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#102 Apr 30 2007 at 1:20 PM Rating: Good
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Samira wrote:
But it's not faiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiir! I wanna be accepted for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, no for the way I dreeeeeeeeeeeeeeess.


Good GOD Samira, now is NOT the time to play Lady Godiva.


Wait till you get your epic mount.

heh heh heh heh heh I said epic mount...
#103 Apr 30 2007 at 1:40 PM Rating: Default
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I love how you guys keep trying to turn the discussion around like I am somehow trying to justify my position for my own sake. There is no vendetta here, deal with it.

Celcio, you seem to still be missing the point. If choice is indeed the differentiating factor, then what that says about our culture is that we are still very unaccepting of diversity... that we only accept or tolerate differences when the person has no choice, not based on the actual effect of those differences.

I've yet to see a compelling argument as to why that's a part of our culture that we should readily embrace.

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It has nothing to do with being capable of fulfilling the role, but rather being accepted in that role.


You're talking about what is. I'm talking about what should be. You might think I'm just being a naive idealist, and that's fine. I acknowledge the reality, while at the same time evaluate the theoretical ideality, and look at ways to bridge the gap between reality and ideality. That is how progress is made.

Unless you can explain to me how it is somehow a cultural inevitability, but in which case you might make the same case for other forms of discrimination, and I might not disagree with you.

Believe it or not, I'm really not firmly set on my position. I came here more to be convinced than to convince others, I just have yet to see an ethical justification for discriminating based on dress other than things along the lines of, "that's the way it is and has been for a long time." Antagonizing me isn't really necessary either, as much fun as I'm sure it is.
#104 Apr 30 2007 at 1:44 PM Rating: Good
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I came here more to be convinced than to convince others,
In our defense, it's hard to teach a cat astronomy.
#105 Apr 30 2007 at 1:44 PM Rating: Good
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You're talking about what is. I'm talking about what should be. You might think I'm just being a naive idealist, and that's fine.


I might think you're a total fUcking ******, and that'd be fine, too.

How about this answer: Much like a college education, the culturally reinforced dress code for certain jobs is nothing more than another tool used by the wealthy to keep the black man down.

I like it.
#106 Apr 30 2007 at 1:46 PM Rating: Default
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I do come here for the love.
#107 Apr 30 2007 at 1:46 PM Rating: Excellent
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Kachi wrote:
I came here more to be convinced than to convince others
There's no profit in that for me. The more people who decide to attend job interviews in their sweat pants, the better off I am Smiley: grin
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#108 Apr 30 2007 at 1:50 PM Rating: Default
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Aha, the true motives are revealed!
#109 Apr 30 2007 at 1:51 PM Rating: Good
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Kachi wrote:
You're talking about what is. I'm talking about what should be.


Smiley: rolleyes

You're like a child, confident in your ignorance.

I could play the devils advocate and argue for the need for social stratification, role distinction, competition and a certain amount of intolerance as being necessary for a societies survival.

However I am sure you would be entirely incapable of getting over the culturally ingrained values of fairness in order to be able to understand it. Smiley: wink

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#110 Apr 30 2007 at 1:56 PM Rating: Good
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I could play the devils advocate and argue for the need for social stratification, role distinction, competition and a certain amount of intolerance as being necessary for a societies survival.
Whereas I could buy him 10 times over.

Maybe I am a capitalist sell-out loser after all!
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#111 Apr 30 2007 at 1:57 PM Rating: Good
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Kachi wrote:
Celcio, you seem to still be missing the point. If choice is indeed the differentiating factor, then what that says about our culture is that we are still very unaccepting of diversity... that we only accept or tolerate differences when the person has no choice, not based on the actual effect of those differences.

I've yet to see a compelling argument as to why that's a part of our culture that we should readily embrace.


No, you seem to be missing the point.

Our culture IS accepting of diversity! When I'm not visiting clients I can wear whatever I wish (modesty laws notwithstanding)) can wear piercings and show tattoos and cleavage and wool and all that! Our culture is truly free like that!

You, otoh, want to not only embrace that, but oppress those that would pay your pay to getting ink and black silk and eyeliner. See the OTHER part of our culture that you seem loathe to acknowledge? Is the EMPLOYER'S right to have his image too. There is no law mandating that the cultural melting pot must include some juvenile lisping, tongue-pierced "rebel". Do that on your OWN TIME.

There is no law mandating that someone should pay you to indulge youself at, frankly, their expense. You have a choice. Play along or go be a barrista.

edit: My piercing got in the way of my quote :( It's the MAN's fault!
edit2: And STILL it defeats me! RACISM! SEXISM! SOMETHING! Not my choice!




Edited, Apr 30th 2007 5:58pm by Celcio

Edited, Apr 30th 2007 6:00pm by Celcio
#112 Apr 30 2007 at 1:58 PM Rating: Good
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Nobby wrote:
bodhisattva wrote:
I could play the devils advocate and argue for the need for social stratification, role distinction, competition and a certain amount of intolerance as being necessary for a societies survival.
Whereas I could buy him 10 times over.

Maybe I am a capitalist sell-out loser after all!


No that would be Allakhazam~!

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#113 Apr 30 2007 at 1:59 PM Rating: Good
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Grandfather Barkingturtle wrote:

How about this answer: Much like a college education, the culturally reinforced dress code for certain jobs is nothing more than another tool used by the wealthy to keep the black man down.

I like it.


How bout the black sheep - would you feel different then?

#114 Apr 30 2007 at 2:01 PM Rating: Good
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My boss once said it would be better if I didnt wear my old worn AC/DC t-shirt to work anymore.

He might as well have called me a n'igger, that hateful son of a *****.
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#115 Apr 30 2007 at 2:05 PM Rating: Good
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bodhisattva wrote:
My boss once said it would be better if I didnt wear my old worn AC/DC t-shirt to work anymore.

He might as well have called me a n'igger, that hateful son of a *****.


Oh PLEASE! Everyone knows niggers wear adidas track suits, not AC/DC! It's a cultural thing!




#116 Apr 30 2007 at 2:06 PM Rating: Good
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Racism means not talking to a kid that shops at kmart.
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#117 Apr 30 2007 at 2:08 PM Rating: Good
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bodhisattva wrote:
Racism means not talking to a kid that shops at kmart.


I refuse to talk to you.




#118 Apr 30 2007 at 2:08 PM Rating: Decent
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You're like a child, confident in your ignorance.


I've come to accept that disagreeing with the masses here is a surefire way to get called no end of juvenile names, that's all. I just try to ignore the sanctimony and stick to the issue, well, most of the time.


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However I am sure you would be entirely incapable of getting over the culturally ingrained values of fairness in order to be able to understand it.


Somehow I knew your argument would eventually boil down to, "You're too stupid to understand."


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Is the EMPLOYER'S right to have his image too.


Sure, no one said that he they didn't have the right, but sometimes you can exercise your rights without being right, ya know? People exercise the right to make wrong decisions on a daily basis, and sometimes that includes using their right to wrongly prohibit the actions of others, even if those actions are in no way wrong :p

I think I'm just going to chalk this up as an unrecognized win. You may commence with the /butthurt.
#119 Apr 30 2007 at 2:10 PM Rating: Good
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Kachi

You're getting close to my top 5 Thick-Shits" list.

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#120 Apr 30 2007 at 2:11 PM Rating: Excellent
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If it's unrecognized, it's not really a win. If it's unrecognized because it doesn't exist, it's REALLY not really a win.

Seriously. Be a cultural rebel on your own time and your own dime.
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Kachi wrote:
I think I'm just going to chalk this up as an unrecognized win.
Smiley: laugh That's one way to duck out, I suppose.
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#122 Apr 30 2007 at 2:11 PM Rating: Decent
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I'm doing consulting this week, and even though I'm so fucking amazingly talented at what I do that I could wear sun god robes and a pope hat and no one would consider for second not retaining me, I still wear a suit and tie because it's the uniform of the culture I'm choosing to take part in while I work.

It's just a social convention like shaking hands. You might as well be ******** that people don't like it when you **** yourself and cup their balls to say hello.



Edited, Apr 30th 2007 6:12pm by Smasharoo
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#123 Apr 30 2007 at 2:12 PM Rating: Good
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Kachi wrote:
I think I'm just going to chalk this up as an unrecognized win.


Whatever makes you feel like you beat the MAN.

BTW I find your post incredibly amusing - anyone who's been around here for any length of time knows there are no "masses". People here disagree with each other as much as they agree - on many things!

Oh but if you recognized that you would have to recognize that it's not you against the man but you against any form of logic.

Ok you chalk up that "win".

Touch up the mascara and don't forget - down the road, not across the street.

edit: for runaway keystrokes




Edited, Apr 30th 2007 6:13pm by Celcio
#124 Apr 30 2007 at 2:13 PM Rating: Excellent
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Smasharoo wrote:
It's just a social convention like shaking hands. You might as well be ******** that people don't like it when you **** yourself and cup their balls to say hello.


"People react badly when I spit on their shoes by way of greeting. It's not WRONG. It doesn't HURT them. It's just me being myself! Why can't they ACCEPT that?"
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#125 Apr 30 2007 at 2:14 PM Rating: Good
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Smasharoo wrote:
You might as well be ******** that people don't like it when you **** yourself and cup their balls to say hello, like they do in Sacramento
When in Rome. . .
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#126 Apr 30 2007 at 2:15 PM Rating: Good
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Nobby wrote:
my top 5 Thick-Shits" list.


Thick shits? For a minute I thought you were Joph! Do you have a little midwestern in the woodpile?

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