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#1 May 24 2007 at 4:47 AM Rating: Good
This kid was not mine (thank God), but at the same time I know his family VERY well. So well that at 11am yesterday when he visited my office, he showed me his new toy car "Lightning McQueen" and gave me a high "five". Half an hour later this happened...

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Boy, 3, dies after garage door falls on him

Matthew Van Dongen, Standard Staff
Local News - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 Updated @ 9:37:16 PM

Little Kolton Tkachuk was always on the move.

Living next door, Tim Slade often saw the smiley three-year-old tottering around the backyard of his Cherie Road home.

Or the front yard. Anywhere his father Kyle went.

"He'd follow his dad around with his own little lawnmower," Slade said.

"He was really a going concern. A cute little ball of fire."

Slade wasn't outside when Kolton tried to run into his family's garage Wednesday morning, seconds before the door plummeted down.

He heard the commotion off police and distraught neighbours and he knew Kolton had been airlifted to hospital.

But he didn't know, until Wednesday evening, that the sparkly eyed toddler died from his injuries around 2 p.
m.

"It's just shocking. There's no accounting for something like that," he said, shaking his head sadly.

"He was a nice kid. They're a nice family. They just moved in recently and seemed to want to stay put.

"I don't know how you deal with that."

Niagara Regional Police said the boy was killed while work was being done on a garage door around 11:30 a.m.

The door was held open for workers, but its weight caused it to collapse - just as the toddler darted into the garage.

The provincial Ministry of Labour and the regional coroner's office are investigating the death.

It's not, at present, a criminal matter, said NRP spokesman Const. Sal Basilone.

On Wednesday, car after car slowly drove by to look at the taped-off garage at 82 Cherie Rd.

The two-storey, red-and-brown brick home was empty while provincial investigators examined the scene.

The garage was bare, save for a red, toddler-sized toy car and a tiny green tricycle.

Neighbours grouped together in the street to talk, but few wanted to comment on the record.

One man sat on his steps in a nearby home and stared into space. The neighbour, who didn't want to give his name, said his heart went out to Kolton's parents, Kyle and Frances.

The couple's daughter, Felicia Frances, is less than eight months old.

Their neighbour, a young dad, said the "devastating" tragedy gave him plenty to think about.

About the night before, for instance, when he watched his own four-year-old son scoot around a backyard playset with the energetic Kolton.

About how his son likes to play with the pull rope on their own garage door.

"It sure puts things in perspective," he said simply. "What else can you say? It's just terrible."
These next few weeks are going to be interesting, and not in a good way. Hell, I still haven't figured out what to say to the guy...


#2 May 24 2007 at 4:51 AM Rating: Decent
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Hell, I still haven't figured out what to say to the guy...
Now you can go out to dinner without having it be ruined for everyone else in the restaurant?
#3 May 24 2007 at 4:51 AM Rating: Excellent
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#4 May 24 2007 at 4:54 AM Rating: Good
I forgot to mention the two other things that actually made it worse..

Friday was his 3rd birthday and yesterday was my wedding anniversary...
#5 May 24 2007 at 5:12 AM Rating: Good
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#6 May 24 2007 at 5:51 AM Rating: Excellent
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I guess they have to do some sort of investigation but it sounds like just one of those shitty things. A shame though.
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#7 May 24 2007 at 6:04 AM Rating: Good
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I guess they have to do some sort of investigation but it sounds like just one of those shitty things. A shame though.
Since there were contractors present and this happened due to prep for concrete work, it has to be investigated as a work place death, for what I presume is liability reasons.
#8 May 24 2007 at 6:05 AM Rating: Excellent
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When you get home, hug your kids a little tighter. My heart goes out to you and his family
#9 May 24 2007 at 6:07 AM Rating: Good
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When you get home, hug your kids a little tighter. My heart goes out to you and his family
I left the office and hugged them at about 1pm yesterday because the dad called me on my cell from the helicopter. I coudn't finish my work day after that.
#10 May 24 2007 at 6:09 AM Rating: Excellent
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When you get home, hug your kids a little tighter. My heart goes out to you and his family
I left the office and hugged them at about 1pm yesterday because the dad called me on my cell from the helicopter. I coudn't finish my work day after that.


I dropped Hannah off for her weekend with Daddy this morning, so I gets no hugs til Tuesday Smiley: cry

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#11 May 24 2007 at 6:18 AM Rating: Excellent
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It's that staggered reassurance you aren't here forever, and you really never know when you will go. Makes you wonder why some people do some of the stupid **** they do and not take into account how it may affect their families and friends, and not show love and caring when they can. What makes it worse is when a child dies, nothing can compare to that or prepare you for that.

Eldy, if you are hurting, yanno, maybe not saying anything to the guy at all... just go give him a big hug, that says a lot.
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#12 May 24 2007 at 6:42 AM Rating: Good
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Poor kid.
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#14 May 24 2007 at 6:50 AM Rating: Good
If your goal was to get my drinking at eight in the morning, then we have similar goals.
#15 May 24 2007 at 7:21 AM Rating: Good
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That really sucks Eld, my heart goes out to both you and to the family.
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#16 May 24 2007 at 7:27 AM Rating: Excellent
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How horrible. [:sad:]
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#17 May 24 2007 at 7:36 AM Rating: Good
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Sorry to hear about that Eldy. Smiley: frown
#18 May 24 2007 at 8:03 AM Rating: Good
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That's horrible Smiley: frown

I'd be at a loss for words towards the father too. Poor guy.. and noone to blame or even vent on, just having to accept something like that. I can't begin to even imagine.

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#19 May 24 2007 at 8:08 AM Rating: Good
Sweetie, I'm so sorry that happened.
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Sorry to hear it Eldy - my deepest sympathies for his family and yours.

It's tough enough keeping an eye on my pup from getting into potentially harmful mischief - having to keep an eye on a child must be infinitely more difficult.
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#21 May 24 2007 at 8:10 AM Rating: Decent
Thats horrible. That poor baby. I'm so sorry for your loss Eldy. Children shouldn't die, I can't imagine how you feel. Great big internet hugs.
#22 May 24 2007 at 8:11 AM Rating: Decent
Elderon - I truly wish you the best.

Trust me when I say this - when something like this happens, it gives you a whole new perspective on life. When my dad died in Sept, I realized many of things I stressed about were not worth it and many of the things I didn't stress about are worth it.

The only advice I can offer is to be strong...for you, your family and your friends family.

#23 May 24 2007 at 8:12 AM Rating: Decent
I can only imagine how you feel Eldy. My very best condolences to both families. Smiley: frown
#24 May 24 2007 at 8:12 AM Rating: Good
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My condolences to the family and to you Elderon. Its always a terrible thing when parents outlive children, but to be taken so young is disgusting.
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#25 May 24 2007 at 8:43 AM Rating: Good
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Eldy, my condolences to Your and His families.

Nothing can compare to the lost of a child. Just being near and giving a hugs when you can, helps. YNothing can ever replace a child, as my mother morn the the premature death of my brother all her life.

<hugs>

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#26 May 24 2007 at 9:03 AM Rating: Decent
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I'm so sorry. I couldn't even imagine losing a child, especially one so close to you.
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