases labor and should be free to pay that labor based on what the labor gives to him, and not based on other factors. In the same way that you are free to choose to buy the lower priced of two otherwise identical television sets, right? The fact that one was built by someone who has more mouths to feed at home isn't really a consideration, is it? You are free to research the companies and choose to purchase the higher priced and/or lower quality one out of some desire to reward a company that you like better (maybe it hires only domestic labor, or uses only organically grown whatevers, or fits some other thing you care about). But that's your choice. Just as an employer may choose (and many do) to provide higher pay/title/whatever and/or provide more flexible hours for women who are raising children while working.


The point is that it's a choice of the consumer. It should never be required.
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Ambrya wrote:
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A person who doesnt work as long or as hard as another doesn't deserve equal compansation. Whether someone is attending to or neglecting family members really isn't relevant - is it?



Because, of course, the women who manage a full-time job AND taking care of children don't "work as long or as hard." The slackers.
My statement is not dependent on gender.
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That's not really the point though, is it? An employer is not required to pay you based on how hard you work on and off the job. His motivation is to pay you based on how much benefit you are providing to him and his business. If you are a productive employee you'll be paid more. If you are less productive, you'll be paid less. Seems pretty obvious to me.


But the original discussion statement that women get paid less as an entire group because they are less productive as an entire group without any evidence and with dismissing gender discrimination as any factor in the pay differential. Not hiring women as a class or promoting them or paying them equal because you believe they will ask for accommodations that men won't despite having no evidence to the contrary is sexism. It isn't about the market. I'll be damned if I will accept being paid according to what an employer imagines about my gender rather than my own merit.

Edited, Feb 21st 2008 5:20pm by Annabella
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