gbaji wrote:
Woah! Hold on there. You specifically made an exception in your earlier argument. You said that:
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Violence is the exertion of physical force. But there are other kinds of force: coercion, blackmail, etc.
Rape is violence, paying taxes is force. I mean, unless as stated, your tax collector punches you in the nose and takes your FICA.
You are specifically stating that Rape is "different" then coersion because it's the result of "physical force" being excerted on you *instead* of some form of coersion. So, according to you, if one uses coercion, blackmail, etc... to have sex with someone, it's not rape. Now I don't agree with that either, but I didn't in my earlier comments on rape either (where I argued that it would be rape, but you'd need some sort of corroborating evidence to prove it beyond just claiming it happened before someone should actually be charged with the crime).
You rather missed the point of the argument as well as the violation part as well as the context part. On the upside you're battin' 1000 for blinders! You really do believe that, even by coercion, ramming your di
ck (or sundry rigid objects) in an unwilling, but resigned, participant lacks violence. You want, so badly, for someone to have said that, that you will ignore context and content to make it so. S'ok. I remember, the sun was in your eyes. (/sigh nexa, you were so right)
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My earlier arguments
Your earlier arguments have been all over the place - like these. If you think we're confused by the moving target? We're not.
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[continued]about rape in that situation were that they should be treated identically to any other crime where no physical evidence exists. If you walk up to a police officer and say that someone held you up at gunpoint and took your wallet, they'd need more evidence then just your say, right? If it turned out that the person in question is a friend of yours, and that person claims you did in fact hand him the wallet, and he doesn't own a gun, and there's no witness reports to confirm the event, but several witnesses who saw you freely handing him your wallet a few times throughout the evening to get money out of it because you were too drunk to do it yourself, exactly how far do you think the police investigation will get?
Now, I usually ignore you but... you agree with the shadowy imprisonment of the people at gitmo right? Please explain how your "he said she said" 'logic' applies there. If a woman claims rape with no eveidence, it's wrong to imprison the alleged transgressor, however if the same markless woman claimed terrorism, lock him up! (let that be a lesson to us all, cry tara, not rape) This disparity, not because you're not popular, is why people think you're dismissable.
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On the other hand, if the person was a total stranger, owned a gun, and had no reason to have your wallet, your claim would have more merit, right?
Oh SURE! No one commits crimes against people they KNOW!
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Look. I wasn't trying to sidetrack this thread (not that it couldnt use a good sidetrack). I just saw your post and found it amusing is all.
Ah fair enough, I find you generally chucklable. Actually sadly so.
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Just that without evidence of such violence, it's pretty impossible to prove rape without some significant corroborating evidence, and that increasingly our criminal justice system tends to charge people with it anyway (I was specifically talking about the rise of "date rape" and how often it's abused).
The amusing thing to me is that the same people who decry going to the furthest extremes to prove a point will they, themselves, go to the furthest extreme with rape to try to prove theirs. You admit it's a weak argument on one side and yet lean on it like it's Gibraltar to prop up yours.
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Masked man in a dark alley at 3am: I'm going to kill you!
Friend after a practical joke on them: I'm going to kill you!
Same right? I mean they parroted the same words fergoshsake!
Strange. There's nothing in your earlier posts to indicate you were kidding when you made them...
Again, nice brevity. But being brief and witty means that others will immediately get your point. Unless you're boldly outlining your own inability to grasp context, in which case: Well Done! You're like Commedia Del Arte. but without the bells aon yer hat, aren't you?