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#27 Nov 09 2006 at 10:29 PM Rating: Excellent
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When we say "marriage", more than not, we think of a holy union in the name of god am I right?.
The state doesn't. The vows don't mean shit to the government. It's all about the secular paperwork.
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#28 Nov 09 2006 at 10:34 PM Rating: Good
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You mean like gay people being able to apply the same legal standards of marriage as striaght people being related in any way to religion?


I'm not discussing it for the legal stand point of the situation. They're people with hopes and wishes like the rest of us, and it is not my place to stand in the way of that.

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"Marriage", in the eyes of the State, is a contract between two parties concerning itself mainly with joint property ownership.


Again, it is not the state and it's policies in which I am concerned about.

It is the trampeling of faith that I see as the problem in the discussion.

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Because recognizing gay marriage wouldn't force churches to accept marrying anyone, and people on death row can get married even though they've probably committed a few sins, along with Atheists who are probably sinning by worshiping the false idol of science or something.


Now that's an argument I hadn't thought of yet. Thanks for a good mind jog :D

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Nope, but I'm sure you are stupid enough to think you are.


So, in a discussion outside of political agenda, nobody in the world has faith or even believes there is such a thing as "religious union"?

Delusional? I say excentric

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#29 Nov 09 2006 at 10:36 PM Rating: Decent
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Sorcath wrote:
Marriage is a popularized biblical ceremony; binding the souls of a male and female in holy matrimony under the name of "god". Only a male and female may enter such a union in his name, for homosexuality is a sin in his eyes.
To marry is to combine, connect, or join so as to make more efficient, attractive, or profitable, or to cause (food, liquor, etc.) to blend with other ingredients, or (of two or more foods, wines, etc.) to combine suitably or agreeably; blend, aside from the modern definition to take as a husband or wife; take in marriage.

Marriage is simply to marry.


A simple, all encompassing definition of "marry", is simply "join together". This can be applied to inanimate objects - foods, furniture, and whatnot... This idea that marriage is only between a man and a woman is completely ignorant to this. If I can marry two pieces of wood...

Inanimate objects can be married... anything can be married...


This man and a woman crap is absurdity at its finest.

P.S. This post is stupid, because arguing semantics is stupid, but when push comes to shove, my semantics > your semantics.

Edited, Nov 9th 2006 at 10:54pm PST by ThePalace
#30 Nov 09 2006 at 10:37 PM Rating: Excellent
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Sorcath wrote:
It is the trampeling of faith that I see as the problem in the discussion.
That's everyone's point. There IS no faith issue because what the government calls marriage and what the Church calls marriage are two different things. Hence you needing to fill out government forms for your religious vows to be legal.
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#31 Nov 09 2006 at 10:41 PM Rating: Decent
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I'm not religious, but asking for gay marriage seems like an open attack against most monotheistic religions.


Clearly. Just like interacial marrige was.

Back to the clan rally, Jetro.


Uh, thanks for making a connection that absolutely isn't there? That was about the most random insult I've seen here yet. Try sticking within the subject next time please.

Interracial marriage has nothing to do with the subject, and to that matter, has been an active part of marriage for centuries across the globe.


Actually, there is a relationship here. You do realize that interracial marriages were illegal for several hundred years in the US right? You might find this wiki entry interesting.

In Loving v. Virginia, the Supreme Court wrote -

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Marriage is one of the 'basic civil rights of man,' fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law.


So, what's the difference between interracial marriage and gay people marrying?

Edited, Nov 9th 2006 at 10:44pm PST by kundalini
#32 Nov 09 2006 at 10:41 PM Rating: Good
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understand that Christianity and such religions are a collective hodge podge of previous faiths collected in effort to sway conversion, and along those lines marriage is an adopted portion(not wholly a monotheistic creation.


If you're going to dig that deep, then I wouldn't equate marriage with religion any more than I would equate farming with religion. Marriage back in early days was a political affair. Everything back in those days had the Religion sprinkled over it. The Religions attachment to marriage is a last attempt to claim something else that should be wholly secular.

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That's not my argument and nor does that partain to modern days. Tell me, what is the percentage of those participating in the faiths they adopted?

So in a large world we work by majority. When we say "marriage", more than not, we think of a holy union in the name of god am I right?.



By association. I would argue and say that people think more of Church. i would go further to argue that MORE people probably think more along the lines of money, moneypolitics, money.

If you choose to think of it as a Christian monothieistic fairy tale, then go right ahead, just don't tell me how think of it.
and I'm not gay.


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Businesses don't have an infinite source of income, especially since 75% of Americas employment is done by small time businesses.


yeah, so they still will be. and then new smaller buisnesses will pop up to get swallowed by the larger ones who are hungry and it's all a nice proper little foodchain of capitalism.
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#33 Nov 09 2006 at 10:49 PM Rating: Decent
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Jophiel wrote:
Sorcath wrote:
When we say "marriage", more than not, we think of a holy union in the name of god am I right?.

The state doesn't. The vows don't mean Shit to the government. It's all about the secular paperwork.


Sig'd because imo that is entirely what it boils down to. You can have a fancy wedding with three hundred guests and a great caterer. After it's all done though, you still have to go to the courthouse and fill out the papers.

Religion should not come into play with government decisions. We should be past the "In God we trust" part of our history.

Edited, Nov 9th 2006 at 10:53pm PST by Paskil
#34 Nov 09 2006 at 10:49 PM Rating: Good
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Jophiel wrote:
That's everyone's point. There IS no faith issue because what the government calls marriage and what the Church calls marriage are two different things. Hence you needing to fill out government forms for your religious vows to be legal.


Ok, well maybe it's my extreme views of having no connection between church and state why I'm not getting this, but I find the idea utterly propostirous.

I mean, I know that you have to fill out government forms to be legaly married, but hell, it's ridiculous.

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Actually, there is a relationship here. You do realize that interracial marriages were illegal for several hundred years in the US right? You might find this wiki entry interesting.


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Interracial marriage has nothing to do with the subject, and to that matter, has been an active part of marriage for centuries across the globe.


Kelvy wrote:
Marriage back in early days was a political affair. Everything back in those days had the Religion sprinkled over it.


Now I wouldn't say that.
#35 Nov 09 2006 at 10:56 PM Rating: Good
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aren't Wiccan marriages legal?
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#36 Nov 09 2006 at 10:59 PM Rating: Decent
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Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
aren't Wiccan marriages legal?
Yup. I hear Athiests are marrying too.
#37 Nov 09 2006 at 11:01 PM Rating: Good
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Kelvy wrote:
aren't Wiccan marriages legal?


I wouldn't know.

But I'm done with the subject. A new light has been shed to the discussion and I realize now that marriage isn't as ideologically based as I had romanticized it being.

I guess if there's some way for a government to stick their greedy paws into something, they'll figure a way to do so.
#38 Nov 09 2006 at 11:03 PM Rating: Good
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ThePalace wrote:
Kelvyquayo the Irrelevant wrote:
aren't Wiccan marriages legal?
Yup. I hear Athiests are marrying too.


I bet the Pope ain't too happy about that.
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#39 Nov 09 2006 at 11:06 PM Rating: Good
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I bet the Pope ain't too happy about that.


The pope looks like he's in the Sith
#40 Nov 09 2006 at 11:08 PM Rating: Decent
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While we're at it, what's with the absurd idea that marriage is the province of monotheistic religions? Any Cultural Anthropology for Boneheads course will tell you that every culture on the planet has some form of marriage as part of their social structure, regardless of whether or not their society embraces a single diety, multiple dieties, or no diety at all.

At it's most basic (in aboriginal cultures) marriage the agreement which decides who has sexual access to whom, and may include polygynous unions, polyandrous unions, unions between men, unions between women, and anything in between, depending on what each individual society permits. In more politically structured societies, marriage also becomes a civic contract by which property distribution and inheritance is established. All of this happens regardless of the number of dieties embraced by any particular culture.

There are many cultures out there that allow for same-sex unions. Many cultures have means by which a person may choose to become transgendered, thus you have male "women" and female "men," who then perform the functions designated to their chosen sex within the society, including marrying someone of the (now) "opposite" sex. Some polygynous societies allow for a wife who is getting past her childbearing years to assume the role of a man and take a new wife, sexual access to whom she may or may not share with the husband to whom she is still married.

In some matrilineal cultures, a "marriage" comprises little more than sexual access. Husband and wife may procreate, but they live separately and most of the day-to-day functions of a husband (the providing of food and shelter and protection, and the rearing of any children the woman may have) are performed by the woman's brother.

The concept of marriage is ultimately a social convention, not a religious one.
#41 Nov 09 2006 at 11:34 PM Rating: Decent
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Good points. Genuine semantics is not on the religious extremists side, but they win with marketing. They manage to capture all their thoughts in eight words or less sound bites, and the only eight words or less retort possible is "you're an idiot", a comment which would backfire on anyone debating against them.
#42 Nov 09 2006 at 11:45 PM Rating: Good
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Ambrya wrote:
While we're at it, what's with the absurd idea that marriage is the province of monotheistic religions? Any Cultural Anthropology for Boneheads course will tell you that every culture on the planet has some form of marriage as part of their social structure, regardless of whether or not their society embraces a single diety, multiple dieties, or no diety at all.

At it's most basic (in aboriginal cultures) marriage the agreement which decides who has sexual access to whom, and may include polygynous unions, polyandrous unions, unions between men, unions between women, and anything in between, depending on what each individual society permits. In more politically structured societies, marriage also becomes a civic contract by which property distribution and inheritance is established. All of this happens regardless of the number of dieties embraced by any particular culture.

There are many cultures out there that allow for same-sex unions. Many cultures have means by which a person may choose to become transgendered, thus you have male "women" and female "men," who then perform the functions designated to their chosen sex within the society, including marrying someone of the (now) "opposite" sex. Some polygynous societies allow for a wife who is getting past her childbearing years to assume the role of a man and take a new wife, sexual access to whom she may or may not share with the husband to whom she is still married.

In some matrilineal cultures, a "marriage" comprises little more than sexual access. Husband and wife may procreate, but they live separately and most of the day-to-day functions of a husband (the providing of food and shelter and protection, and the rearing of any children the woman may have) are performed by the woman's brother.

The concept of marriage is ultimately a social convention, not a religious one.


Good point.
#43 Nov 10 2006 at 6:41 AM Rating: Excellent
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Yes, it is. I know, because I've made it before.

Probably too succinctly, though.
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#44 Nov 11 2006 at 8:47 PM Rating: Default
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It's nice to see that the ***-backwards, bible thumping, hypocritical cousin ******* are getting pimpslapped by people with half a clue.


/points at Michigan

Nice that you finally admit y'all were racist reactionaries. Unapologetic, R-A-C-I-S-T-S. And you can take that, to the Constitution.

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voters took a "swipe" at affirmative action


Talk about understatement, say hello to my new, leaner than gay murriage, friendly amendment. Bye bye Bill.
#45 Nov 11 2006 at 9:16 PM Rating: Good
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More to the point, why is this board so singularly fixated on ratifying gay marriage? What's funny is that you guys are pointing Arizona as if the repudiation of their proposition reaffirms your position that America is coming around to your way of thinking. The truth is that had the proposition been worded differently, it'd have been voted for in a landslide-- something on the order of 60% or more, placing Arizona firmly in among the many other states which went ahead and made marriage an institution between a man and a woman.

I hate to break it to you, but all this "common sense" you guys are trumpting about the Dems taking back Congress and America seeing the light about liberal policies does not translate to gays getting marital benefits outside of the domestic partnerships that some states have allowed.

Get used to it. Homosexuality is not considered a normal lifestyle regardless how much you wish it to be so. I'd go so far as to say that the more you politic for it to happen, the more you are hurting your cause. It'd be far more effective to just let things lie and let people get used to the idea of homosexuality through the traditional venues of Hollywood, fashion, interior decorating, and art studios. Jamming your ideas in America's face has been as good of an idea as teabagging straights with ****'s nutsacks.

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#46 Nov 11 2006 at 9:26 PM Rating: Default
Not to mention Brokeback Asylum is cumming to a post near you! It's the steamy story of the forbidden "ugly" love between right and left. /smooches
#47 Nov 11 2006 at 9:40 PM Rating: Good
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The fight against gay marriage has nothing to do with religion, or some bs sacred holy union. It's hard to believe people actually buy that argument.
#48 Nov 11 2006 at 9:48 PM Rating: Default
Uh maybe because it isn't a fight 'against' gay marriage, but a fight of 'gay' marriage *against* 'sans all adjective' marriage[Z]? Since when was marriage 'qualified'? And for Bonus Points, Why?
#49 Nov 11 2006 at 9:58 PM Rating: Good
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All of which misses the point. Gay marriage is unacceptable to the vast majority of Americans. Dislike it all you want, but your desire to see homos get state sanctioned marriages isn't going to happen any time soon. And the more you shove it in their faces means you are setting back your cause rather than lowkeying it into our culture by the tried-and-true method of subliminating it by the entertainment media.

This just shows how little gays and gay rights advocates pay attention to human nature. The more you force someone to accept you, the less they are apt to do so just out of stubborness. Give it a rest.

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#50REDACTED, Posted: Nov 11 2006 at 10:06 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Black lipstick too has its fashion cycles. You err by assuming they care about [voluntary] 'acceptance' as opposed to enforced 'tolerance'. How else does Power form? Nice to see the Circus back, Political betting websites headlining this year's colloseium (sp?) action.
#51 Nov 11 2006 at 10:31 PM Rating: Good
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No, you are making the wrong assumptions, Mono. States are ratifying pro-hetero laws left and right. 'Zona will be the next one just as soon as they change the wording on the proposal. This isn't an issue of fashions going in and out of style, it's a matter of straights making their point. They overwhelmingly want marriage to be an institution that is comprised of a male and a female.

Just based on sheer numbers, gays have an uphill battle to win this.

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