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#1 Feb 11 2007 at 12:36 PM Rating: Good
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There is a story about a guy who was sent to Iraq, and was basically blown up from a suicide bomber while out on patrol. He was alive, but just barely. He was sent home in a coma, woke up, and was severely disfigured. His fiance stuck by his side and they recently got married.

Article, whic is too long to quote

Solemmn wedding photo

Pictures of before and after, along with wedding photos

After looking at the pictures and reading the story, I was both amazed and impressed with these two. While some of the pictures the woman looks to be asking herself WTH did I get myself into, there are a few in the gallery of her looking totally in love. She's proven, its not looks that matter, but the person himself. In fact, I found myself laughing at some of the quotes in the article knwoing this would be a guy I could totally get along with. My two favorites:

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“Then doctors removed his ‘trake’ – the tracheostomy tube in his neck that had been feeding him when his lips were too burnt – and he said, ‘Renee, will you be my valentine?’ I cried.” His next words were: “Do you want to make out?” Months passed before they could, but at that moment she knew that he hadn’t really changed.


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In Metamora, people know him well enough not to stare a lot, but he gets plenty of looks elsewhere. Mostly he shrugs it off. “I give people the benefit of the doubt. If you were me, I might look at you.” If they are particularly rude, he will turn and say: “So what were you going to ask me?”

On the plus side, Ty claims: “I can be a lot more of an *** and get away with it.”


We hear about people becoming seriously disfigured after some horrible incident, but rarely do we see the extremity of the matter. It really sunk in this time for me. I reflected last night on what my actions would be if something happened to my family in this manner. It's not something you can brush aside and say "Yeah, no matter what I'd be there." You'd like to think you would stand by your SO's side, but when something this extreme happens, it's something you really need to reflect on.

I did my reflecting last night. And I hope it is never ever the case, that anything like this should happen to my loved ones. But I can say with a clear conscious I would stand by them no matter what. The mans sense of humor is very like my own mans and it reminded me, even amidst the horrific photos that its the person inside that counts. But what about you guys. Would you stay? If no one would hold you accountable, and you could find someone else with no one blaming you, not even your SO, would you still stay or would you cut your ties?
#2 Feb 11 2007 at 12:37 PM Rating: Default
This was already a 4chan thread, why must you cut and paste?
#3 Feb 11 2007 at 12:39 PM Rating: Default
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Copy pasta is COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPY
#5 Feb 11 2007 at 12:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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Well then it seems I missed that thread. Bite me
#6 Feb 11 2007 at 12:40 PM Rating: Default
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#7 Feb 11 2007 at 12:42 PM Rating: Good
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I'd have to do it with the lights off.
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#8 Feb 11 2007 at 12:42 PM Rating: Default
Some parts are seriously exact on...

There is just less pictures of crazy heads attatched to the girls head... needs more Cracky-chan also...


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Well then it seems I missed that thread. Bite me
Are you saying you go on 4chan enough to be suprised you missed a thread?

Edited, Feb 11th 2007 3:44pm by Hellboy
#9 Feb 11 2007 at 12:44 PM Rating: Excellent
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bodhisattva wrote:
I'd have to do it with the lights off.


Since your girlfriend already has to have the lights off, that works.

For me, I dunno. I guess if I'd already had the "this is the one for me" moment, then that commitment would stand.

The thing I'd be inclined to be more selfish about is if he needed full-time nursing, or needed me to change his colostomy bag or drool cup or whatever. I'm not particularly noble.
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#10 Feb 11 2007 at 12:51 PM Rating: Good
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Samira wrote:
bodhisattva wrote:
I'd have to do it with the lights off.


Since your girlfriend already has to have the lights off, that works.


You don't even know Sammy. I have to turn the lights off because she insists on keeping eye contact through the whole session. I don't even think she blinks. I tried keeping my eyes closed once and I could feel her staring at me. Creepy stuff.

So now I just turn off the lights, put on a blindfold and pretend I am somewhere else while she does her thing. That is normal in a relationship though, right?
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#11 Feb 11 2007 at 12:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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she insists on keeping eye contact through the whole session. I don't even think she blinks.


That's beyond creepy
#12 Feb 11 2007 at 1:00 PM Rating: Default
when i'm doing the wild tango i don't usally keep eye contact. most of the time i'm just going at it i kinda get crazy with my sex.
#13 Feb 11 2007 at 1:00 PM Rating: Default
DSD wrote:
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she insists on keeping eye contact through the whole session. I don't even think she blinks.


That's beyond creepy
Hannibal Lecter is very convincing...
#14 Feb 11 2007 at 1:05 PM Rating: Good
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His next words were: “Do you want to make out?”


Smiley: laugh GOLD

I wonder if his attitude was different, as in hopeless and depressed, if she would have dedided differently.


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nothing wrong with eye contact... as long as the other person isn't making goofy faces or something.. It's actually kinda hot.
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#15 Feb 11 2007 at 1:33 PM Rating: Good
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Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
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His next words were: “Do you want to make out?”


Smiley: laugh GOLD

I wonder if his attitude was different, as in hopeless and depressed, if she would have dedided differently.


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nothing wrong with eye contact... as long as the other person isn't making goofy faces or something.. It's actually kinda hot.


not when they dont blink. Then you begin to wonder if they're trying to creep you out on purpose, thus diminishing the fun factor. Either that or they are robots
#16 Feb 11 2007 at 1:38 PM Rating: Good
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not when they dont blink. Then you begin to wonder if they're trying to creep you out on purpose, thus diminishing the fun factor. Either that or they are robots



could be so in love and connected that they are blinking at the same timeSmiley: grin
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#17 Feb 11 2007 at 1:46 PM Rating: Good
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not if its creeping him out
#18 Feb 11 2007 at 1:53 PM Rating: Good
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maybe it's a one-way street <_<

You know Bodhi is in love with himself

Edited, Feb 11th 2007 4:54pm by Kelvyquayo
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#19 Feb 11 2007 at 2:13 PM Rating: Excellent
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Keep your 4chan crap in the OOT.

#20 Feb 11 2007 at 2:13 PM Rating: Excellent
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So, did the article say if his ***** is intact?

Speaking of which, his head looks kinda like a ***** now.

#21 Feb 11 2007 at 2:19 PM Rating: Excellent
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trickybeck wrote:

So, did the article say if his ***** is intact?

Speaking of which, his head looks kinda like a ***** now.



She didn't throw the wedding, so of course it's still mostly there.
#22 Feb 11 2007 at 2:20 PM Rating: Excellent
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DSD wrote:
It's not something you can brush aside and say "Yeah, no matter what I'd be there."


At the risk of sounding holier-than-thou, it is for me. The thought of leaving would never even cross my mind.

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#23 Feb 11 2007 at 2:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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Is no-one here prepared to toss in the obligatory "I'd hit it" post?

Remember where you are, people. Smiley: oyvey

Oh, and: I'd hit it.
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#24 Feb 11 2007 at 2:31 PM Rating: Excellent
Nobby wrote:
Is no-one here prepared to toss in the obligatory "I'd hit it" post?

Remember where you are, people. Smiley: oyvey

Oh, and: I'd hit it.
Ewww. you can have the burned dude, I'd hit the chick.
#25 Feb 11 2007 at 2:34 PM Rating: Excellent
After looking at all the image links, I'd have to say that he was ugly before the accident, so no big difference for her really...
#26 Feb 11 2007 at 2:55 PM Rating: Decent
I'd hit them both, and that other disfigured guy that was sitting with him in that one picture
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