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What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
Tare wrote:
Many of the women responding to the confessor seem to think that husbands looking at **** is not acceptable at all. They feel cheated and betrayed when they find that their husbands are getting their jollies on a computer after hours.
I've always found this reaction so interesting. It's fantasy, not betrayal. I'd worry a lot more if he were looking at the next-door neighbor.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
As long as I don't walk in and catch him looking at it. It's one thing to know he looks at it, it's another to see it. Atleast for me. I've never found 1 shred of **** but he's a man, I'm sure it's around here somewhere.
Princess Tare wrote:
For me, Mr. Tare looks at **** occasionally. He gets Playboy magazine too. I don't really have an issue with it. I don't want my children to be exposed to it so I'm pretty firm on that. As long as it's out of sight, I don't really mind. I know he thinks I'm sexy and loves me very much. He just uses **** to indulge his particular fantasies and that's ok with me. If his use escalated to movies or beyond, I'd probably be bothered more.
Edited, Oct 4th 2007 9:56am by Tare
Edited, Oct 4th 2007 9:56am by Tare
It sounds to me like you have a healthy and secure outlook on it. In my experience, the women I've known who took issue with it have been fairly insecure. Not to say that all women who take issue with **** are insecure, but that has been my experience.
Edited, Oct 4th 2007 11:00am by Kakar
Some people are like slinkies, they aren't really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
Samira wrote:
Tare wrote:
Many of the women responding to the confessor seem to think that husbands looking at **** is not acceptable at all. They feel cheated and betrayed when they find that their husbands are getting their jollies on a computer after hours.
I've always found this reaction so interesting. It's fantasy, not betrayal. I'd worry a lot more if he were looking at the next-door neighbor.
It really is interesting how enraged some of these women are. You'd think these guys had a **** starlet hidden in the attic. I wonder what it is about **** that so threatens some people. Of course, I can't be as much on a ***** of that forum as I am here or I'd ask.
Edited, Oct 4th 2007 10:03am by Tare
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
Princess Tare wrote:
Samira wrote:
Tare wrote:
Many of the women responding to the confessor seem to think that husbands looking at **** is not acceptable at all. They feel cheated and betrayed when they find that their husbands are getting their jollies on a computer after hours.
I've always found this reaction so interesting. It's fantasy, not betrayal. I'd worry a lot more if he were looking at the next-door neighbor.
It really is interesting how enraged some of these women are. You'd think these guys had a **** starlet hidden in the attic. I wonder what it is about **** that so threatens some people. Of course, I can't be as much on a ***** of that forum as I am here or I'd ask.
Edited, Oct 4th 2007 10:03am by Tare
Oh, just ask. You can do it! These are mothers, right? They're used to being asked "Why?" repeatedly.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
I've never cared if a significant other looked at ****. Well, assuming it doesn't involve children or animals or anything else disturbing.
Hell, I had an exboyfriend that wanted to have sex like three times a day and I just wasn't all that into it. I told him to watch more **** and leave me alone.
Nexa
Hell, I had an exboyfriend that wanted to have sex like three times a day and I just wasn't all that into it. I told him to watch more **** and leave me alone.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Oh, and are all these women saying they never look at ****? Not even with their spouse? They've got kids, they can't all be claiming to be goody-goody virgins.
Nexa
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Nexa wrote:
Oh, and are all these women saying they never look at ****? Not even with their spouse? They've got kids, they can't all be claiming to be goody-goody virgins.
Nexa
Nexa
Not one person will admit to watching **** and liking it. If they even admit they have watched it, it's because their husband wanted them to.
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
The wife and I look at or watch **** together all the time. If we do it individually, sometimes we will say "Hey, was looking at some good **** today and found something I think you'd like." Then we go look at it together.
Therefore, I see nothing wrong with either spouse looking at **** or ************* Some people need to lighten up about sex and nudity.
Therefore, I see nothing wrong with either spouse looking at **** or ************* Some people need to lighten up about sex and nudity.
I'm not sure what my SO's have thought of all my ****. Mostly because I keep it hidden really well, because it's more fun to peruse if I feel like I'm doing something naughty.
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Friar Katie wrote:
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Ohhhh, Fabio!!!
/swoon
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
Elderon wrote:
The wife and I look at or watch **** together all the time. If we do it individually, sometimes we will say "Hey, was looking at some good **** today and found something I think you'd like." Then we go look at it together.
Therefore, I see nothing wrong with either spouse looking at **** or ************* Some people need to lighten up about sex and nudity.
Therefore, I see nothing wrong with either spouse looking at **** or ************* Some people need to lighten up about sex and nudity.
It's good that the two of you are in sync enough that you like the same kind of ****. I would imagine that's probably rarer than couples where neither spouse ever watches it.
Personally, I've never really been into the watching **** with significant other bit, though I don't have any major objections to it if the other person wants to or something...it just doesn't really do anything for me in that situation.
Nexa would like to note that suddenly, talking about her sex life on here is very very bizarre since you all know who she's dating... /uncomfortable.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
On this topic, my wife mentioned that on some day-time talk show the other day, there was a whole show about women who thought that **** was all bad, which is why now that some women are "starting to look at ****" it's being called "erotica".
Fucking euphemisms created to soften perfectly good HARD terms.
Fucking euphemisms created to soften perfectly good HARD terms.
Princess Tare wrote:
Friar Katie wrote:
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Ohhhh, Fabio!!!
/swoon
It's a good point, though. There's some confluence, obviously, but men and women tend to get turned on in very different ways. Men are visually stimulated. Women are, for lack of a more graceful term, contextually stimulated.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Nexasaurus wrote:
Nexa would like to note that suddenly, talking about her sex life on here is very very bizarre since you all know who she's dating... /uncomfortable.
Also, I'd imagine good robot **** is hard to find.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Samira wrote:
Princess Tare wrote:
Friar Katie wrote:
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Ohhhh, Fabio!!!
/swoon
It's a good point, though. There's some confluence, obviously, but men and women tend to get turned on in very different ways. Men are visually stimulated. Women are, for lack of a more graceful term, contextually stimulated.
Oh yes.
If you want me to put out, don't rub my boobs. Do the dishes.
Hah!
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
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Samira wrote:
Princess Tare wrote:
Friar Katie wrote:
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Ohhhh, Fabio!!!
/swoon
It's a good point, though. There's some confluence, obviously, but men and women tend to get turned on in very different ways. Men are visually stimulated. Women are, for lack of a more graceful term, contextually stimulated.
So that's what I'm doing wrong. I've just got to leer and use my pick-up lines in the right context...
Some people are like slinkies, they aren't really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
Kakar, Assassin Reject wrote:
Samira wrote:
Princess Tare wrote:
Friar Katie wrote:
I'm not a fan of ****. It just doesn't do anything to me. Now romance novels.. thats a whole other story.
Ohhhh, Fabio!!!
/swoon
It's a good point, though. There's some confluence, obviously, but men and women tend to get turned on in very different ways. Men are visually stimulated. Women are, for lack of a more graceful term, contextually stimulated.
So that's what I'm doing wrong. I've just got to leer and use my pick-up lines in the right context...
Or at least with some panache.
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
Use this knowledge wisely, young one.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Kakar, Assassin Reject wrote:
So that's what I'm doing wrong. I've just got to leer and use my pick-up lines in the right context...
I personally don't see how it can be healthy, even if it's done together.
I can't say that I could truly separate the fantasy part with the real world urges. Part of the fantasy of pron is that it usually is not the person you are married to nor anyone that resembles him/her. If you can extrapolate the situation and details and picture your spouse all the time, more power to you. You're better than I am.
I try to avoid it at all costs honestly. I love my wife dearly and I don't think that fantasizing about anything that we can't/won't do together is healthy.
**** is like movie romance. It never happens like that and can make the real thing tame in comparison. If it was just like real life, no one would watch it.
I can't say that I could truly separate the fantasy part with the real world urges. Part of the fantasy of pron is that it usually is not the person you are married to nor anyone that resembles him/her. If you can extrapolate the situation and details and picture your spouse all the time, more power to you. You're better than I am.
I try to avoid it at all costs honestly. I love my wife dearly and I don't think that fantasizing about anything that we can't/won't do together is healthy.
**** is like movie romance. It never happens like that and can make the real thing tame in comparison. If it was just like real life, no one would watch it.
Friar Katie wrote:
As long as I don't walk in and catch him looking at it. It's one thing to know he looks at it, it's another to see it. Atleast for me. I've never found 1 shred of **** but he's a man, I'm sure it's around here somewhere.
He probably tapes it to the back of your head.
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
I love my wife dearly and I don't think that fantasizing about anything that we can't/won't do together is healthy.
Why can't you do your fantasies together? Does she know what your fantasies are? How much would you like to do the things you fantasize about? Are they legal? Do you know what she fantasizes about?
Much to learn you have, young sex-padawan.
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