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#52 Sep 01 2006 at 12:45 AM Rating: Decent
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The only one that really gets on my nerves is when you do something nice and you get cussed at. The other day on my way into Chem 5 I got to the door at the same time as a lady. I was on the side of the door that had the handle, so I opened it and did that little wave that says go ahead of me. She went in and said under her breath, but still loud enough for everyone around to hear, "chauvinist pig." Needless to say, I'll be slamming in the door in her face for the rest of the semester.




Hmm...would this be considered irony? Her calling you a chauvinist pig, yet still walking into Chem 5 before you.

Anyways, to put a bit of a twist on the topic, when exactly would everyone say that certain manners stop?

For example, it is considered gentleman like for a man to pay for everything when taking a woman out on a date. But, after that man and woman have been together for so long, do you feel certain things like that to even be neccessary anymore, and if not, would it be something that you would still enjoy?

I'm talking before marriage by the way. Once a couple gets married the whole "who pays for what" thing becomes void since both people are sharing the same income.
#53 Sep 01 2006 at 1:01 AM Rating: Decent
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Wow, no cell phone comments yet (unless I missed it).

I think I must be the only person on the planet without a cellphone. The major thing that gets me is the bus talkers. The people that answer or make calls on the bus. They talk very loud and usually have to get the other person to repeat themselves several times. This shit is beyond annoying at 6:30am when i'm still waking up and haven't had my coffee.

Pretty soon, kids will come out of the womb equipped with cellphones.
#54 Sep 01 2006 at 9:47 AM Rating: Good
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would this be considered irony? Her calling you a chauvinist pig, yet still walking into Chem 5 before you
No, that's called being a passive-aggressive puss who wants desperately to express herself but doesn't have the backbone to openly confront someone. Nothing ironic about it.

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I'm talking before marriage by the way. Once a couple gets married the whole "who pays for what" thing becomes void since both people are sharing the same income.
Not true. Finances are handled differently in each relationship based on how each couple views the way things should be paid and sometimes on the size of the discrepancy between the two incomes. Some go the 50/50 route, some opt for whoever makes more covers more, and then there is the classic 'what's her's is her's, what's mine is . . . her's'. I know some married people who still have a very clear deliniation of monetary holdings.
#55 Sep 01 2006 at 11:15 AM Rating: Good
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Not true. Finances are handled differently in each [marriage] based on how each couple views [...] things...

I know some married people who still have a very clear deliniation of monetary holdings.

You know, its not for me to say what will or won't work for people, but this always seemed to me to be a bit defeatist. Its almost like planning for the eventual end of the marriage. I know that 50%, or more, of marriages end in divorce these days, but for Bob's sake, you should at least mean the vows in the early years. When I pledged till death do us part with my wife, I meant it. No judge is gonna take half my sh;t. I'm gonna kill the ***** (yes, if she tries to divorce me I will be really ok with calling her a *****).
#56 Sep 01 2006 at 11:24 AM Rating: Good
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MoebiusLord wrote:
JD wrote:
Not true. Finances are handled differently in each [marriage] based on how each couple views [...] things...

I know some married people who still have a very clear deliniation of monetary holdings.

You know, its not for me to say what will or won't work for people, but this always seemed to me to be a bit defeatist. Its almost like planning for the eventual end of the marriage. I know that 50%, or more, of marriages end in divorce these days, but for Bob's sake, you should at least mean the vows in the early years. When I pledged till death do us part with my wife, I meant it. No judge is gonna take half my sh;t. I'm gonna kill the ***** (yes, if she tries to divorce me I will be really ok with calling her a *****).
In my limited experience, I notice that those people who keep their finances separate tend to be on their second marriage. I think it gives them a (false) sense of security that should things go wrong at least their money won't get tangled up. People and money always prove for an interesting mix.
#57 Sep 01 2006 at 1:13 PM Rating: Good
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In my marriage, it's all MY money.

Ha!
#58 Sep 01 2006 at 1:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Pretty soon, kids will come out of the womb equipped with cellphones.

Hehe, I laughed out loud and all my co-workers came over to see what I was laughing at. We now have some conversation material for the rest of the day.
#59 Sep 01 2006 at 1:24 PM Rating: Good
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Wulelendamuwi the Venerable wrote:
The Paskil of Doom wrote:

Pretty soon, kids will come out of the womb equipped with cellphones.

Hehe, I laughed out loud and all my co-workers came over to see what I was laughing at. We now have some conversation material for the rest of the day.
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#60 Sep 01 2006 at 2:46 PM Rating: Decent
In the summer, it seems molasses would go uphill faster in the middle of winter. It doesn't get busy here until the middle of September, which kinda sucks, because you can only surf the internet for so long.
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