Douchebag wrote:
because i'm the only one who's pointing out that this guys breaking the vows he made before the world and God i'm the as*hole?
He came here looking for sympathy; f*ck that. He's getting divorced for what? Did she cheat on him? No; they're simply bored with one another. Then again we do live in a self involved world where if someones not in bliss every moment something has to be wrong.
Why get married in the first place when you can just disolve the relationship when it's no longer convienent?
I really try to ignore the poo-flinging monkeys around here, but I'll respond this one time. Re-read my original post - better yet, get someone with some reading comprehension to help your ignorant ***. I didn't want this divorce. I respect and cherish my wedding vows. They mean something to me. However, they don't mean as much to my wife. Yes, I was angry and frustrated that she doesn't hold our marriage in the same regard as I do - but there's nothing I can do or say to convince her otherwise. It takes two, idiot. Bottom line - I wanted to work on the marriage - she didn't.
It was a good marriage and it was worth working on, at least, to me. There were some issues that we were working on that we could have resolved. Unfortunately, she did not want to work on those issues any more. The only thing I can do at this point is to keep things positive and amiable as this relationship is ending. That's what rational and mature adults do.
If at any point before our divorce is finalized (hell, we haven't officially separated yet) she changes her mind, I'm willing to continue to work on the marriage with her. For now, though, She feels she's making the right decision for herself and I have to accept that. My whole world has been turned upside down, but I'll come out of it ok and have a fresh start.
I'm not looking for sympathy from anyone, especially from a moron like you. I'm sharing my current situation with folks who I consider friends (Interweb friends, but friends nonetheless
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). They understand what I'm going through. I really appreciate those who have offered kind words of support, encouragement, and deviant sex.
I know to expect morons like you piping in as well. That's to be expected, yet ultimately disregarded.