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#1 Feb 09 2007 at 7:41 AM Rating: Good
Let's put this into perspective. If any one of you Anglophones decided to go shopping north of the border and got stuck say in Northern Quebec for some stupid reason or another and ended up in a small, Francophone town, how long would it take for you to fix your error and get back home? Somehow, this woman took 25 years to do just that... Absolutely unimaginable.


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DUSONGYO, Thailand (AFP) - A Thai mother who was lost for 25 years after catching the wrong bus home has spoken of her ordeal after being reunited with her family thanks to simple song.

The last time Jaeyaena Beuraheng saw her seven children was in 1982 when she left south Thailand on one of her regular shopping trips across the border to nearby Malaysia.

She never returned, and police later told her family that she had apparently been killed in a traffic accident.

In fact, Jaeyaena had simply taken the wrong bus home -- an error that would have been easy to fix except that she only speaks the local dialect of Malay known as Yawi, according to officials at the homeless shelter where the 76-year-old has lived for two decades.

"I didn't tell anybody where I was going on that day, because I went there quite often," she told AFP, crying as she spoke.

She was heading home from her shopping trip when she mistakenly hopped on a bus to Bangkok, some 1,150 kilometers (700 miles) north of her home in Narathiwat province.

In Bangkok, unable to read Thai and speaking a language few Thais can understand, she again took a wrong bus, this time to Chiang Mai, another 700 kilometers (430 miles) further north.

There she ended up as a beggar for five years, until she was sent to a homeless shelter in the central Thai province of Phitsanulok in 1987.

"I thought I would die in Phitsanulok. I thought about running away many times, but then I worried I would not be able to make it home. I really missed my children," Jaeyaena said.

Officials at the shelter told AFP that she was known as "Auntie Mon," because her speech sounded similar to the language of ethnic Mon living along the border with Myanmar.

But still no one could understand her, until last week when three health students from Narathiwat arrived on an exchange program to research the problem of homelessness at the shelter.

She sang a song for the visitors, one that the staff at the shelter had often heard but did not understand.

"She sang her same old song, one that nobody could understand until those three students from Narathiwat told us that she was sing in Yawi, a Malay dialect," the official said.

"So we asked them to talk to her and find out if she had relatives," official said.

Jaeyaena told the students that she had a Malaysian husband and seven children, recounting her entire story of the bus and how she had become lost in northern Thailand.

Her shocked family sent her youngest son and her eldest daughter to meet her and bring her home on Tuesday, the official said.

"She remembered all of her children's names. But at first she couldn't recognise her youngest son, but she recognised her eldest daughter," said the official, who was at their reunion.

Her children took her back to their family home in Dusongyo village, in a remote corner of Narathiwat, where her children and grandchildren were still hugging and kissing her two days after her return.





Edited, Feb 9th 2007 10:42am by Elderon
#2 Feb 09 2007 at 7:44 AM Rating: Excellent
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That's just stranger than fiction.

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#3 Feb 09 2007 at 7:49 AM Rating: Good
She had seven children.

I wouldn't call what she did stupid, I'd call it self-preservation.
#4 Feb 09 2007 at 7:49 AM Rating: Good
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I thought about running away many times, but then I worried I would not be able to make it home.


Words escape me as to how stupid that is coming from someone who's already lost.
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#5 Feb 09 2007 at 7:49 AM Rating: Good
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Simply.Retarded.

Maybe I'm being too generous, but even if you couldn't actually find your way home I would think you would at least be able to pick up the language after a few years...
#6 Feb 09 2007 at 7:54 AM Rating: Good
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Simply.Retarded.

Maybe I'm being too generous, but even if you couldn't actually find your way home I would think you would at least be able to pick up the language after a few years...
Exactly. Draw a picture maybe? How about telephones? Those existed in 1982.
#7 Feb 09 2007 at 7:59 AM Rating: Good
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Jacobsdeception wrote:
Simply.Retarded.

Maybe I'm being too generous, but even if you couldn't actually find your way home I would think you would at least be able to pick up the language after a few years...


/nod. Or worst case scenario, start hoofing it. Its going to take less time than 25 years to get back to an area where people do understand your language.
#8 Feb 09 2007 at 8:00 AM Rating: Excellent
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That sounds like something that would happen to me. Smiley: laugh
#9 Feb 09 2007 at 8:02 AM Rating: Good
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That sounds like something that would happen to me. Smiley: laugh
I'm pretty sure that if you were by yourself in Beantown, you would be stuck in a revolving door for 25 years.
#10 Feb 09 2007 at 8:04 AM Rating: Good
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not necessarily in, but still trying to figure out how a revolving door works.
#11 Feb 09 2007 at 8:05 AM Rating: Decent
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Sounds a bit like the day of my interview with Dell. I ended up walking halfway across Rockland county on a highway till I found a bus going in the right direction. It wasn't, really, but it did take me to a bus terminal where I could figure out wtf I was supposed to go.
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#12 Feb 09 2007 at 8:05 AM Rating: Good
I'm thinking maybe that's why there are so many moogle fuckers from that end of the world. The IQ seems about right.
#13 Feb 09 2007 at 8:18 AM Rating: Default
/cue One Night in Bangkok

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Bangkok!
Oriental setting
And the city don't know what the city is getting
The créme de la créme of the chess world in a
Show with everything but Yul Brynner

Time flies doesn't seem a minute
Since the Tyrolean spa has the chess boys in it
All change dom't you know that when you
Play at this level there's no ordianry venue

It's Iceland or the Philippines or Hastings or this place


One night in Bankok and the worlds's your oyster
The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free
You'll find a god in every golden cloister
And if you're lucky then the god's a she
I can feel an angel sliding up to me

One town is very like another
When you head's down over your pieces brother
Tea girls warm and sweet (warm sweet)
Some are set up in the Somerset Maugham suite
Get Thai'd you're talking to a tourist
Whose every move's among the purest

I get my kicks above the waistline sunshine

One night in Bankok makes a hard man humble
Not much between despair and ecstasy
One night in Bankok an the tough guys tumble
Can't bee to careful with your comapny
I can feel the devil walking next to me

Siam's gotta be the witness
To the ultimate test of cerebral fitness
This grips me more than would a
Muddy old river or reclining Buddha

And thank god I'm only watching the game
Controlling it

I don't see you guys rating
The kind of mate I'm contemplating
I'd let you watch I would invite you
But the queens wee use would not excite you

So you'd better go back to your bars
your temples
your massage parlours

One night in Bankok and the worlds's your oyster
The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free
You'll find a god in every golden cloister
A little flesh a little history
I can feel an angel sliding up to me


One night in Bankok makes a hard man humble
Not much between despair and ecstasy
One night in Bankok an the tough guys tumble
Can't bee to careful with your comapny
I can feel a devil walking next to me
#14 Feb 09 2007 at 8:19 AM Rating: Good
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Poor lady. Maybe they didn't emphasize critical thinking in her curriculum, you heartless bastards.
#15 Feb 09 2007 at 8:22 AM Rating: Good
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seriously though, how hard is it to come up with the idea to start walking? I mean, she had 25 years to think about her options! It's not a hard concept. I have a hard time believing that one person could honestly not come up with some idea in which to get home in that amount of time.
#16 Feb 09 2007 at 8:23 AM Rating: Good
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Listen, you have high hopes for someone that couldn't concieve of crossing her legs, either. Smiley: dubious
#17 Feb 09 2007 at 8:24 AM Rating: Good
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Poor lady. Maybe they didn't emphasize critical thinking in her curriculum, you heartless bastards.
Smiley: laugh

Do women in that country even attend school? Even still, you'd expect a full grown adult to manage getting home.

How hard is it to find a map printed in a local dialect, point to where you want to go and then get on the right mode of transport to get there? Really something not right with this one.
#18 Feb 09 2007 at 8:26 AM Rating: Good
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Atomicflea wrote:
Listen, you have high hopes for someone that couldn't concieve of crossing her legs, either. Smiley: dubious


nah, 7 isnt so bad. When you have 13 kids or more all bets are off though.
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#19 Feb 09 2007 at 8:30 AM Rating: Good
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Elderon wrote:
Atomicflea wrote:
Poor lady. Maybe they didn't emphasize critical thinking in her curriculum, you heartless bastards.
Smiley: laugh

Do women in that country even attend school? Even still, you'd expect a full grown adult to manage getting home.

How hard is it to find a map printed in a local dialect, point to where you want to go and then get on the right mode of transport to get there? Really something not right with this one.
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In Bangkok, unable to read Thai and speaking a language few Thais can understand,
Boy, you kids are spoiled. There are places where things just aren't available in your language. I can understand where this would have happened. If she didn't read Thai, she had no way of knowing where she was going or if it was the right way. I wouldn't say it was stupid so much as fearful and unmotivated.
#20 Feb 09 2007 at 9:31 AM Rating: Good
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When I went to Japan, I spoke very little Japanese. Many of the people I came in contact with over there spoke very little English. I can't read Kanji for ****, looks like a bunch of squiggles. Even when nothing was written in engrish I still managed to get around, buy the **** I needed, and communicate the basic concepts I was trying to get across to other people.

Point at stuff, draw pictures, make wild, flailing hand gestures while speaking really slow and really loud in English; eventually you can get what you want. It's not really that hard.
#21 Feb 09 2007 at 9:37 AM Rating: Good
Atomicflea wrote:
Elderon wrote:
Atomicflea wrote:
Poor lady. Maybe they didn't emphasize critical thinking in her curriculum, you heartless bastards.
Smiley: laugh

Do women in that country even attend school? Even still, you'd expect a full grown adult to manage getting home.

How hard is it to find a map printed in a local dialect, point to where you want to go and then get on the right mode of transport to get there? Really something not right with this one.
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In Bangkok, unable to read Thai and speaking a language few Thais can understand,
Boy, you kids are spoiled. There are places where things just aren't available in your language. I can understand where this would have happened. If she didn't read Thai, she had no way of knowing where she was going or if it was the right way. I wouldn't say it was stupid so much as fearful and unmotivated.
No really, I'm serious about this. I was lost in Seoul Korea for a while but I managed to find my way back to where I was supposed to be. Nothing was in English, but being less retarded than this woman, I was able to find a shop that had a map, buy the map, hail a cab, point to where I wanted to go and I was brought there. Easy peasy. Hell I even ventured out again and went to some pretty cool places. By the time I left Seoul, I could speak about 10 Korean phrases that would assist me in my travels.


Could she not find a book store and get a translation dictionary? We are talking about 25 years here, not 1 day.
#22 Feb 09 2007 at 11:11 AM Rating: Decent
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Buy a map with what? She had no idea where she was. Probably spent all of her money on the 2 buses. Was begging so she could eat. Probably didn't have any formal education. It sounds stupid to us yes. Wouldn't be surprised if she didn't have a phone number to call, can't look one up because you're 2000km from home and none of your relatives are in the phone book. Could you walk 2000km with no food, no possessions, unable to communicate with anyone and not even knowing which direction to go? When you're 51 years old? Would you even risk it? You can't pickup the language because you're a homeless bum that noone will talk to. You get put in a homeless shelter with homeless people who won't talk to you because they don't understand you, therefore you don't learn the language.

It's not like the states or Canada where you can pick up the phone, dial 911 and say "I'm F'd help me".
#24 Feb 09 2007 at 11:54 AM Rating: Decent
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Buy a map with what? She had no idea where she was. Probably spent all of her money on the 2 buses. Was begging so she could eat. Probably didn't have any formal education. It sounds stupid to us yes. Wouldn't be surprised if she didn't have a phone number to call, can't look one up because you're 2000km from home and none of your relatives are in the phone book. Could you walk 2000km with no food, no possessions, unable to communicate with anyone and not even knowing which direction to go? When you're 51 years old? Would you even risk it? You can't pickup the language because you're a homeless bum that noone will talk to. You get put in a homeless shelter with homeless people who won't talk to you because they don't understand you, therefore you don't learn the language.

It's not like the states or Canada where you can pick up the phone, dial 911 and say "I'm F'd help me".


I'm sorry but 25 years makes you a ******. If you really wanted to get home you could. I think she just lacked the motivation to get back home. The only reason they knew where she came from was because some student that knew her language just happened to hear her singing? If it wasn't for that she would have been gone longer, stupid *****.

If you was lost in a country where nobody spoke your language and you didn't understand anyone I'm pretty sure you'd at least in a year learn some basics of their language to get by. I'm sure if she really tried then she could have gotten back. Draw, scream, whatever there's other ways to communicate.
#26 Feb 09 2007 at 12:05 PM Rating: Good
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Yea just look at the movie Terminal with Tom Hanks. He totally learned english fine in like a year. If it can happen in the movies, it can happen in real life.
You do realize that Terminal was based on a true story right? Fucking tool. Smiley: disappointed
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