Over this story Short version of the convo:
Me: Continuous year long deployments can be hard on a marriage.
Her: Any marriage is hard.
Me: Very true, I just think deployments and not seeing your husband for year long stints at a time would be added strain.
Her: Some crap about her first year of marriage and it being hard but she dealt with it.
Me: Agreeing, not saying we dont deal with, just saying its hard.
Her: We should always put a positive spin on it for the media.
Me: Boggle
Her: much gnashing of teeth and temper throwing