I'm in my mid-30's and I've never hung out in bars, except about a year ago a friend of mine had a bachelor party and we went to a few bars as a group in San Diego. I was impressed. Most of my preconceived notions about bars were wrong, and the reality was better. The guys were more friendly then I imagined, the music better, the places cleaner (in general) the girls cuter and friendlier and there were more of them then I imagined. I should add my expectations were low.
But I'm married, so I can't comment on hooking up in bars since I have no interest in changing that.
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Monsieur RedPhoenixxx wrote:
I totally with that guy... with the name... like Noobkiller or something...
Anyway, he's right, it's not the bar, it's the people.
And the reason why you go.
And well, sometimes it's the bar too.
But mostly, it's the people, as whats-his-name rightly pointed out.
Anyway, he's right, it's not the bar, it's the people.
And the reason why you go.
And well, sometimes it's the bar too.
But mostly, it's the people, as whats-his-name rightly pointed out.
Who are you?
The Glorious GitSlayer wrote:
Who are you?
"I started out with nothin' and I still got most of it left" - Seasick Steve
Apparently.
Snotty stuck-up Frenchmen.
Snotty stuck-up Frenchmen.
The Glorious GitSlayer wrote:
Snotty stuck-up Frenchmen.
At least we agree on the bar thing, TwatCrusher.
I think I've figured it out.
I don't really "party" anymore. I mean I have "get togethers", and maybe have a decent sized hoo-raah for a holiday like New Year...
but back in the day going to a party seems to be what we did by default. There is always something going on somewhere and we usually found it and if we didn't; then we improvised. So nowadays I'll see these car loads of kids(lol) driving around and I know that there is some bash going on somewhere.
Then again
The last few parties that I've been to usually were like my take on bars.... drunken idiots..gettting into fight.. womanizing ....harlotry... and general retardedness all around.... and in order for me to really appreciate it .. I'd have to get drunk to a level that would probably make me ill... since I'm so much of a lightweight now.
My girl is now getting into the habit of dragging me out to bars now. We bring some friends.. but other than that I don't know anybody.... except the DJ who I harass constantly.
So I think that bars are good for filling in that social bug. A easy way for people who otherwise only see their friends at work or on special occasions or that don't have any friends to begin with.
So I supposed that being depressed about going to a bar Would me that you are depressed about getting old.... Everything changes socially after school. Some of the most pathetic displays that I have ever seen has been people trying to pretend that this isn't true.
I don't really "party" anymore. I mean I have "get togethers", and maybe have a decent sized hoo-raah for a holiday like New Year...
but back in the day going to a party seems to be what we did by default. There is always something going on somewhere and we usually found it and if we didn't; then we improvised. So nowadays I'll see these car loads of kids(lol) driving around and I know that there is some bash going on somewhere.
Then again
The last few parties that I've been to usually were like my take on bars.... drunken idiots..gettting into fight.. womanizing ....harlotry... and general retardedness all around.... and in order for me to really appreciate it .. I'd have to get drunk to a level that would probably make me ill... since I'm so much of a lightweight now.
My girl is now getting into the habit of dragging me out to bars now. We bring some friends.. but other than that I don't know anybody.... except the DJ who I harass constantly.
So I think that bars are good for filling in that social bug. A easy way for people who otherwise only see their friends at work or on special occasions or that don't have any friends to begin with.
So I supposed that being depressed about going to a bar Would me that you are depressed about getting old.... Everything changes socially after school. Some of the most pathetic displays that I have ever seen has been people trying to pretend that this isn't true.
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Hey all! Kelvy's girlfriend here... He wouldn't let me post on his account so I had to make one just for this LOL!
At least I'm not in the habit of going to the bar without you and dragging some other guy home. =p
And could you PLEASE explain to me how the fUck you are depressed? While I'm drunk - dancing.. well I'm drunk so it's pretty much just me rubbing up against you... then I drag you home where I proceed to take advantage of you for the rest of the night until we pass out...
So don't believe his bs - He's not in some depressing scene with his lame gf dragging him around... it's quite the opposite... I should think he would have entitled this post "are bars paradise?"
Edited, Aug 31st 2007 8:54pm by TheRealFeath
Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
My girl is now getting into the habit of dragging me out to bars now. We bring some friends.. but other than that I don't know anybody.... except the DJ who I harass constantly.
At least I'm not in the habit of going to the bar without you and dragging some other guy home. =p
And could you PLEASE explain to me how the fUck you are depressed? While I'm drunk - dancing.. well I'm drunk so it's pretty much just me rubbing up against you... then I drag you home where I proceed to take advantage of you for the rest of the night until we pass out...
So don't believe his bs - He's not in some depressing scene with his lame gf dragging him around... it's quite the opposite... I should think he would have entitled this post "are bars paradise?"
Edited, Aug 31st 2007 8:54pm by TheRealFeath
TheRealFeath wrote:
While I'm drunk - dancing.. well I'm drunk so it's pretty much just me rubbing up against you... then I drag you home where I proceed to take advantage of you for the rest of the night until we pass out...
Wow. Kelvy is a lucky, lucky guy.
pics or it doesn't happen
Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
So I think that bars are good for filling in that social bug. A easy way for people who otherwise only see their friends at work or on special occasions or that don't have any friends to begin with.
So I supposed that being depressed about going to a bar Would me that you are depressed about getting old.... Everything changes socially after school. Some of the most pathetic displays that I have ever seen has been people trying to pretend that this isn't true.
I hang out with a group of people who enjoy going out, or going to each others homes and eating and drinking and having fun. We are all in our our thirties with one or two in their forties and a few in their mid to late twenties. It's about half and half on couples verses singles. The differences is a lot of them are in the service industry, barenders and waiters for example, so while they enjoy getting fu
TheRealFeath wrote:
So don't believe his bs - He's not in some depressing scene with his lame gf dragging him around... it's quite the opposite... I should think he would have entitled this post "are bars paradise?"
Cleary he's experiencing some sort of crisis of fun then. Here's my advice, Kelv:
Drink. More.
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
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And, wtf does "rip a few bingers" mean? Knowing you, it probably means you're toking up, but it also sounds like you've got some really horrid gas that you would not wish to unleash inside the bar for fear of killing the patrons and possibly causing an explosion.
Considering you had a "Towelie" avatar for quite some time, I find it funny you have not heard that term. Could be a local maryland term...
On topic, I find its usually the construction or building of a bar thats more depressing than the patrons. Beer gardens are fun and have a good atmosphere. Most bars have poor ventialtion, few windows and overly loud music.
Of course, the stench of escapism and deseperation always permeates the air in bars; is that what you're reffering to?
Edited, Mar 17th 2008 11:23pm by TWA
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