Belkira the Tulip wrote:
By making abortion legal, the government is not "taking sides" on abortion. They are leaving it in the hands of the women who get pregnant to CHOOSE what they want.
By making abortion illegal, they are "taking sides." By making abortion mandatory, they are "taking sides."
Only if you assume that the only "sides" exist on the two extremes of the issue. Unfortunately, abortion (like most things in fact) is an issue of degrees. In the same way that most people believe that drinking is ok and should be legal, but its legality should be restricted (ie: to people of a certain age, in specific locations, and not while driving or working heavy machinery), abortion is something that most people believe should be legal, but have restrictions placed on it (hence why we have different rules and requirements for abortions depending on the trimester one is in).
Most things are regulated in the middle, not at the ends. That includes abortion. Or are you arguing that Roe v. Wade overstepped the governments authority when it set specific criteria for abortions based on the length of the term at the time?
The problem is that overtime the concept of a "womans choice" on this issue has grown to near legendary proportions that it's outstripped the bonds of common sense. Yes. It is perfectly reasonable for the government to place restrictions on people's choices. Even abortion.
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By forcing a woman to view an ultrasound in the hopes that she will reconsider and keep the child that she cannot afford, or that she was impregnated with when she was raped or abused, they are certainly showing us where they stand. They may not be outlawing it, but they are still "taking sides."
If the choice she's making is such a good one, why would viewing an ultrasound change her mind? See. I'm still stuck on the paradox of this argument. Your argument rests on the assumption that the woman has made her choice as a result of fully understanding the consequenses and benefits of the choice. But then you argue that it would be wrong to show her something else cause it might change her mind. Um... If the first assumption is true, then the second can never happen. If the second does happen then the first assumption must be false.
Again. Clearly, any woman who changes her mind as a result of viewing an ultrasound must not have actually been fully aware of every aspect of the decision she was making. Otherwise she would not have changed her mind. The next obvious question then is: If she would change her mind as a result of seeing an ultrasound, is it right to allow her to see it, or wrong?
IMHO, it's the right thing to do. It will always be the right thing to do. Not because I'm some pro-life wingnut, but because if she's going to react strongly enough to the ultrasound to change her mind, then at some point she's going to regret that decision just as strongly. It's vastly better for her if she faces that *before* making the decision while she can still change her mind, then face it later when all she can do is realize that she's done something she may very well regret for the rest of her life.
Again. That's clearly my viewpoint. I think it's a valid one. And apparently, so do many people in Florida (although it looks like the bill may not pass anyway, so this whole thing may be moot).
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I don't want anyone meddling in it aside from the doctors and the women involved. It's not right for "the people" to tell me what I have to do and am not allowed do with my body, and it's not right for the government telling me what I have to do and am not allowed do with my body.
So the laws requiring that companies list their ingredients on packages of food. You disagree with that?
You have elevated the position of "choice" to a high pedastal, but don't seem to want anything that might actually affect that choice to be allowed. Again. At a very basic level, how good is your choice if you don't have all the facts? It's well and good to say you have a right to that choice, but what about the right to know all the facts involved?
Remember. This law is requiring the *doctor* to take an ultrasound and offer it to the patient prior to the proceedure. It does not actually require the person making the choice to do anything. It only require the person offering the choice to provide that person with all the facts.
I would think that if choice was so important to you, that you'd support anything that would allow for a more informed choice. The woman is still free to make any choice she wishes in this regard. I don't think it's unreasonable to make sure she has all the information first...
Gbaji wrote:
Well, thanks for doing that research. I feel better about the fact that the woman isn't mandated by law to LOOK at the ultrasound. However... what's the point then? Seems like a bit of fluff legislature to tempt a woman to look at a "picture" of the fetus and guilt her into not getting the abortion. And... couldn't you consider a guilt trip of this stature a form of abuse? Hmmm, look. That "angle" isn't gone.
I would guess that the point is that there are many abortion doctors who will talk women into having the proceedure, and many organizations (planned parenthood for one) that do everything they can to convince women who go there that an abortion is a completely safe and easy way to fix their "problem"). Has it occured to you that perhaps the purpose of this law is not to impose some cruelty on women, but to protect them from doctors and organizations who are willing to do harm to them for their own political agenda?
Remember also that for poor women, abortion proceedures are subsidized by the state (in most states anyway). There are doctors who make a living doing nothing but abortions. It's "free money" since the patient in that case does not have to pay (the state does). Thus, there is very much an incentive for the doctor to talk the woman into having an abortion. If she does, he makes more money. If she changes her mind, he doesn't.
I just think that many of you are approaching this as some sort of attack on women by the state. I really do see it differently. I think that the state is acting as an advocate for the women in this case. It's not requiring anything of them. It isn't forcing them to do or not do anything. But it *is* making it harder for unscrupulous doctors to take advantage of women by convincing them to have a proceedure that they will almost certainly regret down the line.
Again. The statistics for depression and suicide by women as a direct result of having had an abortion are staggering. I just don't think it's wrong to give them a better chance to come to grips with their decision before making it. And I believe that many of them are not being given the opportunity to do this.
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I couldn't disagree more. The average person is familiar with the fact that driving 100 mph down the interstate is more likely to cause them to die in a firey car crash, but that doesn't stop people from doing it. Why not? Because of the "it couldn't happen to me" syndrome.
Ok. How does that equate to forcing people planning on joining the military to see graphic representations of the pain and horror they're likely to see if they end up on a battlefield? Again. I'm reasonably sure that no government created film could *ever* portray that as well as hollywood has over the last half century or so. And I'm also reasonable sure that most people joining the military have seen a whole bunch of those very films.
So maybe it just plain was a bad analogy...
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However, I'm willing to bet that when you get any patient in a room with a doctor who is going over the risks of a medical procedure, they understand far more that this is real, this could actually happen to them. I mean, for most of the women going to get an abortion, they had the "this can't happen to me" syndrome in regards to even getting pregnant. Well, that blows that theory out of the water.
This is a pretty strong argument in support of my position though. Are you saying that the doctor should *not* go over the risks of a medical proceedure so as not to worry the patient? You are aware that they do this very thing, right? Except apparently for abortions where the doctor just kinda smiles at the woman and tells her it'll be no big deal...
You agree that informing the person of those risks would make it more "real" to her, but then don't want a woman to be so informed with the proceedure is an abortion? Why the exception in this case? Smacks of politics IMO. You would never oppose a law requiring a doctor to provide those details for any other sort of medical proceedure would you? Why do it in this case?
Gbaji wrote:
If you can't discern the wide gulf between fake Hollywood blood and real-life battlefield carnage, then it seems to me, at least, that you've lost touch with reality, and have no place in this argument.
You're the one who brought up the whole "show them a video" bit. I just went with it. Again. I can't imagine any possibililty that the government could come up with any sort of video that could portray the graphic nature of war more effectively the Hollywood.
You may be too young to remember the old public education reels that kids used to see in school on a whole range of topics. That's what you'd get. Trust me, Hollywood's version is vastly more likely to generate an emotional response then a government film would.
Gbaji wrote:
I am not assuming that she doesn't know what is in her body. She wouldn't be in an abortion clinic if she didn't know what was in her body. It is the woman's responsibility to decide if she wants to have an ultrasound done and if she wants to look at it. Forcing women to have the ultrasound is the role of the nanny-state, not a free country.
Providing abortions to women with taxpayer money is a "nanny-state" action already. I think regulating those proceedures is responsible government in this case. If you want to eliminate the nanny-state, then by all means argue against state funding for those abortions. But don't accept the funding but then argue that the government (and the people who pay those taxes) should have no say in how that money is spent.
Responsiblity goes farther then just the woman making the decision. It also goes to every single person who is providing that abortion for her. Including the taxpayers who are paying for it. I'll also point out that the law in question only says "some abortions". How much you want to bet it only applies to state funded ones?