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#1 Nov 09 2007 at 6:55 AM Rating: Decent
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Pre-weekend introspection......

Are you content with your lot in life? Are you satisfied, or even excited with the path you find yourself treading along and the destination to which you head?

0r..

Were you dealt a crappy hand, pooped on by life? Did you frick things up beyond repair? Are you simply miserble?

Are you happy?
Yes :12 (16.2%)
Mostly :26 (35.1%)
Slightly :17 (23.0%)
Not at all :16 (21.6%)
Other:3 (4.1%)
Total:74
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#2 Nov 09 2007 at 7:16 AM Rating: Decent
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Because I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and, doggonit, people like me!

I stopped being a push over at work, got my groove back and made a grown man cry before I made him quit, dominance reasserted I have to deal with remarkably less bullsh'it.

Applied for an office position in some giant insurance corporation, cleared the first hurdle of logic questions and jump through the hoop type *****, did the first interview with HR and provided references, got a call back and did an interview with the department heads which I hope went well because I got a call back the same day, I find out today /crossfingers. Just got a phonecall while typing the post I got the job /woot

Other than that the drive to turn the apartment into more than a bachelor pad moves forward. Been doing a little bit terms of working out have had pleasant results, flirting with a nice french canadian girl, raiding 2-3 nights a week in WoW and just plain enjoying myself

Meanwhile the petty part of me is rejoicing in the fact that my ex's dreams of a greener pastures in Ottawa have fallen apart. She is working a minimum wage job still, can't break into her desired field of working with autistic children.

Good times

/bodhiupdate
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#3 Nov 09 2007 at 7:22 AM Rating: Excellent
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I'm happy. I suppose I could be happier but that's like saying that Bill Gates could be richer. It doesn't make him less rich now.

So yeah. Everything's coming up Jophiel.
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#4 Nov 09 2007 at 7:26 AM Rating: Excellent
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Yep. Not satisfied - I still chide myself with the things left undone so far - but happy, yes.

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#5 Nov 09 2007 at 7:27 AM Rating: Excellent
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Mostly. I got mostly where I wanted to be and kinda had to start over parts of my life, but things are going well. This next year wil be a real killer, but accomplishments all over the place. If I survive, I think the next phase of my life will be much happier.

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#6 Nov 09 2007 at 7:43 AM Rating: Excellent
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bodhisattva wrote:
Meanwhile the petty part of me is rejoicing in the fact that my ex's dreams of a greener pastures in Ottawa have fallen apart. She is working a minimum wage job still, can't break into her desired field of working with autistic children.
Yeah, but at least she got rid of that loser boyfriend!

Samira wrote:
Yep. Not satisfied - I still chide myself with the things left undone so far - but happy, yes.
Ditto.

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If I survive, I think the next phase of my life will be much happier.
I guarantee it!
#7 Nov 09 2007 at 7:45 AM Rating: Decent
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Atomicflea wrote:
bodhisattva wrote:
Meanwhile the petty part of me is rejoicing in the fact that my ex's dreams of a greener pastures in Ottawa have fallen apart. She is working a minimum wage job still, can't break into her desired field of working with autistic children.
Yeah, but at least she got rid of that loser boyfriend!


So hateful, :(
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#8 Nov 09 2007 at 7:46 AM Rating: Good
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bodhisattva wrote:
Atomicflea wrote:
bodhisattva wrote:
Meanwhile the petty part of me is rejoicing in the fact that my ex's dreams of a greener pastures in Ottawa have fallen apart. She is working a minimum wage job still, can't break into her desired field of working with autistic children.
Yeah, but at least she got rid of that loser boyfriend!


So hateful, :(
Smiley: grin Oh come on. You practically begged me to.
#9 Nov 09 2007 at 7:52 AM Rating: Excellent
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Bhodi wrote:
She is working a minimum wage job still, can't break into her desired field of working with autistic children.



Well, that kinda figures. Communication isn't exactly her strong suit, either.
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#10 Nov 09 2007 at 7:53 AM Rating: Good
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Things could always be better, but they could always be much much worse. I have natural luck that always gets me out of things fairly unscathed whereas others would've taken a beating. I'm happy, but never completely satisfied, but given the alternatives, I wouldn't change a thing.
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#11 Nov 09 2007 at 8:25 AM Rating: Decent
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Best advice I ever received...
Sometimes happiness is a choice. Followed by, Life sucks, get over it.
#12 Nov 09 2007 at 8:29 AM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
Yep. Not satisfied - I still chide myself with the things left undone so far - but happy, yes.

I've accepted the fact that I will never climb to the summit of Mt. Everest.

Fortunately today's technology lets me live the experience nearly first hand, however vicariously, from the 20.9% O2 atmosphere of my home.
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#13 Nov 09 2007 at 9:10 AM Rating: Good
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I said "mostly" only because there are some things I haven't done that seem less and less possible as the years go by. I love being at home with my kiddies but I'm looking forward to getting back to work in a few years time.

Life's good.
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#14 Nov 09 2007 at 9:40 AM Rating: Good
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I have to say that I have been content with my life and I experience lots of flashes of happiness.
#15 Nov 09 2007 at 9:51 AM Rating: Good
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I said slightly, since a person with clinical depression isn't expected to be happy. Actually I enjoy moments of happiness daily, as my family and many interests are sure to make me smile. Still find myself in ruts, where I don't want to do anything and I'm face with the fact that even happy, the depression is still there.
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#16 Nov 09 2007 at 10:26 AM Rating: Decent
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I said mostly because I just got my first real job, in fact just put the acceptance letter in the mail box. But I'm unhappy because I'm in the slow process of breaking up with my boyfriend of five years and being alone for...well the first time ever scares the **** out of me!
#17 Nov 09 2007 at 10:31 AM Rating: Excellent
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kaiilyn wrote:
I said mostly because I just got my first real job, in fact just put the acceptance letter in the mail box. But I'm unhappy because I'm in the slow process of breaking up with my boyfriend of five years and being alone for...well the first time ever scares the sh*t out of me!


So don't think of it as being alone. Think of it as independence.
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#18 Nov 09 2007 at 10:36 AM Rating: Good
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Also, breakups are like band-aids. You aren't doing anyone any favors if you drag it out. The sooner it's over, the sooner you move on.

I'm walkin' down that long, lonesome road, babe
Where I'm bound, I can't tell
But goodbye's too good a word, gal
So I'll just say fare thee well
I ain't sayin' you treated me unkind
You could have done better but I don't mind
You just kinda wasted my precious time
But don't think twice, it's all right
#19 Nov 09 2007 at 10:48 AM Rating: Decent
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I don't think I know what happy is anymore. My life isn't that bad, have kids, fiance, job etc. But the last 5-6 years I just can't get myself out of this rut, nothing excites me anymore.
#20 Nov 09 2007 at 10:53 AM Rating: Good
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Yodabunny wrote:
I don't think I know what happy is anymore. My life isn't that bad, have kids, fiance, job etc. But the last 5-6 years I just can't get myself out of this rut, nothing excites me anymore.


Sounds like someone needs a cool vacation.

Myself, I'm pretty happy. Could be better, could be a hell of a lot worse.
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#21 Nov 09 2007 at 11:42 AM Rating: Good
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You missed a 1st option of "Smug", so I had to hit Happy Smiley: grin
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#22 Nov 09 2007 at 2:17 PM Rating: Good
I'd be happier if I was getting laid on a regular basis.

I'm not saying being single again is a bad thing mind you, but the whole "getting laid" thing requires more work.
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#23 Nov 09 2007 at 4:01 PM Rating: Good
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Overall id give my life an 8/10

Working a kick back job, wife is mostly cool (considering we are complete and total opposites). one thing would make it a 10/10...

WTB a preggers wife....

oh well.. moar secks for mee!!
#24 Nov 09 2007 at 4:12 PM Rating: Good
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I hate to be sappy, but I think I can finally say I've never been happier. Great husband, great kids, I'm busy and rarely have time to be bored let alone get on the computer during the days. I have a wonderful place to live with lots to do and places to go. Sick is working from home and much happier. Family dinners every night, something I once never thought would happen. I get to bother Tare almost on a daily basis now. Oh, and did I mention its still not even cold enough to contemplate winter clothes?

Yup, I'm pretty damn happy.
#25 Nov 09 2007 at 4:42 PM Rating: Good
I thought I was happy until I read DSD's post. Then I was reminded how lonely I am most of the time.

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#26 Nov 09 2007 at 5:20 PM Rating: Excellent
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I picked mostly. I have a decent jobs, nice appartment, etc. Little more stress than i would like right now due to missing people who have yet to be rehired at work, but i'll manage. That and the whole no girlfriend thing. But i'm an optimist so thats ok!
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