Gladestrider wrote:
Oh, but it does matter what I think. I resent walking on eggshells and being made to feel somehow responsible by association for a problem I neither created nor contribute to (until this thread...). I have never used the "N" word, or any other racial slur, nor do I have any desire to.
If you haven't, then don't feel guilt by association. It's that simple. Whites taking ownership of guilt that doesn't belong to them is as tired as whites who use the n-word and insist it has no power. It's simply the way the cookie crumbles, and you resent adapting to it because your status has never required you to. It's natural, but pointless.
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As far as the "Black Experience" goes, I agree that it certainly exists and effects an entire population that one can't understand unless a part of. This still does not change the fact that people are overly sensitive to this word, and words in general. No amount of telling me that my opinion is moot will change this fact.
It's not a fact. It is, by your own admission, an opinion. Until a Board of Butthurtness Certification is put in place, no one has the last word on what hurts who, and why, unless it's the person him/herself.