The TalkFollow

its over. and your better off it is now than later.

she has been fixated on moving without you for some time, i guarentee you she has been thinking about it for weeks if not months. nothing you say is going to change that.

the worst is yet to come. after a couple weeks alone, she will call you and say she misses you. you will grab a bag, unload a bunch of cash and rush over there just to find her indifferant to you, and appologizing for the mistake of calling you, once again trashing your feelings.

she will call you a few times after that, then the calls will stop completly.

weather you are sitting by the phone waiting for the call that never happens,leaving a message every week that never gets returned....or you move on with your life and get to the best part of being single before you are older and out of the loop.....is up to you.

remember, when she calls, make her take the trip to you. if she actually makes it, then she really misses you. if she never makes it, she wasnt missing you, she was just lonely.

long distance relationships rarely work. its over the minute she walks out the door weather you are ready to admit it or not. and its still over even after she makes a couple "sympathy" calls to you or the "i miss you" phone call.

here is something to remember.

people do what they want to do no matter what they say. if she is there, she wants to be there. if she leaves without you, she wants to be there WITHOUT you. no matter what she says now, or illudes to later over the phone.

talk is a way of showing people how you want others to see you. action is how people really are. she is leaving because she wants to leave and without you following her. no matter what excuse she gives.

turn your back and never look back. if it was ment to be, she knows where to find you. its party time. i honestly dont know why ANYONE would ever want to be in a committed relationship during college. there is never going to be another time in your entire life where you are completly surrounded by available, young, free women EVER AGAIN.

this is it. if you cant make it happen there, you will never make it happen anywhere. use protection. its party time.

if you had married her, then divorced a few years later, your life would be just about over. all the hotties would be married or committed, and all the notties would be all you have to choose from. well, till mid to late 30ish, when all the hotties are going through their FIRST divorce and are ready to play again..........but thats another storie for later.

but for the rest of your life you would be kicking yourself in the **** for ignoring what will be the only time in your life so many available women were completly surrounding you and......you went thought this time committed to someone who dumped you later.

dude, this is it. it doesnt get any better. hit the gym, buy some shades and PLAY.

You read his posts?


Oh and CONGRATS Bodhi!

Use what you learned from this relationship (ie: grow a pair) and enjoy the bachelor life.

You will soon forget her when you realize how much happier you are that you've gained freedom.

Although the Cheeseman speaks from experience, it's hard. It'll take a while. Only you know if you can forever be the kind of person she needs, or, if over time, you'd grow to resent and blame her for taking you in a direction you did not want to go.

I feel like it'd be un-emo of you not to call her and give it another go, so I'll say this: at least don't buy the ring first. Give it a while.

Did it suddenly get gayer in here?

Shh...he's an admin now.

And did RedPhoenix suddenly sprout a first-year French textbook?

shadowrelm has good advice..

Technically, it's le miaou!!!!.

And "une chatte", which incidentatly also means "pussy", but still very good...


Edit: Why on earth is "pussy" a swear word?!

Edited, Jul 25th 2007 3:55pm by RedPhoenixxx