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Smart, funny, interesting, fun to hang around, attentive, a sexual dynamo etc and she really liked me but she didn't love me and that in the end the past 3 years have been her dealing with the fact that I am exactly what she wanted but I don't provide the 'spark', and that the last three years have been an exercise in her trying to learn to love me or some craziness like that
So, she's a **** then?
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To make a long story short, I don't take any responsibility for anything I post here. It's not news, it's not truth, it's not serious. It's parody. It's satire. It's bitter. It's angsty. Your mother's a *****. You like to jack off dogs. That's right, you heard me. You like to grab that dog by the bone and rub it like a ski pole. Your dad? Gay. Your priest? Straight. **** off and let me post. It's not true, it's all in good fun. Now go away.
bodhisattva wrote:
Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
trust me 
You're a girl right?
There is a small part of me that knows that I could save it. Given enough talking I could convince her to work things out. After all a relationship is all about work, there are good times and bad times and it requires maintenance to make things work. We definitely had more good times than bad times. I honestly could do it, given a chance.
But I won't. It is over. It is for the best. I've been a suck for too long and instead of ripping the bandaid off and dealing with the pain I have dragged it out and made it worse.
" ...the realization that I had been so wrong about something I was so sure about. That she would let it go on so long."
Don't be a god damn twatwaffle. She spent three years telling you she loves you when she meant she loves the idea of loving you. Be glad she admitted this **** to herself before you guys got married. There is nothing like hearing that **** a decade plus after you thought you found the one.
bodhisattva wrote:
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Then what could has possibly been so devastating?
I was head over heels for the girl, since the first day I met her till the day we broke up. Despite the petty sh'it I ******* about on forums and with friends I always woke up next to her feeling like the luckiest guy. Never really felt like that with any girl before. Obviously she was the wrong person and didn't feel the same which sucks enough.
I don't think I am verbose enough or have enough distance to accurately describe what she said and how it hurt. Boiled down and reduced of its essence she said that I am everything a girl wants. Smart, funny, interesting, fun to hang around, attentive, a sexual dynamo etc and she really liked me but she didn't love me and that in the end the past 3 years have been her dealing with the fact that I am exactly what she wanted but I don't provide the 'spark', and that the last three years have been an exercise in her trying to learn to love me or some craziness like that. That isn't it at all, in fact it sounds kind of lame and completely failing to grasp it but that's the best I can encapsulate it. It wasn't a 'it's not you, it's me' speech at all. Which is kind of how it comes out in text.
Really sucked at the time, the good thing is that it burnt out any residual feelings I had for the girl that were making me feel like *****.
That sounds like the exact same thing I told my ex girlfriend before crushing her.
"Yeah, sorry we've been together and you're looking for a ring, I'm just not into you."
I then wrote a book about called "He's just not into you". NYT best seller for weeks.
American Beauty wrote:
Never underestimate the power of denial
Truer words have seldom been spoken
"...she said that I am everything a girl wants. Smart, funny, interesting, fun to hang around, attentive, a sexual dynamo etc..." --Bhomosattva
Buahahahahahahaha! And then you woke up, right? Next, you looked over at the beast you picked up at the bar last night and knew it was the demon alcohol that took your mind. Buahahahahahaha-*breath*-hahahahahahahaha!
"Smart, funny, interesting..." Ho ho hohoho, that's just too rich. Look at it this way, Bhodi, despite all those wonderfully fictious qualities, even the sum total of your (cough) radiant persona wasn't enough for her to meet her abysmally low standards for keeping a guy around. LMFAO, good job on publically punching yourself in the balls.
Totem
Edited, Aug 2nd 2007 11:07pm by Totem
Buahahahahahahaha! And then you woke up, right? Next, you looked over at the beast you picked up at the bar last night and knew it was the demon alcohol that took your mind. Buahahahahahaha-*breath*-hahahahahahahaha!
"Smart, funny, interesting..." Ho ho hohoho, that's just too rich. Look at it this way, Bhodi, despite all those wonderfully fictious qualities, even the sum total of your (cough) radiant persona wasn't enough for her to meet her abysmally low standards for keeping a guy around. LMFAO, good job on publically punching yourself in the balls.
Totem
Edited, Aug 2nd 2007 11:07pm by Totem
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LMFAO, good job on publically punching yourself in the balls.
It is what I do.
/unabashed!
Bode - 100 Holy Paladin - Lightbringer
I don't get it.
Surely, what she said is a good thing. You broke up, and she's honest enough to tell you exactly why, so now you have closure.
And even if what she said might not be nice to hear, surely deep down inside yourself you knew that, well, you loved her more than she loved you. Which is what it seems to boil down to. Surely, there were signs during the 3 years.
I think it's almost always like that in a relationship. The amount of love is never exactly equal. Some people accept it, some pretend not to see it, some go crazy over it, but really it's always a bit imbalanced.
Still, I think I should say "Gz!", you finally got closure over a relationship that seemed to drag on a bit too long.
Edited, Aug 3rd 2007 10:09am by RedPhoenixxx
Surely, what she said is a good thing. You broke up, and she's honest enough to tell you exactly why, so now you have closure.
And even if what she said might not be nice to hear, surely deep down inside yourself you knew that, well, you loved her more than she loved you. Which is what it seems to boil down to. Surely, there were signs during the 3 years.
I think it's almost always like that in a relationship. The amount of love is never exactly equal. Some people accept it, some pretend not to see it, some go crazy over it, but really it's always a bit imbalanced.
Still, I think I should say "Gz!", you finally got closure over a relationship that seemed to drag on a bit too long.
Edited, Aug 3rd 2007 10:09am by RedPhoenixxx
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bodhisattva wrote:
But I won't. It is over. It is for the best. I've been a suck for too long and instead of ripping the bandaid off and dealing with the pain I have dragged it out and made it worse.
It's always sad when you don't mean for things to end badly, but you hold on to the memories of the good times and move on. You'll see that what's around the corner will be worth it.
In the meantime, use less hair product. Nothing to do with this, I've just wanted to mention that for some time and you seem like you can take the criticism now.
Monsieur RedPhoenixxx wrote:
Still, I think I should say "Gz!"
Uh. You can say that again!
What the hell does it mean?
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Samira wrote:
What the hell does it mean?
L2WOWSPK!
OMG n00b.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Dude, just be glad she didn't take half of your radical AC/DC vinyl collection.
EDIT: It works so much better with a , then a .
Edited, Aug 3rd 2007 9:21am by Kaelesh
EDIT: It works so much better with a , then a .
Edited, Aug 3rd 2007 9:21am by Kaelesh
"I've been a suck for too long..." --Bhodi
This speaks volumes. But, hey, not all of you guys can be pitchers. Someone has to be the *** recepticle.
Totem
This speaks volumes. But, hey, not all of you guys can be pitchers. Someone has to be the *** recepticle.
Totem
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