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#1 Jan 03 2008 at 6:20 AM Rating: Decent
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If you stop in for a cup of coffee,,,to go,,, at a coffee shop or bakery of some sort, there will often be a tip jar on the counter. Do you tip counter help?

I usually don't.

I've gotten to be fairly regular at one place though since we moved. The more I get to know the guy behind the counter, the more guilty I feel leaving the store without tipping him - so I have been tipping him.

It's ruining my morning coffee experience. I can justify 20 bucks a week for my morning coffee and bagel, much more than that though, and I'm going to have to reconsider brewing a pot before I leave the house. Smiley: glare

An aside: Retail counter workers make, at least, minumum wage. Wait people are paid significantly less/hour by the employer (I believe minumum wage for tipped employees is somewhere around $2 - $3/hour). Also, I was a waitress for years and so, tip waitstaff very well.

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#2 Jan 03 2008 at 6:36 AM Rating: Good
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My morning routine costs me $3.53. Make it $4.00 after leaving the change.
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#3 Jan 03 2008 at 6:36 AM Rating: Good
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If you stop in for a cup of coffee,,,to go,,, at a coffee shop or bakery of some sort, there will often be a tip jar on the counter. Do you tip counter help?

I usually don't.

I've gotten to be fairly regular at one place though since we moved. The more I get to know the guy behind the counter, the more guilty I feel leaving the store without tipping him - so I have been tipping him.

It's ruining my morning coffee experience. I can justify 20 bucks a week for my morning coffee and bagel, much more than that though, and I'm going to have to reconsider brewing a pot before I leave the house. Smiley: glare

An aside: Retail counter workers make, at least, minumum wage. Wait people are paid significantly less/hour by the employer (I believe minumum wage for tipped employees is somewhere around $2 - $3/hour). Also, I was a waitress for years and so, tip waitstaff very well.



I leave a fiver in the jar at the coffee shop every Friday, and I am a regular five-day-a-week-customer. I don't have any kind of fancy coffee orders, but they know me well enough to know how I like stuff. The extra $5 a week is worth it to me for the tiny bit of extra service I feel I get there.
#4 Jan 03 2008 at 6:36 AM Rating: Excellent
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Never. I don't tip the guy at McDonalds or the person ringing up my groceries or the guy selling me gas & a newspaper so why would I tip the girl handing me a frozen yogurt?

Edited, Jan 3rd 2008 10:21am by Jophiel
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#5 Jan 03 2008 at 6:50 AM Rating: Good
Depends...if it's a Mom & Pop shop, I'll tip counter help seeing as it's usually a family owned biz where the people work hard to compete against franchise places by delivering better-than-usual customer service and enjoy getting to know there regulars.

If it's the punk at the local Dunkin' Donuts/Starbucks, I refuse to tip. They make enough...even if the person behind the counter is polite. It's not that I don't think they deserve it, but more along the 'Waitstaff' arguement where they're paid enough to not require tips, and the business certainly isn't going anywhere.
#6 Jan 03 2008 at 7:47 AM Rating: Decent
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I'm starting to see these every damn place, even in fast food joints and to be honest it annoys me. If you have a problem with the amount you are paid then you seriously need to start looking for a better job.

I only tip if i feel that the expected level of service i would expect to recieve is exceeded.

I have also asked on rare occasions that sevice charges be removed from my bill due to the shocking level of staff performace, one owner argued with me once and i upped and walked out of the restraunt without paying anything which should have landed me in the world of pooh but didn't, guess the police must have eaten there themselves.
#7 Jan 03 2008 at 8:14 AM Rating: Good
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I reguarly stop at a very good local bagel shop/bakery for my morning breakfast on days I am driving to a client site. As I am a regular there, I do tip a quarter or so after my 2.50 for my muffin and tea. If I was not a regular, I would not tip. I believe this is the only place I recall counter tipping.

Edited, Jan 3rd 2008 11:14am by fhrugby
#8 Jan 03 2008 at 8:25 AM Rating: Good
I am a 7 day a week customer at my local coffee shop. If it's just my coffee, I leave them the change ($0.56 I believe, every day), if I get coffee for my wife, I toss a buck in. They know my name, I know them all by name, we talk about our weekends and our families and ordinarily they start making my coffee the moment they see me walk through the door (I get the same large espresso every day of the week). They open up on Christmas Day and Thanksgiving and if I go there on those days, I toss a $10 in the jar (yeah, that one is guilt).

Of course, I also give a gift to my son's day care provider on her birthday and at Christmas. These people are a part of my life, they treat me and my family well, and I don't have a problem with a little thank you every day.
#9 Jan 03 2008 at 8:29 AM Rating: Excellent
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I do, yeah. Not a whole lot, but the change, sure.
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#10 Jan 03 2008 at 8:43 AM Rating: Excellent
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I am a 7 day a week customer at my local coffee shop.
Maybe that's it. I don't stop at coffee shops with enough frequency to feel a rapport.

I used to stop at a gas station nightly and buy a newspaper. The girl there would tease me about buying my paper at 11:00pm each night and we'd make small talk for a minute or two but I never felt the need to tip her (nor did she keep a jar out). Arguably, she was doing just as much work as she would in selling me a donut.

Edited, Jan 3rd 2008 10:43am by Jophiel
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#11 Jan 03 2008 at 8:55 AM Rating: Good
I tip the girls at the coffee shop. Its who I am. I make no value judgments of other people based on whether or not they choose to do so. Do some people do more work for no tip? Sure. Do people do the same work for no tip? Absolutely. Do I throw change in to the tip jar every where I go? Of course not.

I don't care how friendly the gas station girl is or the McDonald's counter guy may be. The sandwich shop moron doesn't get one and the mailman and paper delivery guy find empty stockings when they depend on Santa Moe at the holidays (my wife is the paper guy's indirect boss, so that pisses him off but he can't do anything about it. Ha ha!)

But I tip the girls at the coffee shop. I like them.

Edited, Jan 3rd 2008 10:55am by MoebiusLord
#12 Jan 03 2008 at 8:56 AM Rating: Decent
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Well it sounds like familiarity is what makes the difference. It was about the time the guy started calling me by name that I felt like I needed to tip him.

I feel funny leaving $0.28 cents for my $3.72 purchase, so have been going with 5.00. But then I don't necessarily tip every time I'm there. I think I'll modify my accounting. I should just give the guy $20.00 on Monday and anything that's leftover on Friday is his. That should work out, as I'm not likely to stop there ALL 5 mornings in any given week. Lol, he can keep a lil envelope with my money in it next to the cash register.

Anyway, it does seem like there are more and more tip jars lying around, but maybe that's because there are more and more counters providing us with our daily needs.
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#13 Jan 03 2008 at 10:08 AM Rating: Good
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With me it's always about the service. Rarely does anyone who just makes me a coffee get a tip, but there are exceptions - ISTR the cute barista at Memphis airport had such a sincere and welcoming rack smile that I tipped her a buck, as it brightened an otherwise dreary day.

It's a very different culture here in UK.
a) Waiting staff are paid UK Minimum Wage (£5.35; about $10:50 per hour)
b) Tipping has never been part of our culture
c) Many restauranteurs don't pass the tips on to their staff, especially now most bills are paid by card
d) Many restaurants automatically add 10-15% 'service charge' to the bill. I always deduct this on principle, and refuse to pay anything if they get ****** (What they going to do? Sue?) Even then I don't mind slipping a £5 or £10 to helpful, friendly and efficient waiters or waitresses.

When overseas I always stick with what's expected locally; about 10-15% in Europe and 15-20% in USA. More for exceptional service.
And of course, surly or lazy staff get fUck-all.
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#14 Jan 03 2008 at 10:14 AM Rating: Good
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I am extremely lazy. Stopping for coffee on my way to work is one more time I have to stop my car (even counting drive-thru). So I brew my own at home and take it with me. Also, for the most part, coffee shop coffee isn't all that great. I don't do lattes and crap.

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#15 Jan 03 2008 at 10:26 AM Rating: Decent
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#16 Jan 03 2008 at 11:46 AM Rating: Decent
i do not tip unless there is service. if i have to pore my own cup of joe then forget it. if they are making me one that is special and beyond normal job discription of a typical coffee shop helper then yes i will tip.
#18 Jan 03 2008 at 4:23 PM Rating: Good
I leave the change at Mom and Pop coffee shops, but not Starbucks or D&Ds.

And the first homeless Guy/salvation Army person who asks gets the change in my pocket. Signs like "Help Me Get Drunk" help them get my change.
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#19 Jan 03 2008 at 5:33 PM Rating: Good
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Occasionally I'll let them keep my 3 cents change and throw it in their damn bucket. Usually because I have already stuffed my wallet in my bag, whilst trying to hold my 25lb baby on one arm and steer my hyper 3 year old away from the counter.

Edited, Jan 3rd 2008 5:34pm by Tare
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#20 Jan 03 2008 at 7:25 PM Rating: Decent
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Do you tip counter help?


I used to back when the prospect of eventually boning one of them wasn't out of the question. Now I just angrily shake my fist at them and say "I'm not falling for your pathetic breast jiggle this time, trollop!"
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#21 Jan 03 2008 at 7:40 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't tip counter help. That's not to say I wont tell them to keep the change if it's an annoyingly small amount, but thats more about me not wanting to carry around the extra change in my pocket then anything else. IMO, the person at the counter of a coffee shop did no more work then the kid working the fry-o-lator at the fast food place. I didn't tip him either. Their wages are calculated to be compensation for their labor sans-tip. I'm already paying for their efforts and that should be enough.

At a restaurant I tip. Usually generously unless the service particularly sucks. But that's because their wages are calculated based on an average 15% tip. So if they do an average job, that's what they get. Seems simple enough. I'm not too picky about service, so if the food tasted good and they didn't drop anything on me, they're probably going to get more then that "average" amount. But then I feel like they actually "served" me in that situation. Putting drinks on a counter isn't service.


Oh. One exception of course is a bartender. I always tip them. Usually before they pour my drink. Helps improve the quality of the drinks a ton. I usually drop $5 in the jar as I'm ordering, and drop more in as the night goes on depending on the quality of the drink. A good bartender will get about as much from me in tips as the cost of the drinks over the course of an evening if the drinks are good.


Also, on the change thing. I'm also much much more inclined to drop my excess change in one of those charity jars at the supermarket then in a tip jar. But that's because I figure that the person behind the counter has a job and isn't likely suffering some terminal illness or living in a poverty stricken African village or something. Yeah. Priorities. Go figure!
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#22 Jan 03 2008 at 7:43 PM Rating: Decent
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I figure that the person behind the counter has a job and isn't likely suffering some terminal illness or living in a poverty stricken African village or something.


I figure the person who runs the organization that places the jars there probably doesn't need another summer home, so I don't.

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#24 Jan 04 2008 at 2:30 AM Rating: Good
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Nice Guy Eddie: C'mon, throw in a buck!
Mr. Pink: Uh-uh, I don't tip.
Nice Guy Eddie: You don't tip?
Mr. Pink: Nah, I don't believe in it.
Nice Guy Eddie: You don't believe in tipping?
Mr. Blue: You know what these chicks make? They make shit.
Mr. Pink: Don't give me that. She don't make enough money that she can quit.
Nice Guy Eddie: I don't even know a fucking Jew who'd have the balls to say that. Let me get this straight: you don't ever tip?
Mr. Pink: I don't tip because society says I have to. All right, if someone deserves a tip, if they really put forth an effort, I'll give them something a little something extra. But this tipping automatically, it's for the birds. As far as I'm concerned, they're just doing their job.
Mr. Blue: Hey, our girl was nice.
Mr. Pink: She was okay. She wasn't anything special.
Mr. Blue: What's special? Take you in the back and suck your dick?
Nice Guy Eddie: I'd go over twelve percent for that.
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