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#77 Apr 30 2007 at 9:11 AM Rating: Decent
I think we need DNA evidence and a few appeals, just in case.

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#78 Apr 30 2007 at 9:13 AM Rating: Good
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I need the apples to pull off the act.

Oh... you said appeals, never mind.

#79 Apr 30 2007 at 9:14 AM Rating: Excellent
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Depends. If they're expressing an individual style, sure. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but it's usually at least interesting.

In my experience, everybody out there that's trying to express an "original style" usually got it out of an A&F catalog, or some other similarly retarded "authority" on fashion culture.
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#80 Apr 30 2007 at 9:17 AM Rating: Excellent
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Depends. If they're expressing an individual style, sure. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but it's usually at least interesting.

In my experience, everybody out there that's trying to express an "original style" usually got it out of an A&F catalog, or some other similarly retarded "authority" on fashion culture.


Not so much in SF, but yeah.
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#81 Apr 30 2007 at 9:46 AM Rating: Default
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Not any more than I expect every person to dress identically.

Regardless, the decision to dress as social convention deems appropriate is a conscious one. If someone walked up to you while they were jacking off, would that be okay with you? Would it affect your opinion of them? If you were against them jacking off as they talk to you, does that make you racist? I mean, as long as we're making absurd comparisons and all.


Ok, you don't expect them to dress identically, but identical-ish depending on the situation?

I guess as long as they aren't going to ******* on me, then of course it'd be wierd, but who are they hurting? Truth be told, I'd probably be a little envious. As long as they can keep their biological weaponry from contaminating anyone else, I don't see the problem with it. I know that doesn't work for your attempt to challenge my consistency with my line of reasoning, but that's the truth. If it doesn't hurt someone, I don't care how strange or unconventional it is.

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No, I'm pretty sure he's saying that you're minimizing actual oppression to "prove" your point.


I was just making a simple comparison. It's generally accepted that it's wrong to oppress someone based on race, gender, etc... wherein clothing is concerned, why a difference? Simply because it's a choice? I don't see how that's the issue. If race or gender were a choice, would it then be acceptable to oppress based on what choice people made?

As for dressing to impress, isn't that simply "giving in" to the oppressor? It's kind of the same as if black people could become white, and they did because that's what their employers wanted. Would that be ok? It seems just as unreasonable to me, just less of a heated issue because people find it easier to change their outfit that stand up to senseless "oppression".

It's not as if I'm in any way suggesting that the two are comparable societal problems in terms of scale. I'm only suggesting that they're comparable by the nature of the problem, obvious exception being that one is a choice, but as I've pointed out, I don't see how that's really relevant.

Thanks for dumbing it down for me though.
#82 Apr 30 2007 at 9:49 AM Rating: Good
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It is not an interesting question.

Why?

Because understanding the reasoning behind costume requirements in certain social situations is pretty basic. Because expecting culture to be rational is a very childish stance. Your argument for ending an irrational cultural trait programmed into us shows a rather large ignorance in terms of how you understand 'culture' and how it affects us.

Because when others point out these very obvious flaws in your line of reasoning you hop to perhaps the most intellecually inept logical fallacies to support your sh'itty thread.

/shrug
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#83 Apr 30 2007 at 9:50 AM Rating: Excellent
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I'm not sure there's any way to dumb it down enough, as it appears you're determined to be obtuse.

If you see convention as oppression, then there's really no more to be said aside from, "Go on with your bad self, you societal rebel, you."
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#84 Apr 30 2007 at 9:54 AM Rating: Excellent
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I guess as long as they aren't going to ******* on me, then of course it'd be wierd, but who are they hurting? Truth be told, I'd probably be a little envious.
*Shrug* Well, I guess that's where we're at an impass then.
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#85 Apr 30 2007 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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As for dressing to impress, isn't that simply "giving in" to the oppressor?



So lemme get this straight. You want to stand up to the oppressor by... making them your boss?

Clearly I didn't dumb it down enough.

And you obviously don't want to see the difference between race and adornments no matter how it's explained to you. You're holding fast against the oppression by The Man. How noble...



#86 Apr 30 2007 at 10:41 AM Rating: Good
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Jesus, what an idiot.
#87 Apr 30 2007 at 10:42 AM Rating: Excellent
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So lemme get this straight. You want to stand up to the oppressor by... making them your boss?


Smiley: laugh Good point.

If you want to be an original and buck all the conventions and break all the rules... you need to find a niche and be a genius at filling it. Steve Jobs could get away with wearing a black turtleneck and jeans because he was Steve Jobs.
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Steve Jobs could get away with wearing a black turtleneck and jeans because he was Steve Jobs.
Alternately, you could become a beatnik.
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Steve Jobs could get away with wearing a black turtleneck and jeans because he was Steve Jobs.
Alternately, you could become a beatnik.


*snap* *snap* *snap* *snap*

#90 Apr 30 2007 at 10:48 AM Rating: Excellent
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He did kinda have that City Lights thing going on, back in the day.
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#91 Apr 30 2007 at 10:58 AM Rating: Good
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Funnily enough, someone approached my boss today and asked him why he allows me to wear my hair long and have a beard.

My boss's original response was "Because he's a cUnt! Smiley: grin"

Then he realised the other guy was being absolutely serious. The other guy pointed out that I have to deal with senior people and should project a better image.

I knew nothing of this conversation until my boss called me over and said "Tell this guy why it doesn't bother me that you have gurly hair and a 70's beard"

"Easy" I replied. "Because I'm a cUnt! Smiley: grin"


I always wear a suit with a freshly ironed shirt, and usually a tie. If I'm meeting with important folks with old-fashioned ideas who have the power to enhance or damage my career, I'll cut my hair and trim back the face-fuzz (I almost shaved for the meeting with Bliar but. . .mehh).

My boss's visitor (a relatively junior but pompous surgeon) then ranted about old-fashioned standards and values. My boss and I were then duty-bound to point out that the difference between him and me is that I know I'm a cUnt.

Reminded me of Kachi on so many levels Smiley: sly
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#92 Apr 30 2007 at 12:32 PM Rating: Default
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Well perhaps I am stupid/dumb/an cnut, but it's not for lack of trying. I had no personal experience or bias which provoked this thread, it was simple curiosity, and if you can't explain it to me in a way that I understand, then that suggests to me an inadequacy on your part, not mine. It's not like I'm defending a personal position; I dress the way I want to dress and no one has a problem with it.

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It is not an interesting question.


Well that's a matter of opinion, isn't it. You're always invited to leave :)

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Because understanding the reasoning behind costume requirements in certain social situations is pretty basic.


Understanding the reasoning behind it and agreeing with the reasoning are different things altogether.

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Because expecting culture to be rational is a very childish stance.


Not quite sure what you mean by that. Ethnographic studies often reveal the reasoning behind cultural norms. If you're simply saying that culture isn't rational, well that was kind of my point to begin with... that it's an irrational standard. If you're saying that culture shouldn't be rational, I disagree.

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Your argument for ending an irrational cultural trait programmed into us shows a rather large ignorance in terms of how you understand 'culture' and how it affects us.


And why is that? What makes you think it's "programmed" into us? I imagine humanity began in the nude. Yes, dress has commonly been used to signify different roles and positions, but what reason is there that if approached conscientiously, those conventions can't be changed? Are you telling me that you think it's somehow impossible NOT to judge someone based on their dress?

It really seems to me like I'm not the one being obtuse; rather that others are perhaps trying to justify their own discriminatory tendencies.

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If you see convention as oppression,


I wouldn't say I see convention as oppression, just that I question its grounds as a convention in the first place. Most conventions exist to make life simpler, and I don't really see how this does. Furthermore, I do think "convention" is being used frequently as an excuse for oppression.

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You want to stand up to the oppressor by... making them your boss?


I'm not sure what wasn't clear about that statement. I was simply pointing out that people often don't want to dress a certain way, they only do so because they are ordered/expected too, and it's easier to change your clothes and keep your job than it is to, say, accept lifelong oppression over something that you can't change.

In other words, there was nothing wrong with the way they were in the first place, but it was easier to change given their options.

@Nobby, see, I wouldn't ever expect you to do that because it in no way inhibits your ability to do your job. Just seems kind of eh, stupid to me that in the workplace you not only can judge a book by its cover, you expect it.

But I'm glad you have an understanding? boss.


But this whole discussion has begun to digress somewhat (not that I'm surprised). I didn't start it purely in the context of the workplace; I also wanted to discuss the other instances of discrimination that might occur due to fashion. Wouldn't most people judge someone differently based on what they were wearing if they were crossing paths with them in a dark alley? Do you think fashion ever makes the difference between being let off with a warning or a $200 ticket? Are you more likely to smile at a passing stranger that you think looks nice despite really knowing anything about them (assuming no sexual interest)?

Pretty evident that most of you think judging someone based on dress in the workplace is an acceptable practice, but there are many other settings in which fashion plays a role in the way a person is treated.
#93 Apr 30 2007 at 12:38 PM Rating: Good
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#94 Apr 30 2007 at 12:40 PM Rating: Default
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I wear only wear ties as convention allows :p
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if you can't explain it to me in a way that I understand, then that suggests to me an inadequacy on your part, not mine.
Gee, and I was already spending this afternoon blaming myself for not being able to teach my cat astronomy. One more issue on the pile Smiley: frown
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#96 Apr 30 2007 at 12:42 PM Rating: Good
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Kachi wrote:
I wear only wear ties as convention allows :p
And make you make only make sense in your own head, right?
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#97 Apr 30 2007 at 12:54 PM Rating: Good
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Look Kachi, while I might not have my degree I do have three years of 4 year year cultural anthropology degree under my belt.

So you ask a question. Why should we follow an irrational cultural norm?

Which is a thick as f'uck question to ask. The simple answer as to why 'because culture demands it of us'. Is that answer irrational? Of course but so is culture.
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[quote]I was simply pointing out that people often don't want to dress a certain way, they only do so because they are ordered/expected too, and it's easier to change your clothes and keep your job than it is to, say, accept lifelong oppression over something that you can't change.


No, you were directly comparing, and using as a buttress to your argument, that those that accept lifelong oppression over something that they can't change and those that can change their clothes are the same. DO you really think we can't read up 4 posts?

Now you seem to be shifting it. But see it's all about priorities. No one OWES you a lucrative suit-wearing job. You're more than allowed to clean gutters or write code than ponce out in front of a client in your puffy, pirate shirt, tattoos and nose rings for the tasty commission.

You made your choices, the employer made theirs. WHy do you feel that yours should supercede anyones?

(in case you missed it on the whole racial comparison - I'd draw a picture but you ate my crayons - the key point there is CHOICE. Say it. CH like chalk OI like "Oi I'm bring oppressed!", Ssssss like the latte machine you ride every day)

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The kid seems not to understand that professions are status roles. In order to meet status roles certain preconditions must be met. Rules of dress can sometimes be one of those preconditions. By meeting the preconditions of the roles onesself chooses he/she helps ensure ones acceptance into that role.

It has nothing to do with being capable of fulfilling the role, but rather being accepted in that role.

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#100 Apr 30 2007 at 1:11 PM Rating: Excellent
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But it's not faiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiir! I wanna be accepted for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, no for the way I dreeeeeeeeeeeeeeess.
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#101 Apr 30 2007 at 1:18 PM Rating: Good
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But it's not faiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiir! I wanna be accepted for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, no for the way I dreeeeeeeeeeeeeeess.


Indeed.

However as a professional you are trying to make a living. This often involves dealing with people whom you are not intimately familiar. It also involves convincing others that you are able to fill the role in a adequate manner. Since they do not know you they are going off ingrained cultural assumptions of what you should look like.

Waging a personal culture war of personal acceptance is not going to pay the bills.
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