Everyone in the thread so far wrote:
A lot of interesting points and arguements
sermon on
So I just spent the last 30 minutes reading thru this thread and thought it appropriate my first post in The Asylum be in a thread like this.
First of all, a little backstory.
I was a lazy piece of **** for a good long while, to the point of being homeless because I refused to get a job. I was homeless during a winter in montana, and it regularly got to -0 at night, and the only way to stay warm was to keep moving. I had to steal to eat most of the time. Loads of fun.
I also came from a broken home filled with drug abuse and physical abuse. I also managed to ***** up college not once but twice. Sucks to be me, life goes on.
I am, however, doing very well for myself right now and have for sometime. And oddly enough, the life changing factor for me, was the conception of my beautiful 7yr old daughter. I became a completely different man when I found out I was gonna be a father. I have a great job and have a LOT of very nice toys. Despite all the previous things in my life. My kids are well taken care of, healthy, happy, and educated as well as they can be at this point in their lives.
On the one side of the arguement, if I had never become a father, I would most likely have died on the streets and/or developed a drug addiction and/or ended up in prison. I was worthless and I knew it and simply refused to do better. This may or may not be the same situation for others and I am far from the only person to have been in my situation. But this is how mine has worked out so far.
I am for helping others and I think it is completely assinine not to. But, I also grew up in a VERY poor county and over 80% of the county is on state/federal aid. These are families that are 2nd, 3rd, 4th generation welfare people. They honestly don't care that they don't have to work every day and are fine with it. They buy steak at the grocery store, have 4 dogs, 3 kids, and a fleet of broken cars on their lawn. Their kids are unruly, uneducated, unkept, and none the wiser. My neighbors growing up had 2 kids, and when they went to school their first day of kindergarten during lunch they had to be taught how to use a fork and spoon because they had never seen them before.
Guess what, these aren't sloven uneducated blacks, or mexicans, or any other minority, they are white. White trash in the simplest form. Along with the rest of the county. My point is worthless knows no color nor does it care. Some of us move on, some of us don't. There is no global fix for worthless. If they want help, they can get it, if they don't want help, they won't. As much as we would like to help everyone we can, we can't.
I could honestly go on forever about this but it is 3 oclock and I am going home to my 3 tvs, my leather couch, my 2 pc's and have a beer.
/sermon off