Monster in laws.. Follow

I'm sorry Katie, that's really miserable. Although I've had my own share of ****** situations, I can honestly say that I've always gotten along with the parents of every man I've ever been with (sometimes that was the hardest part of breaking up, hahaha).

Nexa

Also: couldn't he just go visit her without you? I mean, I'm sure you'd miss him and all that, but maybe you could go visit your family while he goes to visit his mother?

Nexa

/nod




That's complete *********

Well I hope she enjoys having that leverage that keeps her out of my house for as long as she doesn't apologize. It's a lot easier to deal with her via phone.

What's he doing in the OOT?

Keep in mind this women will always be your husbands mother and therefore will always be a part of your life. You married the child she raised, there most be some redeeming quality somewhere? I would do what YOU can do to just maintain smooth relations, even if it means swallowing some katiepride.

...a camping trip sounds fun.

I've done the whole biting my tongue thing. I'm soooooo over that. What I want to do is stomp a new mud hole in her ***. She has called my husbands command not ONCE, nooo TWICE to complain about how unhealthy my husbands and mine relationship is. She has gone through our bedroom when we were away. She has harassed me at my job. She rearranged my kitchen. She is convinced I am Hispanic. She has called my parents at their home to go on a tirade about how second class they are. She has said things to my face that I am not even going to repeat. All because her son married me. I dealt with it when her aggression was aimed at me solely. Once it turned on my husband and my family though, she unwittingly unleashed a temper she was not ready for. I'm done with her. If she wants to make amends she does it on my terms. We've changed the locks, I've blocked her emails and blocked her from calling my phone. She can email and call him, but I refuse to let her upset me in my own home.

Yeah, she lives on that golf course.

You would think, I've mastered it here, I could do it with her as well.



I'm afraid other wise, she is going to say something and I'm going to go all redneck on her.



You're right. I hate to admit it Bodhi, but you are right. I'm going to have to suck it up and let her be the horrible ***** she is and just try to let it roll off my back.

Pity. Sand traps make for easy burial.

The real sucky part is when you try the "I don't care angle" the ***** is gonna step it up a notch and really try to f'uck with you.

It sucks no matter what but not letting her see you get flustered or emotional is what works, she is going for the reaction afterall.

Have you talked indetail with your husband about it?

Have you sat down and told him that?