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Link.

So yeah, I'm all outraged and shit that this guy would rape a three year old but beyond that I have to wonder how this ever happens.

The mother had not known her daughter had ever been victimized and was apparently oblivious to efforts to find her until late last month, Donohue said.

"A family friend called her and said, 'My God, you need to turn on the TV. I believe that is your daughter,' " Donohue said.

Donohue said the mother recognized Stiles, a former animal trainer.

The alleged abuse most likely occurred while the mother -- a single woman working six days a week -- was at work, Donohue said.


So, am I getting this right? She had an animal trainer watching her kid while she was at work??

And then there's this genius:

I'm not sure I'm getting what you're outraged about... Is it mom not finding proper childcare?

I am guessing they may have been dating at the time, but even so, a three-year old isn't equipped to confess they've been sexually assaulted. They may not even know it was anything bad. I certainly don't see where it was the mother's fault at all. He raped the girl on tape, and the authorities had no way of identifying the girl on the tape other than putting her face on TV, which is how mom found out. I'd be grateful I found out at all. So many parents don't.

Exactly. I had to interpret for a woman in the psych ward MOnday who told us the paper was telling her to rape little children. She also heard it from the radio and the TV. She said they had to be young enough not to be able to defend themselves, and siad it all in a very pleasant tone of voice. When I walked out, she graciously thanked me for my help.

I didn't know whether to throw up or cry, but thank God her Psychiatrist is excellent.

Well, of course I'm outraged that she was raped but mostly I was being sarcastic. I'm just constantly amazed at the women who leave their children in the care of sacks of sh*t and then are amazed that the kids get raped or killed.

Wow, whoodathunkit?

This is closer to the truth, according to the articles. The woman who was dating him was a friend of the little girl's mother. She brought him with her to the child's home, along with her own children. She is reportedly devastated at her involvement (however unintentional). The man is extremely manipulative and has pulled off fake persona's in the past. I wouldn't blame anyone but him. We're not supposed to have to turn into private investigators every time we meet someone, though if it were the person caring for the child, I would. He was just the significant other of the caretaker though.

Nexa

I think that any parent would take some steps in finding out who they're having watch their child, but when there are family or friend connections to the caretaker, people generally assume that person has to be an OK person.



You got a point Kakar.

She probably assumed that her friend would be watching him, and the friend probably assumed her boyfriend wasn't a ************ I mean, it's a bit ironic for me to say, but you don't really every know anyone. If someone wants to make you believe something, they can.

wow ...

Apparently!

just shot him.

its the humane thing to do.

C'mon, look at him! He has the whole creepy pedophile look to him.