Nexa wrote:
Barkingturtle wrote:
In short, I still hate rapists more than lying, dirty whores, and by a wide margin, but I take some offense at your assertion that a false-accuser goes through some horrible ordeal. That's just wrong, and even assuming that it is traumatic for someone to lie about being raped, she asked for it.
In your case, it is wrong, and I'm sorry for what you went through. However, a woman who accuses a man of rape is often (I stress often, not always, as it is obviously not true in your case):
*not believed by her peer group and outcast
*questioned by her own family, and depending on who she is accusing, outcast
*has her previous sexual encounters brought to full light and in startling detail
Correct Nexa. But the truely sad bit to all of this is that while this does act as a strong deterrent to actual rape victims, it is *not* such a strong deterrent to someone making a false allegation.
She isn't going to care as much if she's not believed or questioned, since her "goal" isn't about whether someone believes that some trauma she went through happened. She knows it didn't happen. Her goal is simply to make her target's life a living hell. What makes rape victims have a really hard time is that they know that they were raped but are afraid no one will believe them. That fear simply isn't going to exist for someone who's intentionally making a false accusation.
I want to make something clear. I'm not in anyway suggesting that women should not come forward with accusations when they are raped. Nor do I believe we should make it unduly difficult for them to do so in that situation. My disgust with this issue has far more to do with the treatment of rape cases in our media, and the effect that tends to have on the prosecution of rape cases (and in some cases even trickling down to legistlation as well).
My primary concern here is that in the pursuit of "justice" in edge cases (situations where it will be virtually impossible to determine if a rape has occured beyond "he said, she said"), we are damaging the cases for women where there is much more evidence and a better chance of proving the case. I think that it's important to recognize that the issue goes in both direction. While we can talk about how a general trend of not believing the victim makes things painful and difficult for women who have been raped, it also needs to be noted that this lack of belief stems directly from the abuses of the very protections that have been applied over time to make it easier for women in that situation.
What is the right solution? That's hard to say. I think the correct solution is sociological, not legal. We should not be making changes to our evidentiary processes, nor lowering the legal "bar" for cases of rape simply because some women do not find it easy to go forward with those cases. We should instead be focusing on changing societies views towards women who have been raped. I just feel that by approaching the issue in the way we have, while seeming like a quick fix, has actually done more harm then good. It has increased the perception of false accusation in theses cases, ultimately making it harder for women down the line.
Keep the rules and proceedures the same for rape as for any other violent crime, and the perception that false accusations are made so often will fade. The perception will change such that if a women actually gets rape charges filed and a court date set, then her case actually has merit. Today, that is simply not the case because due to the protectionist nature of rape cases (and only rape cases), the defendant often has no way to answer charges until he's actually in court. This has led to some blatantly bad cases going to court, where if the normal evidentiary oversite and disclosure process were in place, they never would have...