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#1 Oct 07 2006 at 2:12 PM Rating: Good
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About 2 1/2 years ago, we had rescued this chubby feral cat from the field behind my mother-in-law's house in San Francisco - it was love at first sight for me - we had always thought he was the father of my wife's cat, Pepe, as they were almost identical (except Pepe is a leaner cat). Pepe was raised indoor and outdoor after his mother (also feral) died. We fed this chubby cat daily while he was still feral - then we had to move back east. We knew we couldn't leave him behind.

So we named this chubby fellow, "Pappy" - We took him in, had him checked out at the vet's office and it turned out he had a few infected absesses in his mouth and he lost most of his teeth. If we hadn't rescued him, he would have died from it, the vet's told us at the time. So we felt good about that. We moved back east to Maryland and we looked forward to having Pappy as part of the family.

We had never taken in a feral cat before and we made some newb mistakes, but eventually, he became comfortable with us. While we were never at the point where we could pick him up, as his life on the streets made him nervous around people (especially when we were standing up), we could feed him treats and pet him. He and Pepe would constantly try to scam us for more treats. They would put on this cute little show of nuzzling each other that would melt the coldest of hearts. When he was comfortable enough to sleep in the middle of our home office on his back, snoozing away, with his tongue usually hanging out of his mouth due to his toothlessness while my wife and I were on our computers, we were very happy that he felt safe and comfortable in his new environment, our home.

2 years later, and another cross-country move back to California, Pappy, now 10 years old, hadn't been doing so well ever since we moved back. We attributed his withdrawn mood and behavior as still recovering from the cross country flight. I had jokingly called it at the time that he'd gone jungle rogue on us, having sort of reverted to his behavior when he first was brought into our home. The last few days he hadn't been eating, so I took him to the vet's yesterday and he was going to stay the night there for observation and they would run tests on him this morning.

I get a call from our wonderful vet at about 9:30am this morning and sadly, it turned out that Pappy had a huge tumor in his liver. It was too far spread and his skin was quite jaundiced (yellow). Some vets would try to bleed further money from us and give us false hope and simply prolong the cat's suffering. Fortunately, our vet was honest and had Pappy's best interest in mind and said that it would be best to put Pappy down to end his suffering, to which we agreed.

Pappy was under anaesthesia this whole time, so we got dressed in a hurry and drove over to the vet's office and said our final goodbyes to one of the most gentle and sweetest cats I'll ever know.

While we certainly wish Pappy to still be with us now, we take some comfort in the fact that we ended the agony that he was going through. So in a sense, we did rescue him one last time.

Funny thing, I've always been a dog person, but dammit if this wasn't a wonderful cat. Just an absolutely wonderful disposition.

Godspeed, sweet Pappy, we love you and will always remember and appreciate the short time we had together. Smiley: cry
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#2 Oct 07 2006 at 2:20 PM Rating: Good
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So. . .

Roasted or braised?
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#3 Oct 07 2006 at 2:26 PM Rating: Good
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/mourn Pappy Smiley: frown
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#4 Oct 07 2006 at 2:38 PM Rating: Good
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Stupid fuckers, I hate them.





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Edited, Oct 7th 2006 at 3:39pm PDT by GitSlayer
#5 Oct 07 2006 at 2:45 PM Rating: Decent
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Awww, Smoggy...you made me get all misty-eyed!

My cat is over 8 years old now, technically considered a senior. When she was 1-1/2 she had to have surgery for an intestinal obstruction (she didn't manage to cough up a hairball or pass it) that set us back $1K. At the time, we just hadn't had the heart to put down a very young cat who had a whole life ahead of her. Plus, she's just a very neat cat--pettable, well-socialized but still aloof enough to remind us that she is, after all, a cat, friendly, mouthy (yes, she talks back) energetic, occasionally funny in that "you've injured my sacrosanct feline dignity!" sorta way. She's really the ideal companion pet.

A couple weeks ago, she started vomiting and stopped eating and drinking and grooming herself the way she had when she had been sick with the Terminal Hairball, and we were desperately afraid she'd managed to get another blockage. Only this time, there's no way we could afford to do what we did before--even if the vet offered us a payment plan, we're a single-income household now with a lot more expenses.

I braced myself to try to wheel and deal with my husband to get him to agree to the expense, and he braced himself to be the bad guy and flat-out refuse, even though he loves that cat desperately (it was my idea to get her, but it quickly became obvious that she was his and he was hers--he'd never had a cat before, and eight years later, still not a day goes by when he doesn't remark on how great he thinks she is.)

In the end, it turned out to be an infection and a week of doing the "Give The Cat A Pill" dance later, she's back to her spunky (and thankfully well-groomed) self. But it was an uncomfortable reminder that she's on the downhill side of life and that someday, something's going to happen and we're going to have to say good-bye.

I'm sorry for your family's loss.



Edited, Oct 7th 2006 at 3:48pm PDT by Ambrya
#6 Oct 07 2006 at 4:01 PM Rating: Good
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Awwww........ I got misty eyed too. Smiley: frown
#7 Oct 07 2006 at 5:16 PM Rating: Good
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Bah, thanks for making me tear up. Smiley: cry
#8 Oct 07 2006 at 5:20 PM Rating: Decent
Sorry to hear you lost a loveable pet.
Pappy is ok now.
#9 Oct 07 2006 at 5:22 PM Rating: Decent
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Sucks to lose a pet like that. At least he's not in pain anymore.

Edited, Oct 7th 2006 at 6:24pm PDT by Driftwood
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#10 Oct 07 2006 at 5:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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It was a fUcking cat for Bob's sake!

Did Mandela choke to death on an Orio?

Did Dorothy die at the hands of an Axe-rapist at the end of "Teh w1z4rd of 0z"?

Did the Pope overdose on Ketamine?

I don't think so?

Pull yourself together Smog.

Bury it, burn it, cook it or sell it on eBay

And move on Smiley: oyvey
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#11 Oct 07 2006 at 5:31 PM Rating: Decent
Smoggy's dead cat is still better looking then your Queen, Nobby.
#12 Oct 07 2006 at 7:00 PM Rating: Good
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Thanks all for your kind words and I feel for you folks who have or had pets go through similar situations. It never gets easy. I'm glad I posted today since it helped me get through my grief.

I think my shock and grief was so powerful today because Pappy was really still in his prime/middle age for a cat. It just sucked that it sort of came out of left field - we thought he might have simply had a blockage issue. In any case, we're bummed about his death but also quite thankful for the time we had with him.

I thank you all again for helpful words, even Nobby, you magnificent ******* - a hearty GFY to you for making me laugh. Cheers, mate. I'm sure you would be feeling my pain more if Pappy was on Top Gear and had driven a rocket-propelled car that crashed... Smiley: tongue
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#13 Oct 07 2006 at 7:43 PM Rating: Good
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Did Dorothy die at the hands of an Axe-rapist at the end of "Teh w1z4rd of 0z"?


No?

Huh.

Which version have I been watching? Smiley: confused
#15 Oct 08 2006 at 6:09 PM Rating: Decent
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Mistress Nadenu wrote:
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Did Dorothy die at the hands of an Axe-rapist at the end of "Teh w1z4rd of 0z"?


No?

Huh.

Which version have I been watching? Smiley: confused


You've been watching "The Wizard of Oz", which is only 1/100th as l33t as "Teh w1z4rd of 0z". The latter was found to be far too ahead of its time for the current peoples of the world, and was placed in Nobby's time machine so that it may be recovered and properly revered by future generations.

We, unfortunately, shall never have the opportunity to revel in its greatness, so we simply must rely on Nobby's descriptions. Whether or not that is a good thing is up to you to decide.

All that it known about it from the current hints that have been given is that the Wizard is, in fact, a short stack of buttermilk pancakes, the yellow brick road is paved with the stuffings of a billion cute and fuzzy animals, the tin man (which is actually Barkingturtle in a future life) sodomizes the lion a total of 4 1/2 times, and the aforementioned incident with the axe-rapist. The rest is supplied by imagination.
#16 Oct 08 2006 at 6:24 PM Rating: Decent
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#17 Oct 09 2006 at 6:20 AM Rating: Good
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Don't mind Nobby. He's just very unfamiliar--and as a result uncomfortable and angry---with the concept of unconditional love.

Smoggy the Mighty wrote:
I think my shock and grief was so powerful today because Pappy was really still in his prime/middle age for a cat. It just sucked that it sort of came out of left field - we thought he might have simply had a blockage issue.
I felt this way when my dog died at 9, from shock. Something bit him when he ran away from his walk, and we never found out what, but it was 5am on a Monday and he died from shock and too much blood loss in my mother's arms, since we couldn't find an open vet. I think all the time about getting another dog, but I don't know if I could handle it. I still remember how cold he felt, and how guilty I was that something so small that depended on us was let down by the fact that we were too lazy to get up and put a leash on him that morning, and just let him out into the yard instead.

My current cat is 13 next Easter, and at my mother's in VA. I didn't want to put her through the stress of a move at her age. She's fine, walks with a little stiffness in the mornings, but, like Ambrya, I know someday I'll get the call that she's taking the big ol catnap in the sky. Although I joke about him a lot, Joph's cat Max is a total sweetheart, and he's the perfect comfort of the sort only a beloved pet can provide, and thankfully, still young.

In any case, suffering over a loss is, if anything, the reminder that you can love deeply and well. Who cares if what you love happens to be furry and four-legged?
#18 Oct 09 2006 at 7:01 AM Rating: Good
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Thanks ACEJester and Flea, I appreciate it. Smiley: smile
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#19 Oct 09 2006 at 7:16 AM Rating: Decent
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I liked you better when you got all butthurt for being ousted out of our uber WoW guild and didn't post.
#20 Oct 09 2006 at 12:09 PM Rating: Good
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I liked you better when you got all butthurt for being ousted out of our uber WoW guild and didn't post.


Really? Interesting revisionist history. Smiley: oyvey GFY Neph and troll somewhere else.

/ignore Douchebag Smiley: grin
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#21 Oct 09 2006 at 12:15 PM Rating: Good
That sucks Smoggy, sorry to hear it. Course, you now have a totally acceptable reason to turn to the wife and utter the magnificent phrase: Dear, I'm going out to get us some new pUssy.
#22 Oct 09 2006 at 12:47 PM Rating: Decent
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Smoggy the Mighty wrote:
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I liked you better when you got all butthurt for being ousted out of our uber WoW guild and didn't post.


Really? Interesting revisionist history. Smiley: oyvey GFY Neph and troll somewhere else.

/ignore Douchebag Smiley: grin


You heard it first. Neph the Marxist.

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#23 Oct 09 2006 at 1:17 PM Rating: Good
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Sorry about your lost Smoggy Smiley: frown

Jonwin's cat Mask, is at least 18 years old and may be as old as 20. When I moved in we got a second cat for my daugther and then she moved, so in came Tony and later Godiva, who were rescued by our vet. I found a home just doesn't feel right without a furry friend to love around.

Mask is a scary cat, and hides so much of the time, that one of my daugther had gone 6 years before ever seeing her, when we went to go though some of my mom's stuff in the basement. Someday I expect one of us will find her curl up on a pile of clothes and she be morn with all the other pets we had over the years.
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#24 Oct 09 2006 at 1:22 PM Rating: Good
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And she (Mask not Elne) will join the other 2 bodies in my back yard.



Yes two previous cats. Just dont tell the health commisioner.

Edit Elne reminded me there is a third cat buried in our yard. It was a feral that had been attacked and killed in our back yard. (One of our area folks had a dog trained in attack and sicced it on the cat.)

Edited, Oct 9th 2006 at 2:25pm PDT by Jonwin
#25 Oct 09 2006 at 2:34 PM Rating: Good
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Thanks BT for the kind words and making me laugh.

Elne and Jonwin, thanks for your kind words, much appreciated.

Of course, I understood I left myself open for the idiots of the forum to take cheap shots, and that's fine, I just laugh and ignore them - even random whines/Smiley: deadhorse from douchebags like Neph. The only thing that can be learned from idiots like this is how their true character shines through. In the end, they simply don't matter.

I also knew that as a community (whether we admit to being one or not), are usually here for each other when we go through crappy times. Thanks again for everyone who has helped cheer me up and just know that I'll be there for you guys when needed.

Cheers Smiley: boozing

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#26 Oct 09 2006 at 3:00 PM Rating: Decent
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Smoggy the Mighty wrote:

Of course, I understood I left myself open for the idiots of the forum to take cheap shots, and that's fine, I just laugh and ignore them - even random whines/Smiley: deadhorse from douchebags like Neph. The only thing that can be learned from idiots like this is how their true character shines through. In the end, they simply don't matter.

I also knew that as a community (whether we admit to being one or not), are usually here for each other when we go through crappy times. Thanks again for everyone who has helped cheer me up and just know that I'll be there for you guys when needed.

Cheers Smiley: boozing



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