NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
"This thing"?
Your enthusiasm is out of control here.
You don't know the half of it. For the past ten months I have borne the brunt of fulfilling many an expectation, consistently compromising to try to accomodate any and everything, and last night it finally clicked: It's my wedding, goddamnit, and everything that's being done is being done is to be enjoyed and savored.
So yeah, the wedding is a thing with a life all its own. My marriage, however, I expect to be as fun and fulfilling as last night hinted it can be.