Kao be warned do NOT click the images!!!!!
Remember your friend, the giant spider we were all trying to figure out? I went to the museum of Natural Sciences today and there was a place in the discovery room with a giant spider. Not yours, but I did ask a guide there who seemed to know a lot about local arachnids. She said your giant friend sounded exactly like a gray headed fishing spider. (also known as the Dark fishing spider
The spider they had at the museum was called a Golden Silk Spider. It was about the size of my palm. It lives here too. Both are harmless and great hunters. Not that that matters. I'll be killing them as I see them myself.