Grandfather Barkingturtle wrote:
I get there by following your rather uncharacteristic admission that perhaps Foley was actually seeding potential lovers before they were legal so that he could bed them once they came of age. To basically repeat what I said previously, he's excited by riding that boundary.
Ok. But the "boundary" we're talking about is the "legal age of consent". We're talking about the difference between an 18 year old and a 16 year old. My problem with your argument is that you somehow equate that to pulling down underroos and fondling their "hairless package". Unless you're trying to argue that 16 year olds are pre-adolescent, then your statement serves no logical purpose and exists only to toss a bit of cheap rhetoric into the issue.
This is like the 5th time I've made this exact same argument, and you seem to be blissfully unaware of it even now. Let's stop calling this something it isn't. He is *not* a pe
dophile. He is *not* attracted to pre-adolescent children. He is *not* a child molester. He is
at worse guilty of violating age of consent laws, and so far there's no evidence he did that either.
Can we please stop the rhetoric? Sheesh!
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Do you think that's because he isn't attracted to younger than legal lovers? Has nothing to do with him being a gay man, if a straight dude flirts with jail-bait to facilitate a someday legal hook-up, I'm calling kid-toucher. Whether any law is broken or not doesn't matter, the very fact that he's excited by the situation is enough of an indicator of what will occur if the behavior is left unchecked.
Slippery slope, right? You're assuming that because he's attracted to young male teens that even though we have no evidence that he's done anything illegal, we should assume that he has? And perhaps assume he's done worse (your "kid toucher" phrase, which again implies child molestation).
As to him riding the edge of the law, isn't that why we have laws? Somewhat by definition as long as someone stays on the legal side of that legal boundary, they are not in violation of the law. Yeah. Should be obvious, but it seems like you might not understand that. What it shows is that he is making a conscious decision to abide by the rules of the land. We can't go around arresting people because we think they might like to do something illegal, but have chosen not to *only* becuase it's not legal.
I might enjoy smoking pot every once in awhile. I don't smoke pot because it's illegal. If it were legal, I would likely smoke it at a party occasionally. Should I be vilified for making that statement? I don't think so. Should I be considered a "criminal" because there are some things I might like to do but *dont* because they're illegal? Again. I don't think so. And I think if you stop to think about it, you don't think so either.
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I don't think you understand: it is not okay to think little girls or boys are sexy, it's just not right to sexualize them, at all. If you think it is natural for a grown man to fantasize about a potential sex partner because they are biologically an adult, whatever the fUck you mean by that, then you have a problem, and I can help you find help.
Hehe. May I make an observation here?
Ever notice that the absolute only context in which a 16 year old male will *ever* be referred to as a "little boy" is when someone like you is attempting to demonize someone like Foley?
It would be funny if this kind of thing wasn't so predictable...