While you were reading about Imus...Follow

Not sure. Changes by the day. I have natural wave and Joph likes it down, but both our mothers and sisters feel like it shows off my neck to have it up. I tend to agree, but I look like an old woman with my hair up. I can't help but look at myself and feel like I'm looking at Grandma. The wind here is a *****, too, and I'd hate to go to the trouble to do a Veronica Lake or half-up, half-down only to have it blown to hell.

Also, I'll be wearing a cathedral-length ivory and gold mantilla, and I hear that I need some sort of anchor in my hair, so having it somewhat up might be a keeper.

Wait, are you having an outdoor ceremony or are you just concerned about it getting messed up between the hairdressers and the church? If it's the latter, the hairdresser can put a net or something over it to protect it.

Maybe DSD can play with it and tell me what to do.

All you have to do is mention weddings and flowers and half the population gets a giggly and forgets all about the tragic waste of human life going on in Iraq.

So are you and Rosie O'Donnell saying the US military is setting off the bombs that's killing US soldiers and Iraqis?