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Sorry to hear it Debalic. If I would have known I would have tanked my team so you could get a win, no, no I wouldn't.
Brill wrote:
Sorry to hear it Debalic. If I would have known I would have tanked my team so you could get a win, no, no I wouldn't.
Well it didn't have to be a complete blowout.
publiusvarus wrote:
we all know liberals are well adjusted american citizens who only want what's best for society. While conservatives are evil money grubbing scum who only want to sh*t on the little man and rob the world of its resources.
Atomicflea wrote:
I think that it's different for every person that grieves over someone, in that they associate a smell, or a place, or an event with that person more so than any other thing, and that's what would be hardest for them to get over. <snip> Grief is an individual thing. What may you feel better may make her feel worse. She'll move on in time. It's been nowhere near long enough.
/nod
On the other hand, if you want to be superstitious like my family, you're feeling those strange sensations because your father's ghost is trying to connect with you. My family can give some stories of very odd happenings and events after someone in our family has died.
Oh, my mom is convinced that my dad haunts her house. I say whatever gets you through the night, it's allright, it's allright (thanks John!).
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
To the original poster. What your feeling is just part of the recovery process. I'd say your still in denial, or maybe even bargaining. I know i spent, what felt like, several years of my life in the bagaining stage. But acceptance comes in time.
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
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To the original poster. What your feeling is just part of the recovery process. I'd say your still in denial, or maybe even bargaining. I know i spent, what felt like, several years of my life in the bagaining stage. But acceptance comes in time.
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
I fail to see what I'm "bargaining" over. My father's passing away is something we had been preparing for for about two years since he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I just said that sometimes I felt strange going into the room. What you posted doesn't make much sense to me. But my thanks for your condolensces regardless.
Tare wrote:
Oh, my mom is convinced that my dad haunts her house.
My family is convinced that something haunts my parents' house. Strange things happens all the time in a couple of specific rooms and everyone refuses to sleep in the downstairs den. My brother swears that he's been bothered in some fashion by a spirit/ghost/etc. Myself, I've had no problems.
The 'frathouse' I lived at was rumored to be haunted, specifically my room in the top (attic) floor. I did notice what the previous inhabitant feared: a faint rhythmic thumping sound from the walls. I also noticed that it started happening sometime in late October or early November, persisted all throughought the winter and stopped sometime in April. This prompted me to point out when the heating gets turned on every year. 
publiusvarus wrote:
we all know liberals are well adjusted american citizens who only want what's best for society. While conservatives are evil money grubbing scum who only want to sh*t on the little man and rob the world of its resources.
Give your mom time.
My dad had us go through my mom's clothes the week she pass away. It took us 5 years though to get to where we finally went through the jewelry. Worst time is the weeks around when she pass away, 9/1/01. While everyone else is thinking of 9/11 I'm remembering my mom.
I still expect her to just walk into the room, when I visit my dad.
Thumbelyna, I know there were a few houses on base that were said to be haunted when I lived there. Hangings ect. ect. Knowing Nancy Steelman, I'm sure the house across from where I lived would, have been very creepy place to have live in, for most families.
She made my life hell, so I can't blame John too much for killing her.
My dad had us go through my mom's clothes the week she pass away. It took us 5 years though to get to where we finally went through the jewelry. Worst time is the weeks around when she pass away, 9/1/01. While everyone else is thinking of 9/11 I'm remembering my mom.
I still expect her to just walk into the room, when I visit my dad.
Thumbelyna, I know there were a few houses on base that were said to be haunted when I lived there. Hangings ect. ect. Knowing Nancy Steelman, I'm sure the house across from where I lived would, have been very creepy place to have live in, for most families.
She made my life hell, so I can't blame John too much for killing her.
In the place of a Dark Lord you would have a Queen! Not dark but beautiful and terrible as the Morn! Treacherous as the Seas! Stronger than the foundations of the Earth! All shall love me and despair! -ElneClare
This Post is written in Elnese, If it was an actual Post, it would make sense.
This Post is written in Elnese, If it was an actual Post, it would make sense.
PackyMcStout wrote:
To the original poster. What your feeling is just part of the recovery process. I'd say your still in denial, or maybe even bargaining. I know i spent, what felt like, several years of my life in the bagaining stage. But acceptance comes in time.
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
My condolences to Brill and Debalic.
Stage 1: Denial
Stage 2: Anger
Stage 3: Bargaining
Stage 4: Depression
Stage 5: Acceptance
Holy hell, someone's been watching too much Dr. Phil.
What's bred in the bone will not out of the flesh.
Sorry to hear this, Debalic.
Sorry to hear about that, Brill and Debalic. Yeah, I'm a bit behind.
There are three things that creep me out. No, well, there are a lot of things that creep me out, but those three things are high up on the list. Being in the same room as a newborn or a dying person and walking in a cemetary.
It just feels like the guy upstairs is watching, if you know what I mean. Like someone's paying extra attention to what's going on in that room. And out on the cemetary it's like I can feel the life experience of all the buried people.
I'm not very religious, but in those moments it's like receiving an epiphany of some sorts. Like you find a connection in existance or some other poetic BS like that.
Perhaps it's all the energies and emotions floating around in the air. Perhaps I'm just borderline psychopathic.
Anyways, I don't know if I could set foot in a room that had belonged to a deceased loved one. And I don't blame anyone for not wanting to stay in a house where the spouse spent his/her last days on Earth. Personally, I would move out and find something new. To start life over in a sense.
There are three things that creep me out. No, well, there are a lot of things that creep me out, but those three things are high up on the list. Being in the same room as a newborn or a dying person and walking in a cemetary.
It just feels like the guy upstairs is watching, if you know what I mean. Like someone's paying extra attention to what's going on in that room. And out on the cemetary it's like I can feel the life experience of all the buried people.
I'm not very religious, but in those moments it's like receiving an epiphany of some sorts. Like you find a connection in existance or some other poetic BS like that.
Perhaps it's all the energies and emotions floating around in the air. Perhaps I'm just borderline psychopathic.
Anyways, I don't know if I could set foot in a room that had belonged to a deceased loved one. And I don't blame anyone for not wanting to stay in a house where the spouse spent his/her last days on Earth. Personally, I would move out and find something new. To start life over in a sense.
Please "talk up" if your comprehension white-shifts. I will use simple-happy language-words to help you understand.
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