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Pensive, are you thinking about hurting yourself?
Nah
But the point is that if you're going to start with the premise that someone is attempting to actually end thier life, it is not only dismissive but also quite fallacious to blame the sh*t on Simple Plan. There is something very, very @#%^ed up in the mindset and the logic of someone that has found themselves in a situation in which they can see absolutely no other choice than to kill themselves. A person like that is not thinking rationally; a person like that should not be derided because of some notion that it all arises from some stupid trend of culture. Maybe they should be derided by letting thier logic and perspective fail so horribly that they can no longer find any value in life, or hell maybe they have just been reading too much Dostoyevsky, but it's just foolish to flippantly claim the culture is the sole cause of a problem, and argue something along the lines of "well damn in my day this sh*t didn't happen, damn all that new music!"
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Do NOT be a friend to your kids (they have enough of those)
put your FOOT DOWN and be their PARENTS
The younger you instill that idea on their heads the better
If all problems with youth were merely behavior then perhaps this would suffice to fix things. They aren't, and it doesn't.
When a kid has emotional angst, percieved soundly or not, thier friends in high school, especially middle school, and especially if you're a guy, are the last people that you want to be running to crying and leaning upon.
Edited, Feb 8th 2007 10:19am by Pensive