Are people truly Bisexual?Follow

I am torn on this one lol.. I knew you guys would love to discuss this topic lol....

Anyway I thought I would get some imput from you guys seeing as you would be objective in this situation.

My cousin came up a few weeks ago with a friend of his that he had been roomating with, of course liquor got involved DUH! anyway so ends up I hook up with his friend O_O yea I was shocked too. Anyway his Friend was telling me about his ex g/f and how she would never put out and he was a virgin, well until I got ahold of him >< ... He explained his sexuality in %'s like most bi people do .. said he was 60% str8 40% gay trust me I don't understand the % thing myself I always been strictly Richardly. Anyway so he goes home after 3 days of romping everynight (trying to not be too graphic for your sake) I talk to him everyday still, my cousin kinda blabbed his mouth to a lot of people that this guy knew, even his ex g/f called me yesterday asking me if it was true.

I finally broke down told her, she was fairly convinced before I had told her because my cousin had told her in a lot of detail. Come to find out all the times he supposedly "ate her out" and attempted to have sex with her was a lie. She said she had tried many many times to have sex with and such. So my guess is he is duh gay. Anyway I don't wanna ramble but this begs the Question do you believe people are truly bisexual or are they just pretending they are not gay or are they just going through a transitional phase in their life?

I mean for some reason I find it hard to believe anyone is gonna like both sexes their entire life , I believe it is possible to go through a phase and what not but I don't think bisexual is a permenant thing? do you?

Well he is comming up in afew weeks he still says he is 60% 40% so oh well I guess I will have the 40% fun lol :D

Everyone's actually gay, but it takes some people longer to realize it.

Read.

Nexa

OH!!! So you are a guy?!?! I didn't catch that until the last sentence.

Why?

Bisexual people are confused over which they like? Seems to me they probably like both.


Edit: And despite your sexual activity, I hope you're either 12 years old, or recently suffered a brain injury.




Edited, Feb 15th 2007 7:31pm by trickybeck

I wouuld hope by that age they are beyond petty things like LUST. Which is essentially all we are talking about here, right?

z0mg someone ban Trickybeck the troll!

Sheep are most definitely bisexual if you just sneak quietly enough.

It's always been my belief that bi-sexual people were just horny. Are we not, as a society, hetero by default? It's not really as black and white as you seem to think. If a person likes sex, then that's that. Everything else is gonna be based on past environment and chemistry.

If a persons eyes are closed and someone starts performing oral on them.... it is going to feel good, regardless. It's biology. It is only when the eyes open that everything else kicks in. All of the taboos or all of the hawtness.. depending on your preference..

however being straight as an arrow.... I'll say that I have never had any homosexual urges in adulthood. i will admit that when I was a kid; a sexual feeling was a sexual feeling (i.e. "playing doctor"). I had no notion of gays of **** or whatever... It just felt good, male or female. These days i will get aroused thinking of a hot woman going down on me. I do NOT get aroused thinking of a hot man going down on me. This is NOt because I have no concept of a hot man. I do recognize attractiveness in the same sex or unattractivness. Most people I think either ignore or supress these aspects of themselves. they will recognize a "handsome man" but do not acknowledge that as attraction.

That may lie the difference. If it is "just chemistry" as you **** claim and it's not a simple matter of choice and preference.. then YOUR idea of a "Hot Man" must greatly differ from mine. I would equate my idea of it as a mix of envy and admiration. You would be more likely to be thinking what his *** would be like bouncing off of you.

That being said.. we have all had different experiences in life. maybe I was exposed to too many slutty girls and you were exposed to too many slutty guys... and our parents didn't talk to us in the right way and the people that we knew had different inputs to you about such feelings..... you saw something when you were little to make you hate pússy and I saw too much to make me love it.

Either way; I still do not think that it is a "Either/Or" as you say. There are many many factors to take into account.

Why are you questioning it? Are you afraid he's suddenly going to start banging his ex-g/f and not want you>?





godammit Tylendell, you best not have left after I just typed all that gay ****.

Edited, Feb 15th 2007 11:12pm by Kelvyquayo

Love?

Realizing that you're young, keep in mind that one doesn't get in a relationship with a person based soley on sexual attraction. There are certainly people who are just attracted to people, without too much consideration as to which body parts are between their legs. Some people even find one sex more sexually attractive, but find they only like intimate relationships with the other.

There are many more classes of sexuality than even bi, gay, and straight.

Nexa

Edited, Feb 16th 2007 5:40am by Nexa

It seems about 70% of the people I know are "bisexual". I honestly think that possibly about 10% truly are. The rest are either just gender-confused or seeking attention. It's a sad state of affairs but there's more pressing concerns to be addressed before this becomes one of the things scientists spend all day trying to figure out.