Well, he asked my parents (finally) this week. He "unofficially" proposed on Cinquo De Drinko (May 4-5). No date for the wedding nor a ring (unless the one I bought off of eBay years ago for myself counts). I'm thinking of a very, very, long engagement since:
A. I need a job.
B. Need to pay off credit cards and a decent chunck of our student loans.
C. Need at least 1 year to get married in the Catholic Church (yes, both Catholic but really, really bad ones).
D. I can use a new car...the 94 T-bird is not gonna hold up till then.
So, are there any suggestions from the fellow asylumites on how to keep up a good engagement so we are not sick of each other by the time we actually get hitched??
Thanks all.
Later,
-Danielle
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NorseGoddess wrote:
No date for the wedding nor a ring (unless the one I bought off of eBay years ago for myself counts).
Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
Jophiel wrote:
NorseGoddess wrote:
No date for the wedding nor a ring (unless the one I bought off of eBay years ago for myself counts).
He made her a ham sammich to seal the deal, how could she say no?
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Yes, yes I am a sad woman. (I bought the cheap ring long before I was dating anyone so 
) And, I do not like ham...roast beef pwns.
Edited, Jun 21st 2007 9:03pm by NorseGoddess
) And, I do not like ham...roast beef pwns. Edited, Jun 21st 2007 9:03pm by NorseGoddess
NorseGoddess wrote:
So, are there any suggestions from the fellow asylumites on how to keep up a good engagement so we are not sick of each other by the time we actually get hitched??
You should probably let him periodically bang a chick who isn't retarded. By periodically I mean bi-weekly at least. Also, try to spend as little time as possible with him, you annoy us over the interwebs, I can't imagine what it would be like being face to face with your babbling ***.
Hey, what can I say....I'm haaaawwwwtttttt!!!
http://www.myspace.com/hel_norse_goddess
Edited, Jun 21st 2007 9:12pm by NorseGoddess
http://www.myspace.com/hel_norse_goddess
Edited, Jun 21st 2007 9:12pm by NorseGoddess
Hmmm...I was at Champaign for 2 overlapping years with you. I knew I felt a familiar disturbing chill go up my spine.
Oh lord...and you're myspace friends with my cousin's band, haha.
Which band...half of those are spamming bands...
If life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Then find someone that life has given vodka and have party.
This establishment does not serve women. You must bring your own.
This establishment does not serve women. You must bring your own.
Notice how I have some sort of alcoholic beverage in most of my photos...go figure.
Serious advice on the question proposed. IF you really want it to work, make it work. Be honest about problems you are having with each other, talk about them calmly, and make time for fun. Fighting is not the end of the world, but if it is nothing to yell over then don't elevate it. Talk about things early before they start to build up. If you are getting bored then maybe take some time off from each other and hang with friends, don't let it become a chore. When you feel lonely again make sure to go and do something fun, beach, movie, six flags, doesn't matter.
I also have absolutely no credentials when it comes to relationships so take out of that what you want.
And finally, proposing without a date or a ring is an empty commitment. Though it is not like you can actually take it back now anyways. When you are actually ready to get married, that is when you set a date, that is when a proposal should happen.
I am also not married.
I also have absolutely no credentials when it comes to relationships so take out of that what you want.
And finally, proposing without a date or a ring is an empty commitment. Though it is not like you can actually take it back now anyways. When you are actually ready to get married, that is when you set a date, that is when a proposal should happen.
I am also not married.
trickybeck wrote:
I knew I felt a familiar disturbing chill go up my spine.
Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
If you're sick of each other by the time you're about to get married, you weren't meant to be married.
Jophiel wrote:
Think of how I felt when I learned that she lives about 20-30min from me 
20 minutes from me, too.
trickybeck wrote:
Jophiel wrote:
Think of how I felt when I learned that she lives about 20-30min from me
Belkira wrote:
Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
LMFAO....I need a LAN party.
Jophiel wrote:
trickybeck wrote:
I knew I felt a familiar disturbing chill go up my spine.
She looks like my fookn cousin! And I'd still hit it.
Actually, I used to work at the local liquor store and what is scarry is when some customer recognizes you from Myspace.
Uber Creepy...
Uber Creepy...
Hey NG I see your avvy works, nice song selection on your sig, one of my favs.
Tyty...
starts to chant "I'm not worthy, I'm not worthy!!"
starts to chant "I'm not worthy, I'm not worthy!!"
NorseGoddess wrote:
from the fellow asylumites ...
the fUck you say?
Hey, what can I say....I'm haaaawwwwtttttt!!!
No.
You're short and fat. Blond, which normally would be a plus, just looks horrible on you. Your face looks like someone smashed Rachel Ray in the face with a shovel and then taped a pork chop under her chin. You may be a lovely witty person with a fantastic personality, but only if you're intentionally posting here to imitate a shallow banal emotionally crippled shut in who through some miracle found a small circle of similarly afflicted friends, one of whom was convinced enough that he had absolutely no chance of getting laid with another woman ever that he offered to marry you.
Congratulations, though.
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To make a long story short, I don't take any responsibility for anything I post here. It's not news, it's not truth, it's not serious. It's parody. It's satire. It's bitter. It's angsty. Your mother's a *****. You like to jack off dogs. That's right, you heard me. You like to grab that dog by the bone and rub it like a ski pole. Your dad? Gay. Your priest? Straight. **** off and let me post. It's not true, it's all in good fun. Now go away.
Smasharoo wrote:
You're short and fat. Blond, which normally would be a plus, just looks horrible on you. Your face looks like someone smashed Rachel Ray in the face with a shovel and then taped a pork chop under her chin.
On which note, today's UK word of the day is 'Munter'
"I started out with nothin' and I still got most of it left" - Seasick Steve
NorseGoddess wrote:
No date for the wedding nor a ring
So really you're just engaged to be engaged.
I say don't worry about it, because engagements this shoddy never last. Waste of energy. Go bake something instead.
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