scubamage wrote:
Thank you again for the advice... I can sleep peacefully tonight.
LOL, wait til the child is born, and try to get a peaceful nights sleep, enjoy them now while you can^^
I had the same things happen when my girlfriend was pregnant with my child, minus the fever. She had spotting, abdomin pains etc, and I was scared sh*tless for the 2 months leading up to her birth due to these things. And it was all due to stress, the stress even caused her to give birth to my daughter a month early, thankfully she was a little bigger then expected for a month early premie, and only needed to stay in the hospital for a week after she was born^^
But trust me as a new dad myself, the worry you experience during pregnany when things like this happen, are nothing compared to after they are born. I still check her every morning/day several times to see if she's breathing, if she isn't moving at all while sleeping. And all the new dad sh*t you go through like am I holding her wrong, am I hurting her, am I doing this correctly, is she alright while I'm at work, etc.
Even this morning before work my daughter was passed out like a ****, and she didn't move so I sat there for a good 5 minutes listening for her breathing, just to be sure she was alright. Cuz now she's finally sleeping through the night, and that in itself is a strange experience after 2 months of screaming every 2-3 hours 24/7, lol.
But glad to hear your woman is doing ok, and enjoy the quiet now while you can, cuz even if there are other children in your house(We have a 4 year old and a 2 year old living with us, not my biological children but hers), the screaming the newborns can dish out drowns out anything the other kids can dish out, lol. But the smiles and some of the faces they make, make it all worth it^^ And when they start speaking like my daughter is doing now, it makes it even better.^^
Good luck to you^^