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#1 Dec 07 2006 at 5:33 PM Rating: Excellent
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Man dies trying to save wife and kids

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Despite those conditions, authorities said, he covered about 10 miles before succumbing in the ravine where rescuers found his body on Wednesday about noon (3 p.m. ET).

"It seems superhuman to me that he was able to cover that amount of distance given what he had and also that he had nine days in the car" before setting out, Josephine County Undersheriff Brian Anderson said.


So, what would you have done? The same? Have a better idea? Etc?

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#2 Dec 07 2006 at 5:46 PM Rating: Decent
Would have stuck with the family. The more body warmth in the car, the better the chances of survival for everyone. The worst the blizzard could have done was last longer than a week.

Oh, and I never go on long road trips without a fully charged cell phone.. I don't want to trivialize the suffering or plight of his family or anything, but the guy did work for CNET for crying out loud.

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#3 Dec 07 2006 at 6:00 PM Rating: Good
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I never go on long road trips without a fully charged cell phone


QFT - I also have a cel phone battery charger for the car as well. Yeah, this is a huge front page story here in the bay area. It's a damn shame but he died trying to do what he thought was best for his family. It's a tough call to make and I hope to never be put in that sort of situation - but if I was, I'd hope that I had good cel coverage for wherever I was lost.

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#4 Dec 07 2006 at 6:07 PM Rating: Decent
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So, what would you have done? The same? Have a better idea? Etc?

I wouldn't have gotten my family lost in the backwoods of Oregon.

In the event that it did happen, however, I would have dismantled the car to make shelter and lived off the land. There must be plenty of hardwood, small and large game in the area. They could have lived for weeks like that!
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#5 Dec 07 2006 at 6:25 PM Rating: Decent
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The thing is that pretty much the exact same thing happened in the same area last year.

A family got snowed in on some back road and I am pretty sure that they all survived. I suppose it helped that they were stranded in an RV and at least had some food around.

Personally, if I was driving in an unfamiliar area, it was snowing pretty hard and I missed the cutoff, I would probably take the next exit and then turn around and get back on the highway instead of trying to take some back roads.
#6 Dec 07 2006 at 7:14 PM Rating: Good
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The guy did everything wrong in the book, whereas his wife did everything right. Every survival guide states you stay by your vehicle and wait it out. The part I don't understand is why he lost his pants...

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#7 Dec 07 2006 at 7:22 PM Rating: Decent
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The guy did everything wrong in the book, whereas his wife did everything right. Every survival guide states you stay by your vehicle and wait it out. The part I don't understand is why he lost his pants...

Exposure-related delirium?
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#8 Dec 07 2006 at 9:25 PM Rating: Decent
A GPS might have been a good idea.
#9 Dec 07 2006 at 10:18 PM Rating: Good
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If I spent 9 days stranded in a winter storm in a car with my family and had to burn all the tires just to have enough warmth to survive, I can honestly say that I have no idea what I would have done. After a while, I think I would be pretty desperate to find help for my family, so the temptation to head out to look for help would be very strong. If the weather conditions were that bad and they were in such a remote area, I doubt that their cell phone even worked.

After 9 days of surviving with minimal warmth, crackers and berries, I doubt I could have made a 10 mile trek through snowy mountainous terrain, that's for sure.




Edited, Dec 8th 2006 12:21am by senorcoconut
#10 Dec 07 2006 at 10:18 PM Rating: Good
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The part I don't understand is why he lost his pants...

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I blame hillbilly yetis.


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Totem wrote:
The part I don't understand is why he lost his pants...
I blame hillbilly yetis.
Damn it. I was about to answer "Sasquatch".

The thing to do in those situations is to cut open your tauntaun for shelter. In all reality, it is a shame. I won't attack or defend his choices but I will say that he was obviously driven to find help for his family.
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#12 Dec 07 2006 at 10:49 PM Rating: Excellent
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Yeah, I dunno. From here it looked like a clear mistake; but I wasn't the guy sitting in a car with his wife and two hungry kids four days after getting stuck.

I mean, once you've burned the tires for heat you're going to be thinking, "I've got to get us out of here."

Cold and hunger do weird things to people. I've read that a person who's freezing to death actually feels overly warm at some point, and would tend to try to take off clothing if able. I forget where I read that, now.

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#13 Dec 08 2006 at 2:17 AM Rating: Decent
I would've started eating the kids. The youngest first... Cos like, you can always make new ones.

Whereas if you eat the wife first, then you're kinda screwed...
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#14 Dec 08 2006 at 3:02 AM Rating: Decent
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The part I don't understand is why he lost his pants...


From the news reports, I'v heard and read. After a few miles out, after leaving his car and family. Police stated they found bear tracks following his tracks. Perhaps there was a chase. So maybe he knew the bear was after him, and tried to distract his predator by tossing his pants away, then cutting into the woods.

Risky actions if so, or he may have gone nutz from the hunger, cold, and pressure to find help. Either way, a raw way to go. To bad he was a mile from his family.

I would have stayed with the car, the shelter. His wife has breast milk, snow makes water, and they can suck and eat foliage. As well as attemping to hunt.

Also maybe his wife badgered him to go out for help...


edit: I also heard that the family was only found because of an item he dropped accidentally. On his way to find help. So do you think Hero, is a worthy title?



Edited, Dec 8th 2006 6:28am by SothsayerAtlantis
#15 Dec 08 2006 at 7:04 AM Rating: Decent
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According to ABC News this morning, he was very close to a fishing lodge that was stocked with plenty of food. So sad.
#16 Dec 08 2006 at 7:14 AM Rating: Excellent
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edit: I also heard that the family was only found because of an item he dropped accidentally. On his way to find help. So do you think Hero, is a worthy title?


I'm not sure he "accidentally" dropped much. He left stuff in such a way that it would be found - hung onto limbs where it wouldn't get covered with snow, etc.

The pants were originally reported to be one of two pairs he had with him, so I assumed he got wet and changed out of the damp ones and left them as a clue rather than carry them. But I dunno!

They were found because the phone signal, though not strong enough to carry a call, was strong enough to act as a beacon. Also Mrs. Kim got out of the car when she heard helicopters and waved an umbrella, which a search team eventually saw.

What he did was heroic, but stupid. It bothers me that the papers are saying "heroic" without adding a qualifier that this is not the best course of action under these circumstances. All people are hearing about is how brave he was; and he was - but he was also misguided at best.

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#17 Dec 08 2006 at 7:25 AM Rating: Good
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He dropped the clothing hoping rescuers would follow his trail. He waited almost a week in the car and I suppose 6 24-hour days of doing nothing much will wear on your psyche. He probably thought they would all die, and at least he wanted to try to do something.

They also drove a back road all night, then slept in the car (and subsequently got snowed in) instead of getting a hotel room. I don't get that.
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#19 Dec 08 2006 at 7:33 AM Rating: Good
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When we drive to VA, I'm filling the entire car with army rations.
Thankfully, it's all populated.

There's city folk and country folk, and BOY AM I EVER the former. I was never more scared for my life than driving through Wells, Nevada at 9pm one night----pitch black and nothing, not even signage, for miles and miles. I couldn't sleep because the crickets were screaming. Put me in downtown traffic in NY or DC though, and I get all sleepy like a contented baby.
#20 Dec 08 2006 at 7:39 AM Rating: Decent
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They also drove a back road all night, then slept in the car (and subsequently got snowed in) instead of getting a hotel room. I don't get that.



" Why bother stopping, honey? Let's just get there already!"


" I need to go to the bathroom!"

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#21 Dec 08 2006 at 8:57 AM Rating: Excellent
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Yeah, the first bad decision was pushing on in unfamiliar territory after dinner with an Internet map as their only guide.

Pretty sad all around.

Celcio once loaned me a book about how (and why) some people survive mishaps and some make bad decisions and die. I'll have to get another copy; it was really interesting reading.

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#22 Dec 08 2006 at 9:30 AM Rating: Decent
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Yeah, the first bad decision was pushing on in unfamiliar territory after dinner with an Internet map as their only guide.

Pretty sad all around.

Celcio once loaned me a book about how (and why) some people survive mishaps and some make bad decisions and die. I'll have to get another copy; it was really interesting reading.



If you get it in an audio version you can listen to it while you are trapped in your car.
#23 Dec 08 2006 at 9:51 AM Rating: Excellent
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Yeah, but with my luck it would go like this:

AudioTapeNarrator: The most important thing to remember, above ALL ELSE, if you're going to survive this catastrophe, is DO NOT, EVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUM *fizzle* car battery dies

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#24 Dec 08 2006 at 10:02 AM Rating: Decent
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Right or Wrong I'd have done the same thing, or something similar.

Some of these are assumtions to help explain the mood:

6 days in a car, you've fed your kids all of the crackers and berries.
Your wife is running out of breastmilk because she's starving.
You haven't eaten or slept for days
You're out of gas
You've burned every flammable item you have, including your car tires.
Wood won't light because it's too wet and cold.
Now you're running out of lighter fluid.
You have nothing to hunt with (no tire iron won't help you're not that fast), no tools to make a weapon, and no heat to cook anything you catch anyways.
As far as you know, NO ONE is looking for you.
Snow turns into water...but only if you have heat.
You're not going to eat the snow because you're already freezing.
Now you're watching your children dehydrate, starve and freeze to death.

I'd have started walking LONG before day 6...like day 2 after I realized I couldn't dig the car out, while I still had some strength left, and in the direction I came from so I knew what to expect.
#25 Dec 08 2006 at 10:15 AM Rating: Decent
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Yeah, the first bad decision was pushing on in unfamiliar territory after dinner with an Internet map as their only guide.


Actually, the map is probably the worst, saddest detail of this whole story. Had he used an Oregon DOT map, it would have shown that road as being impassible in winter, but national maps like Rand McNally and whatnot don't.

This family has actually been on my mind a lot. A wife losing her husband and two children losing their father is tragic whenever, but for it to happen right before the holidays just twists the knife a bit.

#26 Dec 08 2006 at 10:20 AM Rating: Excellent
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Chances are pretty good that he used his laptop to access MapQuest.

The Rand McNally map has it as a logging road, apparently:

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