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... on a not so ladylike subject. ;)
So... Last weekend, I'm having sex with a ladyfriend of mine. At one point, we're doing it doggy style and kinda as a joke (and cause I know she happens to like being "under control") I reached forward, grabbed her hair and pulled her head back a bit.
Afterwards, we were talking and the subject of what we liked and disliked sexually came up (go figure!). I asked her what she thought of when I pulled her hair. Her answer wasn't what I expected, but I guess kinda made sense. She said that it didn't do anything particularly for her sexually, but it did help her in terms of comfort because it allowed her to hold her head up (easier to breath I suppose) without so much strain on her shoulders.
So the question(s) for the ladies: What do you think of this situation and answer and why? Do you agree with her in terms of comfort (assuming the hair isn't being yanked of course!)? Do you get off by being "manhandled" anyway so that's a bigger deal for you? Or do you dislike the whole idea regardless (or maybe don't like the position either)?
Inquiring minds want to know...!
King Nobby wrote:
More words please
I'm sorry to tell you this but women don't hide oil, soldiers or WMDs in their hair. You can stop searching now, and please stop invading our women.
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Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
If a girl says she likes it when you get rough, she's afraid you'll think she's a freak and you'll bust out the whips, chains and branding irons in the future. If she says she doesn't like it, she's afraid you'll think she's wimpy in bed and you'll go somewhere else. She took the middle road and gave you an analytical response so you can't figure out what she does and doesn't like.
I can't answer as it may ruin my online persona... 
Thumbelyna Quick Hands wrote:
If a girl says she likes it when you get rough, she's afraid you'll think she's a freak and you'll bust out the whips, chains and branding irons in the future. If she says she doesn't like it, she's afraid you'll think she's wimpy in bed and you'll go somewhere else. She took the middle road and gave you an analytical response so you can't figure out what she does and doesn't like.
Firstly:lol
Secondly: Now that's not very helpful of her is it >.>
I had a girlfriend at college who used to like that, but for complete non-respiratory reasons. It always kinda freaked me out a bit.
Jophiel wrote:
I managed to be both retarded and entertaining.
gbaji wrote:
At one point, we're doing it doggy style and kinda as a joke (and cause I know she happens to like being "under control") I reached forward, grabbed her hair and pulled her head back a bit.
Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
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So... Last weekend, I'm having sex with a ladyfriend of mine.
I call bullsh@t
Was this the same "lady-friend" you met in the lobby in Vegas?
Did she charge extra for the hair tug?
Did she charge extra for the hair tug?
That was her way of saying that she doesn't want you to hurt her but she doesn't want you to stop if you get off on the faux-roughness. She's giving you an excuse to continue doing something she is indifferent to, but assumes you enjoy, while giving you a limitation.
Nexa
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Actually, after rereading the whole thing, she kinda liked it but is afraid to actually say so because she doesn't want the situation "kicked up another notch" to actual pain.
That's my opinion, not having ****** any women.
Nexa
That's my opinion, not having ****** any women.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Nexa wrote:
That's my opinion, not having @#%^ed any women.
Maybe you should fix that.
Do what now?
gbaji wrote:
So the question(s) for the ladies: What do you think of this situation and answer and why? Do you agree with her in terms of comfort (assuming the hair isn't being yanked of course!)? Do you get off by being "manhandled" anyway so that's a bigger deal for you? Or do you dislike the whole idea regardless (or maybe don't like the position either)?
Inquiring minds want to know...!
Well, it's no secret around here that I dabble in S&M (back in the pre-baby day when I, y'know, had sex) so I personally think hair-pulling is all kinds of HAWT.
That said, this was more info than I ever wanted about Gbaji. I may need therapy.
Danalog the Vengeful Programmer wrote:
Nexa wrote:
That's my opinion, not having @#%^ed any women.
Maybe you should fix that.
Nah, I'm really a fan of the *****, and why use something artificial when you can just go for the real thing?
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Nexa wrote:
Danalog the Vengeful Programmer wrote:
Nexa wrote:
That's my opinion, not having @#%^ed any women.
Maybe you should fix that.
Nah, I'm really a fan of the *****, and why use something artificial when you can just go for the real thing?
Nexa
I could go into Gbaji-length explanation here, but I won't.
No no, please do.
I dated a girl that liked to have her hair pulled. Never actually had sex with her, but she did like having her hair pulled.
Deathwysh wrote:
I dated a girl...
Liar.
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...that liked to have her hair pulled.
Pullin' your dogs tail as he walks by doesn't count.
Deathwysh wrote:
Never actually had sex with her.
Oh, nevermind. That makes sense now.
Deathwysh wrote:
I dated a girl that liked to have her hair pulled. Never actually had sex with her, but she did like having her hair pulled.
Second grade doesn't count; hair-pulling is just how boys show they like girls.
publiusvarus wrote:
we all know liberals are well adjusted american citizens who only want what's best for society. While conservatives are evil money grubbing scum who only want to sh*t on the little man and rob the world of its resources.
A lot of guys like having their hair pulled too. Just an aside.
Nexa
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Jophiel wrote:
gbaji wrote:
At one point, we're doing it doggy style and kinda as a joke (and cause I know she happens to like being "under control") I reached forward, grabbed her hair and pulled her head back a bit.
Well, not a joke like "funny. Haha!", but more like "Let's see what she thinks about this...". Given that the whole hair pulling thing is kind of a stereotypical action (at least in the **** world), I wasn't taking it particularly seriously, but I was curious how she'd react and whether she liked it or not.
I was just surprised by her answer is all. I'm a guy. Most days, I could get myself off in under a minute if that's all I wanted to do, so it's not really about what's super sexy for me. I try to pay attention to what women I'm with like and dislike because I enjoy it the most when they're enjoying it the most.
This particular woman likes "control", but not "rough". Sudden acts of overt sexuality turn her on (going from soft flirting to pinning her against a wall and kissing her gets her "eyes wide" pretty quickly). She likes having her neck held while making out (and loves being kissed on the neck, especially under the chin. Go figure). I was actually a little hesitant to pull her hair back because I thought it would come off as a bit corny. Hence, the question, and hence the surprise at the answer...
And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
King Nobby wrote:
More words please
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And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
Considering you have a hard time figuring out half of the responses on this board to your posts I wouldn't be so sure of your judgement.
Edited, Jul 19th 2007 5:41pm by baelnic
gbaji wrote:
And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
pppsssstttt........ we fake it ya know.
Thumbelyna Quick Hands wrote:
gbaji wrote:
And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
pppsssstttt........ we fake it ya know.
I don't anymore. I outgrew it. If it's not going to happen, I just say so and let the guy know it's time to move on before the chafing sets in.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
gbaji wrote:
Well, not a joke like "funny. Haha!", but more like "Let's see what she thinks about this...". Given that the whole hair pulling thing is kind of a stereotypical action (at least in the **** world), I wasn't taking it particularly seriously, but I was curious how she'd react and whether she liked it or not.
I was just surprised by her answer is all. I'm a guy. Most days, I could get myself off in under a minute if that's all I wanted to do, so it's not really about what's super sexy for me. I try to pay attention to what women I'm with like and dislike because I enjoy it the most when they're enjoying it the most.
This particular woman likes "control", but not "rough". Sudden acts of overt sexuality turn her on (going from soft flirting to pinning her against a wall and kissing her gets her "eyes wide" pretty quickly). She likes having her neck held while making out (and loves being kissed on the neck, especially under the chin. Go figure). I was actually a little hesitant to pull her hair back because I thought it would come off as a bit corny. Hence, the question, and hence the surprise at the answer...
And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
I was just surprised by her answer is all. I'm a guy. Most days, I could get myself off in under a minute if that's all I wanted to do, so it's not really about what's super sexy for me. I try to pay attention to what women I'm with like and dislike because I enjoy it the most when they're enjoying it the most.
This particular woman likes "control", but not "rough". Sudden acts of overt sexuality turn her on (going from soft flirting to pinning her against a wall and kissing her gets her "eyes wide" pretty quickly). She likes having her neck held while making out (and loves being kissed on the neck, especially under the chin. Go figure). I was actually a little hesitant to pull her hair back because I thought it would come off as a bit corny. Hence, the question, and hence the surprise at the answer...
And yeah. I *do* take the time to think about what I'm doing when I'm having sex. If that makes me a "bad lay", then so be it. But judging by the reactions from the women I've been with I don't think that's the case...
Holy shit, that was easy.
Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
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