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#52 Mar 29 2007 at 11:49 AM Rating: Excellent
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Barkingturtle wrote:

Actually, after having seen the size of my tax refund, I'm thinking of it.

Truth be told, though, I'm even more pervy in person, where the full scope of my facial expressions and hand gestures can be absorbed completely. Plus, I drink a ton. I mean, it's totally a lifestyle for me, so I'd need to be accomodated.


That's ok, my boyfriend will be there if you decide to hump my leg. Not that he'd do anything but laugh, but at least I'd have a witness.

Then I'm making up a t-shirt that says "BT Humped my leg in Chicago" and submitting it to Alla for possible site sponsored production.
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#53 Mar 29 2007 at 11:59 AM Rating: Good
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Barkingturtle wrote:
Actually, after having seen the size of my tax refund, I'm thinking of it.
Git yer hairy **** to Chitown BT

Barkingturtle wrote:
Plus, I drink a ton. I mean, it's totally a lifestyle for me, so I'd need to be accomodated.
You channeling me brother?
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#54 Mar 29 2007 at 12:01 PM Rating: Decent
BarkingTurtle wrote:
I guess what it boils down to is my belief that unlike ****, I only have so much love to share, and once I give it away I can never get it back.


I know the feeling.

I dated a guy for four years before he was killed in a car accident. We were in love, we were going to get married right after college.

I was convinced that I would never find anyone else, and if I did, it would be a betrayal of him.

When I was ready to be in another relationship, that feeling slowly went away. This is sorta like your security blanket. And people will tell you to hurry up and move on, but it can't happen until you're ready. I have no idea how long it's been since you and the girl you're pining over have been together, but you need to really examine what's going on inside and figure out if you're using her as a cop out, or if you truly just are not ready for a real commitment yet.

#55 Mar 29 2007 at 12:05 PM Rating: Excellent
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Belkira wrote:
I have no idea how long it's been since you and the girl you're pining over have been together, but you need to really examine what's going on inside and figure out if you're using her as a cop out, or if you truly just are not ready for a real commitment yet.


Please don't ask BT to examine anything. It just turns him on and then we can't have any sort of discussion at all.

Yup, look, now he's thinking about nurses. Thanks.

Nexa
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#56 Mar 29 2007 at 12:09 PM Rating: Decent
Nexa wrote:
Please don't ask BT to examine anything. It just turns him on and then we can't have any sort of discussion at all.

Yup, look, now he's thinking about nurses. Thanks.

Nexa


Smiley: lol

Well, if he's going to Chicago, it'll be ya'lls problem not mine. Smiley: grin
#57 Mar 29 2007 at 12:35 PM Rating: Good
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Being scared of pain only delays it. It's not like you'll never be hurt again, or like the person you'll love someday didn't also love someone more, she fears, than she can love you.

It certainly happened to me, and it had happened to Joph. You can't get to a certain age without its requisite disappointments.No one is a unique flower. It's like Samira (and King) said: You get busy living, or you get busy dying.

I will say this: I had a guy who I dated for seven years and up until about a couple or so years ago when I saw him last, he kept telling me how much he missed me, and how hard I was for him to get over. I didn't feel sorry for him as much as I hurt for him and the fact that he hadn't let himself move on. He was funny and he deserved another chance with someone new, but he wouldn't let himself. Don't be that guy.

Edited, Mar 29th 2007 4:36pm by Atomicflea
#58 Mar 29 2007 at 4:09 PM Rating: Good
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The first time, she said it first. I replied with it more out of a suprised reflex than anything else. I didn't mean it at the time, but after about another month or two I had fallen for her. Then she got restless and ditched me. That was my High School romance.

The second time, I said it first. I thought I was safe and that she felt the same way, I guess she didn't. She ditched me within a week. In retrospect I don't think I was in love with her, she was just really good in the sack, and she was pretty damn cool too. She like much the same music as I did, she was independent, and liked hanging out with me and my friends without needing me to dote on her.

I haven't ventured to say that phrase since, but in my defense, I haven't actually felt that way about anyone since either.
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#59 Mar 29 2007 at 5:06 PM Rating: Default
Thumbelyna Quick Hands wrote:
That can make or break a relationship. You know the ones, "I am pregnant."


FTFY

pardon my cynicism
#60 Mar 29 2007 at 6:29 PM Rating: Good
I think as long as you can take honesty, there is no such thing as too soon . For me, the odd couple of occasions I have said it, its not because I expect it back, or even want it back, its just because its a thought bouncing around in my head that I need to say before I say something even more moronic, such as "I love sucking off carrots" (If you knew me in RL, you would know I talk random **** when nervous ) .

Do I care if they say it back ? Nope, so long as its out of my head and said, I'm ok . The way I see it, either someone loves me, or they don't . If they do, they will tell me so when they feel comfortable . If not, then **** em ^^ I would rather have those three little words mean something, than them just being trotted out in the heat of the moment because wee willie winkie wants a hug .
#61 Mar 30 2007 at 6:11 AM Rating: Good
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I held back saying "I love you" to Jonwin, after 2 very painful breakups and a divorce. I wasn't looking for a partner, which seems to have a way of finding them. Plus I was scare of anyone ever being willing to deal with my health issues. My oldest wanted me to get out and date, so I let her drag me along to the club house and when I didn't come again for a few months, he asked about me. Next time I was there, he ask for a date.

For me it was just dating and I wasn't going to allow my feelings to get ahead of my social life. I can't remember if I waited until he said "I love you" or just couldn't hold it in anymore, but 7 months later when he asked me to marry him, I didn't pause long, to say yes. Reality hit us later that unless some miracle happen, financially we are better off living together, though I still hope someday to say "I do."
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#62 Mar 30 2007 at 6:18 AM Rating: Good
After much thought and consideration, there are no three words I like to hear more than "Fuck me hard."
#63 Mar 30 2007 at 6:20 AM Rating: Good
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After much thought and consideration, there are no three words I like to hear more than "FUck me hard."

"FUck me again."

Edited, Mar 30th 2007 10:21am by fhrugby
#64 Mar 30 2007 at 6:23 AM Rating: Decent
Elderon wrote:
After much thought and consideration, there are no three words I like to hear more than "Fuck me hard."


Coincidentally, Elderon's favorite six words are "fuck me hard in the ***"
#65 Mar 30 2007 at 6:30 AM Rating: Decent
I think I said it first, couple of months into dating, and she responded with kisses and "I love you too". And for two years, it was good. Now, she's lost her marbles and is breaking it off Smiley: frown The things she comes up with as reasons are just simply not true nor factual in any sense of the word- I have no idea where she comes up with this stuff.

Almost makes me want to swear off relationships for good.
#66 Mar 30 2007 at 7:14 AM Rating: Good
Althrun wrote:
I think I said it first, couple of months into dating, and she responded with kisses and "I love you too". And for two years, it was good. Now, she's lost her marbles and is breaking it off Smiley: frown The things she comes up with as reasons are just simply not true nor factual in any sense of the word- I have no idea where she comes up with this stuff.

Almost makes me want to swear off relationships for good.


Buy a sheep.
#67 Mar 30 2007 at 7:16 AM Rating: Decent
Barkingturtle wrote:
Buy a sheep.


And for long trips or if you live in the city...
#68 Mar 30 2007 at 7:22 AM Rating: Good
Belkira wrote:
Barkingturtle wrote:
Buy a sheep.


And for long trips or if you live in the city...


Is there anything more embarrassing than being caught with a deflated carcass hanging from your dong because you forgot to hang a "Do Not Disturb" sign? I guess we'll find out if I make it to Chicago.


Thanks for the link, she's got a purdy mouf.
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