BT wrote:
I'm on Targonor now as Basil Wrathbone the bard.
Sorry I couldn't respond sooner, but Alla's site is blocked at my job and typing on my i-Phone is a pain (but I'll keep working at it). Very cool, I'll try to get on when I get a free minute some time this week. Funny that you went with that name, I've been watching my collection Sherlock Holmes (starring Basil Rathbone) a lot lately.
Git wrote:
Ugh, I did that right after I got divorced. Trust me Snorre, you will get laid, many times, and if you are lucky may even find a girlfriend or two but, and I say trust me on this again, the pool is finite. At some point you will find yourself wondering where all the fine women are at. Be ready to deal with the bar scene/ blind dates from friends routine at some point.
While I prefer quality over quantity, I hear ya - and yet, I don't think it will come to the bar scene - I'm too old for that - been there, done that back in my 20s and 30s. These online-hookups are almost like blind dates, anyhoo, so that's already covered. I've had a whole mess of meet-ups and there are some more to come, but I am tapering them off a bit. It can get exhausting after a bit. When they start to feel like job interviews, it's time to take a break - I'm almost to that point, but having a lot of fun in the meantime.
Now that I've just started at my new job, getting settled in the house, and devoting a lot of time to the lads (Dashiell and Snorre), I'm not having much free time for just chillin' and I'm not too big on going out on work nights, with maybe one or two times a week as exceptions for special things. For instance, I'm meeting one of my new "friends" to go see a silent film festival tomorrow night. They're showing some films of Buster Keaton, Harold Lloyd, and Laurel & Hardy. There will be an organist playing live music to the movies, which should be pretty cool.
There have been some fun, friend-type hook ups and quite a few "no chemistry" first meeting hook-ups. However, there has been a couple that are relationship-worthy, especially this one beautiful, smart, and funny woman that I am seeing again for the 3rd time. We're taking it slow and having a good time, but she's a keeper so far.
I won't be rushing off to the altar any time soon (hell, won't even be divorced until November!) but life is pretty fun and it's certainly a hell of a lot better than the last few months when I was in San Francisco going through the whole separation/impending divorce stuff.
Edited, Jul 23rd 2007 11:51pm by Snorre