NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
**** in itself is just a gateway to new opportunities to try with your SO. In a long term relationship, you need to keep your sex life constantly renewed or you get in a rut. How else do you find new ideas that may excite you, and suggest it to your lover?
It's also a gateway into adultery, addiction, resentment, and depression. Slippery slope I know, but some people struggle with this just like alcohol, gambling, and drugs. Lots of people do I'm sure.
Dangerous game. Fun to play when/if you can control it.
My question is to those who haven't been married longer than 10 years and are already using **** to "experiment". What's the next step? What's the threshold for acceptable behavior?
Nonsense.
People will get that way for many reasons,they may also happen to read **** during the process.
Men can't help looking at women.It doesn't mean they don't love the woman they're with.
Most people I've been with,we watched together.
There is also nothing wrong with either partner ************ while alone.Some women are threatened by that.Don't be.Sometimes it's just good to have an uncomplicated **** without the need to take someone else's feelings into consideration.
It's also great fun to use a partners toys on her while playing together.
Sex should be fun.Have a bit of a laugh with it.Try new things and discuss it with each other.
**** is an outlet.A way to help the imagination,learn new tricks,or just get off.